Revive silhouette night. This country’s forefathers and foremothers found great entertainment in setting up a bald light, seating the subject before it, and projecting a silhouette onto a grid on the wall. That same grid, in smaller scale, was printed on the paper before the artist. Capturing a likeness works well when you have the picture mapped out for you. Another approach involves tracing your child’s silhouette on a piece of paper taped to the wall.

This intriguing exercise teaches patience, among other things. Your young models, for example, must sit still for some time. Minutes seem like hours. Doubtless your children will be anxious to see the pictures you’ve created. They’ll want to know if they look beautiful or handsome. What do you think? That question burns bright in their eyes.

You have a God-ordained opportunity to tell your child the truth. In loving and direct words, explain how precious they are in God’s sight—and yours. Your kids are stunning. See that God-glimmer within. As you trace their portraits, compliment their most lovely features, like long lashes, thick hair, and a strong chin.

Silhouettes hide the details and overlook imperfections. When you compliment your young subject, do the same. No reason to mention the latest crop of pimples or glasses that keep slipping. Build up your child with praise and make him or her feel good about God’s creative genius.

As you look at the smooth edge of the silhouette, think about the edges of the souls within your care. Check for frays or tatters. The speed of life can choke out innocence before the roots have time to sink down. Protect the tender, exposed parts of their spirits and give your kids room to grow.