To the Catcaller

AMANDA OTTAWAY

This piece isn’t directly related to Carolyn’s, but she and I—like so many women and girls—have spent a lot of time talking and thinking about harassment this year.

You wanted to know where I was going.

Well,

I’m feeling generous.

Last week when you whistled at me from behind

I was on my way to poop

in the Starbucks public bathroom.

Three days ago when you hollered

at my hips I was going to borrow some tampons

for the blood in my grungy underwear.

Yesterday when you told me

I wouldn’t be able to run away I was en route to a wart-removal kit

and some toenail clippers.

Today it’s my turn to talk.

Tugged skyward by moontides

pinned earthside by gravity

women stride, shift, stomp, eat

space. We are a flesh requiem,

we are ancient torchbearers and eternal life-breathers

and we are all of these things bound up in skin and blood and bone,

like yours.

I am in a carnal orbit of my mother’s creation,

like you.

I am skin and phlegm and sinew

like you.

I am a bloody, belching, hungry, lusty, defecating, ephemeral lump

of flesh and stardust,

like you.