Going down doesn’t have to be one-sided. If you feel a tingling while ravishing his rod, reach down and take care of yourself too!
• Rub off against his calves while you give him a blow job. Control your arousal and wait for his impending orgasm before letting your orgasm flow simultaneously.
• Simultaneous orgasms can and do happen, but you don’t want them to turn into a high-pressure goal. One way to learn to control your orgasm is to masturbate and practice alternating between different levels of arousal (through peaks and plateaus) before coming.
• Kneel between his legs while he relaxes in an armchair. Look him in his eyes and unhook your bra, allowing the cups to rest against your breasts. Lick all around his shaft as though your tongue is dancing on a pole for his visual pleasure.
• Once he is hard, allow your bra to fall to the floor, and press your breasts around his cock as you suck teasingly on the tip. Gradually suck him deeper into your mouth with loose lips and light suction.
• By now, he should be aching for more, so wrap your lips tightly around his shaft at the deepest point you can reach and suck as hard as you can. Keep sucking as you ride his legs and rub yourself into a frenzied state of arousal.
• Time your frottage (dry humping) with your cock sucking, and wait for his cock to start pulsing intensely—this marks the point of no return and is a sure-fire indicator that he’s about to come!
• Do whatever it takes to get yourself off, too—reach down with your hands, grab hold of your favorite vibrator, or fantasize about a hot sex scene so that you feel the orgasmic contractions as he comes or shortly thereafter.