There is more to a facial than simply coming on a lover’s face. Oral sex is a highly personal act, and its intimacy can be intensified with some passionate eye contact, naughty-but-nice dirty talk, and erotic voyeurism.
Rub your face all over his cock and balls and encourage him to relish in the thrill of watching himself come all over your breasts, stomach, mouth, or face.
• Position yourself so he has a nice view of your face between his legs.
• Draw his head into your mouth and press it into your cheeks so that he can see its shape through your cheeks. Close your lips to pop him out and run the tip of his cock over your lips while looking up into his eyes.
• Lick him with a slobbery tongue from base to tip, and rub his shaft up and down the side of your face. Offer a genuine compliment, such as “I love your cock!” “It’s so big in my mouth!” or “I just want to taste you!”
• Suck him into your mouth and take breaks to rub him all over your cheeks, lips, and chin. When he’s ready to come, tell him you want to watch, and feel his hot load against your skin.
• Grab him by the base and point it wherever you want it: in your open mouth, all over your breasts, on your stomach, or on your face.
• Coming on a lover’s face is a top fantasy for many men. Some claim that it’s an act of degradation (which can be a part of consensual power play), while others suggest that it’s more about acceptance and validation because it’s so common in mainstream porn. No consensual act is inherently degrading; nor is any sex act inherently empowering. Sex, pleasure, and power are yours to negotiate, and only you can define what gets you off.