An eager lover who dives right in with passion and lust is sometimes all it takes to put her in the mood and bring her to the heights of orgasmic bliss. So, don’t be shy! The Open Sesame offers the ideal balance between her vulnerability and your assured attentiveness to let her feel like a lady—once, twice, and three times over.
• Use your fingers to pry open her juicy lips and make way for your talented tongue.
• If she’s shy about opening her legs wide and letting you dive in, get her permission to tie her legs spread eagle against your bed posts (or the legs of a wide armchair) before going down on her.
• Caress her thighs with some edible massage oil or lube to help put her in the mood.
• Look down between her legs and then look up into her eyes and tell her she’s beautiful. Then, smile as you lower your head and pry open her lips with your fingers.
• Breathe gently over her opening and tell her how desperate you are to taste it.
• Rub your cheeks against her open lips before licking across the opening horizontally from side to side and then diagonally from top to bottom.
• Suck on the opening, and point the tip of your tongue into her vagina, gradually increasing the depth and allowing your face to press flat against her wet spot.
• Curl your tongue upward and feel her G-spot as the tip of your nose rests gently against her clit.
• Alternate between tongue strokes, tongue insertions, and lip sucking, paying attention to her unique responses, sounds, and movements.