The way we masturbate during our early sexual years leaves a lasting imprint on our arousal and experiences of pleasure for years to come. Because so many women learn to orgasm by rubbing their legs together or wrapping them around a firm object, it’s no surprise that this rubbing sensation becomes an essential component of their lifelong orgasms. Take advantage of this go-to self-pleasure secret to “screw” her thighs while simultaneously stimulating her sensitive mons, clitoris and labia.
Squeeze her thighs together to create tight friction and use your hands, toys, and cock to rub her into a state of orgasmic bliss.
• Start with some simple tongue screwing: use your tongue like a small penis to penetrate her, sliding in and out of her vagina as deep as you can reach. Don’t be afraid to let your face (nose, cheeks, and forehead) press flat against her vulva.
• Just as her body begins to beg for more of your slick tongue, grab hold of her outer thighs and squeeze her legs together. Slide your tongue into the crease of her inner thighs and twirl it around the warm, wet space.
• Continue to “screw” her thighs with your tongue, hand (with lube), cock, or favorite vibrating toy. As you glide in and out, be sure to press upward against her vulva.
• Tell her to squeeze her thighs together to heighten the friction and use her hips to guide the pace.
• Some women can reach orgasm simply from rubbing their thighs together or crossing their legs. These movements can stimulate the clitoral nerves and activate the muscles of her pelvic floor that contract during orgasm.