CONGRATULATIONS FOR CHOOSING to embark on this journey of transforming your shyness into strength. As you practice the exercises in this book, you will solve your shyness. Give yourself a giant pat on the back for your determination and motivation. And remember, fear of failure is a natural and perfectly normal response for all of us when we venture into new territory. You have made a decision and choice to change your life for the better and you will succeed. You are not aiming for perfection here. The only thing required of you for success is a willingness to try. If you have a setback or disappointment, great! You’ve now joined the rest of the world. Keep in mind that every difficult situation you encounter is an opportunity for growth and greater self-awareness. And now you have chosen to look at your life in a hopeful, optimistic way.
Once you have set the course of your life in a positive direction, there is no turning back. You have nothing to lose besides your feelings of isolation, sadness, and pain. You are entitled to have the life you want. You deserve to be joyful and content with who you are. Living a rich, full, and meaningful existence is your birthright. Go for it!