CONTENTS

Introduction: Living a Life that Really Matters

Keeping Track of Life Manifesto

PART ONE: Creating Lasting Connections

HABIT 1: FILL THE SPACES

Fill the Spaces with the Songs of Life

Fill the Spaces with Connective Silence

Fill the Spaces with the Sound of Hope

Hands Free Life Habit Builder 1: Taking Off the Ticking Clock

HABIT 2: SURRENDER CONTROL

Surrender Control to Be Free of Past Mistakes

Surrender Control to Broaden Future Opportunities

Surrender Control to Fulfill Your Life’s Purpose

Hands Free Life Habit Builder 2: Opening Clenched Fists

HABIT 3: BUILD A FOUNDATION

Build a Foundation through Listening

Build a Foundation through Lifelines

Build a Foundation through Faith

Hands Free Life Habit Builder 3: The Best Ten Minutes

PART TWO: Living for Today

HABIT 4: TAKE THE PRESSURE OFF

Take the Pressure Off so Others May Too

Take the Pressure Off to Live Life Fully

Take the Pressure Off to Embrace Good Enough for Today

Hands Free Life Habit Builder 4: Making Today Matter

HABIT 5: SEE WHAT IS GOOD

See What Is Good to Nurture Inner Gifts

See What Is Good to Gain Perspective

See What Is Good to Become a Noticer

Hands Free Life Habit Builder 5: Glimmers of Goodness

HABIT 6: GIVE WHAT MATTERS

Give What Matters to Play Again

Give What Matters to Gift a Moment

Give What Matters to Ease the Pain

Hands Free Life Habit Builder 6: Offering a Piece of Yourself

PART THREE: Protecting What Matters

HABIT 7: ESTABLISH BOUNDARIES

Establish Boundaries to Protect Innocence

Establish Boundaries to Protect Relationships

Establish Boundaries to Protect Moments

Hands Free Life Habit Builder 7: Hands Free House Rules

HABIT 8: LEAVE A LEGACY

Leave a Legacy to Grasp Simple Joys

Leave a Legacy to Inspire a Future Generation

Leave a Legacy of Self-Kindness

Hands Free Life Habit Builder 8: The Presence Pledge

HABIT 9: CHANGE SOMEONE’S STORY

Change Someone’s Story by Responding with Empathy

Change Someone’s Story by Opening Your Arms

Change Someone’s Story by Taking the First Step

Hands Free Life Habit Builder 9: The Six-Second Challenge

Conclusion

The Ultimate Hands Free Life Habit Builder: If I Live to Be 100

Acknowledgments