THE MAN OF FEELING:
[Did] you know by what complicated misfortunes she had fallen to that miserable state in which you now behold her, I should have no need of words to excite your compassion. Think, Sir, of what once she was! Would you abandon her to the insults of an unfeeling world…?
The Man of Feeling, by Henry Mackenzie
MELANCHOLY:
I have always carried a large load of melancholy [un gran sacco di melanconia] with me. I have no reason for it, but so I am made and so are made all men who feel and who are not altogether stupid.
Giacomo Puccini
What we think is secondhand, what we experience is chaotic, what we are is unclear. We don’t have to be ashamed, but we are nothing, and we earn nothing but chaos.
My Prizes, by Thomas Bernhard
COZINESS:
Think how cosy it must be in its nest.
W. H. Auden
HEROES:
This is your farewell kiss, you dog. This is for the widows and children of Iraq!
Muntadhar al-Zaidi
Not like the brazen giant of Greek fame,
With conquering limbs astride from land to land;
Here at our sea-washed, sunset gates shall stand
A mighty woman with a torch, whose flame
Is the imprisoned lightning, and her name
Mother of Exiles. From her beacon-hand
Glows world-wide welcome; her mild eyes command
The air-bridged harbor that twin cities frame.
“Keep, ancient lands, your storied pomp!” cries she
With silent lips. “Give me your tired, your poor,
Your huddled masses yearning to breathe free,
The wretched refuse of your teeming shore,
Send these, the homeless, tempest-tost to me,
I lift my lamp beside the golden door!”
The New Colossus, by Emma Lazarus
But only be good, dear, only be brave, only be kind and true always, and then you will never hurt anyone as long as you live, and you may help many, and the big world may be better because my little child was born. And that is the best of all. . . it is better than everything else, that the world should be a little better because one man has lived—even ever so little better, dearest.
Little Lord Fauntleroy, by Frances Hodgson Burnett
[Each] month the ovum undertakes an extraordinary expedition through the Fallopian tubes to the uterus, an unseen equivalent of going down the Mississippi on a raft or over Niagara Falls in a barrel. Ordinarily too, the ovum travels singly, like Lewis or Clark, in [a] kind of existential loneliness. . . One might say that the activity of ova involves a daring and independence absent, in fact, from the activity of spermatozoa, which move in jostling masses, swarming out on signal like a crowd of commuters from the 5:15.
Thinking About Women, by Mary Ellmann
“Business!” cried the Ghost, wringing its hands again. “Mankind was my business. The common welfare was my business; charity, mercy, forbearance, and benevolence were, all, my business. The dealings of my trade were but a drop of water in the comprehensive ocean of my business!”
A Christmas Carol, by Charles Dickens
I’ll just say that I believe—not empirically, alas, but only theoretically—that, for someone who has read a lot of Dickens, to shoot his like in the name of some idea is more problematic than for someone who has read no Dickens. And I am speaking precisely about reading Dickens, Sterne, Stendhal, Dostoevsky, Flaubert, Balzac, Melville, Proust, Musil, and so forth; that is, about literature, not literacy or education. A literate, educated person, to be sure, is fully capable, after reading this or that political treatise or tract, of killing his like, and even of experiencing, in so doing, a rapture of conviction. Lenin was literate, Stalin was literate, so was Hitler; as for Mao Zedong, he even wrote verse. What all these men had in common, though, was that their hit list was longer than their reading list.
Nobel Lecture, by Joseph Brodsky
MUSIC:
I consider that music is, by its very nature, essentially powerless to express anything at all, whether a feeling, an attitude of mind, a psychological mood, a phenomenon of nature, etc. . . . Expression has never been an inherent property of music. That is by no means the purpose of its existence.
An Autobiography, by Igor Stravinsky
PUBLIC SPEAKING:
There can be few honours more pleasing to an old boy than to be called upon to speak at his old school. . . [Face] the audience squarely and then commence the peroration.
Speeches and Toasts, by Leslie F. Stemp and Frank Shackleton
Avoid distracting gestures. . .
– The commander places her hands on her hips.
– The chilly presenter crosses his arms over his chest.
– The gun-shot victim clings to her upper arm with one hand.
– The armless presenter leaves his hands behind his back.
– The pocket jingler puts a hand in her pocket, shaking keys and coins.
– The clutcher grasps a pen or pointer and never puts the object down.
– The slapper makes noise as he hits his palms against his thighs.
– The exposed presenter clasps her hands in front of her, where a “fig leaf” would be.
Guide to Presentations, by Lynn Russell and Mary Munter
DUALISM:
[It] is characteristic of men-values that they set the world apart in sharply divided pairs of opposites, one of which is favoured, and the other not. . . [This] is like a solar mythic view, since all shadows flee from the sun.. . . [In] the lunar mythic view, however, which is the more naturally feminine one,. . . the interplay of the opposites creates wholeness.
The Wise Wound, by Penelope Shuttle and Peter Redgrove
FEMALE PLEASURE:
[The] important question for a male is not: Can I place my sperm inside this female? Rather the crucial question is: Can I persuade this female to use my sperm instead of some other male’s?. . . [The] primary role of the penis is none other than to act as an internal courting device—shaped to provide the vagina with the best possible and reproductively successful stimulation.
The Story of V, by Catherine Blackledge
THE COLONIZATION OF WOMEN:
I don’t think about men. I really don’t care about them. I’m concerned with women’s capacities, which have been infinitely diminished under patriarchy.
Mary Daly
While European cultures continued a peaceful existence and reached a true florescence and sophistication of art and architecture in the 5th millennium B.C., a very different Neolithic culture. . . emerged in the Volga basin of South Russia. . . This new force inevitably changed the course of European prehistory. [Its] basic features [included] patriarchy; patrilineality; small-scale agriculture and animal husbandry. . . the eminent place of the horse in cult; and, of great importance, armaments—bow and arrow, spear, and dagger. These characteristics. . . stand in opposition to the Old European. . . peaceful, sedentary culture with highly developed agriculture and with great architectural, sculptural and ceramic traditions.
The Language of the Goddess, by Marija Gimbutas
[Political myths] codify men’s consciousness of and violent maintenance of their own sexual-political supremacy which can be sustained only through an endless process of vigilant suppression, exploitation and ideological deception of the female sex.
Blood Relations, by Chris Knight
[The] more warlike and authoritarian a society is, the stronger its menstrual taboo. . . Warlike, aggressive male societies are in rivalry with women over which sex sheds the most sacred blood.
Margaret Mead
[Only] the bad effects of the menstrual cycle have ever been systematically described.
The Wise Wound, by Penelope Shuttle and Peter Redgrove
I’m convinced that accounts are kept somewhere, that everything is entered on the record somewhere. . . and the bill will have to be paid. Sooner or later, the time will come. So let us imagine women (that hardly negligible half of humankind, after all), those Baba Yagas. . . sallying forth to settle the accounts?! For every smack in the face, every rape, every affront, every hurt. . . widows rising from the ashes where they were burned alive. . . homeless women, beggar women. . . women with faces scorched by acid. . . hundreds of thousands of girls destroyed by AIDs, victims of insane men, paedophiles. . . the circumcised women with their vaginas sewn up. . . the women with silicone breasts and lips, botoxed faces and cloned smiles. . . the millions of famished women who give birth to famished children. . .
Baba Yaga Laid an Egg, by Dubravka Ugrešić
MALE NUTTINESS:
People would sooner watch the natural environment collapse than transfer the responsibility of governance from men to women.
Antony Hegarty
[S]ooner or later. . . we will use up energy supplies, minerals and resources. Current green thinking will just delay the inevitable. Getting off the earth is the only way to make us truly sustainable. Our heavy industries could be moved to the moon, or just put into orbit. . .
Letter to the paper
Technical in the social situation, sociable in the technical situation? That’s the hallmark of a nerd.
Charlie Brooker
WAR:
Politicians who took us to war should have been given the guns and told to settle their differences themselves, instead of organising nothing better than legalised mass murder.
The Last Fighting Tommy, by Harry Patch
This memorial commemorates the 48,000 members of the Commonwealth who died in the campaign in Italy which commenced in June 1943. All these battles were fought at great cost and the total casualties, killed, wounded and missing were 300,000. There are 50 Commonwealth cemeteries in Italy. We of the Italy Star Association do not forget our gallant American, French and Polish comrades, who with other nationalities. . . fought and died alongside us.
WHEN YOU WALK
THROUGH PEACEFUL
LANES SO GREEN
REMEMBER US AND
THINK WHAT MIGHT
HAVE BEEN
WE DO REMEMBER THEM
Memorial in the Westgate Gardens, Canterbury, Kent
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Husband arrested after car bomb killing
Man crashes plane into US tax office after angry online rant
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Yorkshire Ripper asks for limit on sentence
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Killer of widow gets life
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Student sportsman accused after ex-girlfriend found dead
Life for killer who battered grandmother to death
Post Office killing—husband arrested
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Chef who hid wife’s body in trash found guilty of murder
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Ex-boyfriend held after nurse is stabbed to death
“They want it really”—review of police attitudes to rape
Decades of police blunders in murder case: killer could have been stopped
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Campaign for mother facing death by stoning
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New Orleans shooting spree—officers charged
Driver shoots 8 dead after being fired
Murder victim had reported her ex-husband to the police four times
Husband killed wife 5 months after wedding
Man kills seven in Bratislava shooting spree
Husband is jailed for ordering machete murder
Murder case jury sees video of attack on baby
Teenager in court over rape of woman found dead
“How could they dump our daughter like trash by the side of the road?”
Youngest Tucson victim laid to rest
Jail for man who strangled wife in front of sons
Officers “too busy” to visit murder scene
Father faces life for murder of daughter, 5
Murders of partners by men rise steeply
Carpenter convicted of gruesome canal murders as police warn of more victims
Family grief over girl whipped to death
Women left widowed by violence
Secret video shows US air crew gunning down Iraqi citizens
Five campaigners for female MP killed in run-up to Afghan polls
Teenager raped five-year-old after being spared jail term
Man pleads guilt for locking nurse in trunk of his car for 10 days
Teenager who attacked woman with bleach gets detention
Football star jailed for sex assault
Pedophile ringleaders get jail for appalling attacks
Teenager remanded over schoolgirl rape on video
Hanged girl bullied for being “too pretty”
Family’s fury after daughter murdered by ex-partner who had repeatedly raped her
US death rate for women giving birth declared “scandalous” by Amnesty
Father allowed to rape daughters for 33 years
Fashion under fire as leading photographer is accused of sexually exploiting models
Police officers jailed for being cruel to woman in custody
Landmark US ruling to grant asylum to victims of severe domestic abuse
Stepfather guilty of raping two-year-old girl
School attack motive was “hatred of humanity”
Earthquakes blamed on “immodest” women
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BP Deepwater slick now worst oil disaster in US history
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Female circumcision continues worldwide
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Speeding police car kills girl, 16
Man battered twin babies to death: “They cried like sheep.”
Woman shot in the head for an affair
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Mel Gibson investigated for domestic violence against former partner
Police officer raped vulnerable women
Man who killed wife with hammer claims “momentary aberration”
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Jimmy Carter severs ties with Southern Baptist Convention over misogyny
Police find more bodies in search for serial killer stalking Long Island
TV sets girls up for lifetime of objectification
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Aung San Suu Kyi praised more for beauty than her politics
Police hunt father as bodies discovered in garden
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