Contents

Introduction

Notes on the Japanese Language

Preface

1

Origins of Japanese Etiquette

2

The Role of Harmony

3

The Vertical Society

4

Samurai Legacies

5

Language in Japanese Etiquette

6

The Use of Names

7

Using Titles

8

When & How to Bow

9

Shaking Hands the Japanese Way

10

The Protocol of Seating

11

Dining Etiquette

12

The Japanese Way of Drinking

13

Paying Bar & Restaurant Bills

14

Public Etiquette

15

Electronic Etiquette

16

Using (& Surviving) Public Transportation

17

Bath & Toilet Protocol

18

The Importance of Gift Giving

19

Japan’s Home-Visiting Etiquette

20

Tea Ceremony Protocol

21

Japan’s Festival Culture

22

The Importance of the Apology

23

Expressing Appreciation

24

Dating in Japan

25

Wedding Customs

26

Wakes, Funerals & Memorial Services

27

Shrine & Temple Etiquette

28

Inns as Portals to Japan’s Past

29

The Art of Arts & Crafts

30

People-Watching

31

Japan’s Greening

32

Business in Japan

33

Business Etiquette—the Younger Generation

34

The Changing Role of Foreigners in the Workplace

35

Introductions & Relationships

36

Name Cards & How to Exchange Them

37

Vague Language

38

Criticism Taboos

39

The Pitfalls of Praise in Japan

40

Sayonara—“If it must be so!”

Glossary of Useful Terms

Glossary of IT Terms

Index