Index

Abstinence-only sex education, 74, 75, 97

Abusive relationships, 97, 110

Accountability processes, 138, 139

Acquaintance rape, 16

Affirmative consent, 17

Alcohol, 52–54

Anal sex, 106, 107

Aromanticism, 89–91, 124–126

Asexuality/asexual activism, 82, 89–91, 124–126, 133

“being raped by no one in particular,” 90

Asking, 43, 44

Assange, Julian, 5

Autonomy, 93–96

Backlash, 171–173, 179

BDSM practices, 54, 118, 141–146, 152

Beauty standards, 69

“Being raped by no one in particular,” 90

Black Lightning, 120

Black motherhood 123, 124

Bodily autonomy

alcohol and drugs and, 54–56

children and, 165–168

concept of, 13, 14, 37

consent negotiation and, 40–51

constraints on, 21

construction of sex and, 36

discourse and, 70

limits of, 66–68

sex advice and, 114

sexual scripts and, 83–85

sex workers and, 25

Boundaries, 59–62, 110, 111

British Crime Survey, 3

Change, resistance to, 170–178

Chemsex, 55

Children, bodily autonomy and, 165–168

Coercion, 31, 32, 59

Collins, Patricia Hill, 123

Compulsory sexuality, 90, 91, 124–126, 132, 133, 165, 170

Conditions, 45

Conformity, 85, 86

Consciousness-raising, 128–135, 152

Consent

conditional, 45

culture and, 97–126

developing understanding of, 127–135

fiction and, 147–152

history of approaches to, 14–21

identity, marginalization and, 87–93

law and, 27–35

negotiating, 37–60, 116–121

principle behind, 13, 14

radical potential of, 8–12

withdrawal of, 32, 46, 62, 63, 120, 121

withholding of, 47, 48

Consent behaviors, 40

Consent-centric definitions of rape, 31, 32, 158

Consent-centric interactions, 168

Constructing subjects, 88, 89

Consummation requirement, 27, 28

Contextual factors, 49

Continuous consent, 45, 46

Contraception, 83

Contractual model of consent, 17, 20, 33, 34, 45

Co-optation, 173–175, 178, 179

Cosby, Bill, 5, 175–177

Crenshaw, Kimberlé, 186n5, 189n13

Criminal justice system, 135, 140, 157–162

Cultural background, 56

Cultural change, 162–169

Culture, consent and, 97–126

Date rape, 16

Deadpool movies, 121

Dehumanization, 92

Demisexuality, 89

Depp, Johnny, 176

Derailing tactics, 48

Desexualization, 91–94, 104, 123–126

Disabled people, 36, 84

Disjunctures between sexual scripts, 85–87

Domestic violence, rates of, 3

Drugs, 52–55

Dubcon (dubious consent), 150, 151

Duress, 31, 32

Education systems, 166, 167

Enthusiastic consent, 17, 132

Evangelical communities, 73–75

Evidence collection, 32, 160, 161

Exception finding, 86

Fanfiction community, 145–150

Feminism/feminist theorists, 66, 67, 92–94, 98–105, 126, 127, 154

Fiction, 147–152

Fifty Shades series, 145–148

Ford, Christine Blasey, 5, 173

Foucault, Michel, 68

Free love, 75

Frozen, 120

Gavey, Nicola, 189n5, 189n10

Greenwashing, 173, 174

Have/hold discourse, 70, 72–75, 78, 79, 82

Heteronormative gender roles, 9

Hill, Anita, 5

Hook-up situations, 51–54

House of Cards, 118, 174

How to Get Away with Murder, 121

Hypersexualization, 93, 94, 104, 122, 124

Identity, 87

Intersectionality, 91, 138, 189n13

Intersex people, 36

“Judicial rape,” 4

Kavanaugh, Brett, 5, 173, 176

Knowledge creation, 128, 134

Law

consent and, 27–35

decentering, 135–141

Learning Good Consent, 187n5

Legal proceedings, 32–34

Legal reform campaigns, 16, 157–162

Lived experience, 128–130

Male sexual drive discourse, 70–74, 78, 79, 87–89, 170

Marginalization, 26, 35, 36, 87–93, 122

Marital rape, 28, 34, 50, 157

Marriage, 49–51

Marriage laws, 27

#MeToo, 6, 115, 130–132, 153, 154, 167, 170–179

Moana, 122–124

Mobile phone apps, 59–62

Neoliberalism, 19, 76, 77, 88

“No means no” approach, 15–19, 114, 132

Non-consent, 28, 30

Normality, margins of, 141–146

Othering, 92

Party and Play (P&P), 55

Pateman, Carole, 10

Penetration, focus on, 39, 40

Permissive discourse, 70, 75–78, 82, 87–89

Personal agency, 16–18

Physical violence, 24

Pinkwashing, 174

Placation, 175–179

Popular culture, 97–100, 116–126

Pornography, 100–107, 147

Power

autonomy and, 94–96

differentials/imbalances in, 17, 20, 149, 150

discourse and, 68–70

sex and, 65–96

Property law, 13, 28, 156

Psychoanalytic approach, 79, 80

Public order, 28

Purity culture, 74

Queer culture, 55, 83, 89, 103–107, 118, 148, 149

Race, 26, 34, 122–124, 136–138, 161, 162

Radical feminist tradition, 15, 20

Rape

convictions for, 3

definitions of, 28–31, 35, 36, 157, 158

Rape culture, 1–8, 73–75, 156, 170–171

Rape kit processes, 160, 161

Rape myths, 21–27, 33, 130, 156

Rape victims, 4

Rapists, perceptions of, 23, 24

Relational autonomy, 94–96

Relationship education materials, 106

Relationship maintenance, 66, 114, 115

Religious communities, 73–75

Resistance, 24, 33, 57, 61

Restorative justice, 35

Ridicule, 172

Romance novels, 108–112

obstacles to love in, 109

Safer sex practices, 87

Safewords, 142, 143

Saying no, 47, 48

Scott Pilgrim vs. The World, 120

Seduction, 56–59

Self-subversion, 110

Sex

definitions of, 80, 81

unwanted, 65–70, 133

Sex advice, 113–116

Sex education, 74, 75, 97–100, 106

Sex Education Forum, 97

Sex workers, 25, 26, 45, 136

Sex-critical approaches, 20, 21, 132

Sex-positive approach, 142

Sex-positive feminism, 18

Sexual drives, 79, 80

Sexual offenses

definitions of, 28, 29, 30

tiering of, 29–31

Sexual orientation, 36, 55, 174

Sexual scripts, 20, 21, 31, 41, 51, 56, 62, 79–87, 98

Sexual victimization, rates of, 3

Sexual violence, 130–132, 135–140, 153–162, 170

Smart, Carol, 186n11

Social media, 129

Sociological approach, 80

Spacey, Kevin, 175–177

Stalking, rates of, 3

STIs, 83

Stranger rape myth, 23, 24

Strauss-Kahn, Dominique, 5

Survivors of sexual violence, 130–132, 140, 153–162

Symbolic interactionism, 79

Technology, 59–61, 63

Thomas, Clarence, 5

Token resistance to sex myth, 24, 57, 60, 62

Trans women, 136

Transformative justice, 35, 138–141, 152, 162

Transgender people, 36, 88

True Blood, 118

Trump, Donald, xi, xii, 156, 172, 175

Twilight series, 148

Victims

blaming, 25, 26, 33, 71, 74, 93, 170

support for, 159

Violence against women, 100, 101

Violent rape myth, 24

Weinstein, Harvey, 5, 154, 167

What about the Rapists?, 193n6

Work–life balance, 76

“Yes means yes” approach, 17–19

Young people, advice literature and, 115

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