APPENDIX A
emotion words

The following list of emotion words was compiled from an online search by computer linguist Steven DeRose. It attests to the subtlety and diversity of human emotional experience. The list can be used to find a label for almost any emotion you’re likely to have in daily life.

This list, as well as the author’s sources, can also be found at www.derose.net/steve/resources/emotionwords/ewords.html. Reprinted by permission of Steven J. DeRose.

PAIN/PLEASURE

Angry

acrimonious, angry, annoyed, appalled, bitter, boiling, cross, devastated, disgusted, enraged, frustrated, fuming, furious, hostile, in a huff, in a stew, incensed, indignant, inflamed, infuriated, irate, irritated, livid, mad, offended, outraged, piqued, provoked, rageful, resentful, sullen, up in arms, virulent, worked up, wrathful, wrought up

Sad

aching, afflicted, agonized, anguished, bereaved, blue, cheerless, clouded, crestfallen, crushed, dark, dejected, depressed, despairing, despondent, disconsolate, discontented, discouraged, disheartened, dismal, displeased, distressed, dolorous, down, downcast, downhearted, dreadful, dreary, dull, embarrassed, flat, frowning, funereal, gloomy, glum, griefstricken, grieved, guilt, hapless, heartbroken, heavyhearted, humiliated, hurt, ill at ease, in despair, in pain, in the dumps, injured, joyless, lonely, low-spirited, low, lugubrious, melancholy, moody, moping, mournful, offended, oppressed, out of sorts, pathetic, piteous, regretful, remorse, rueful, shamed, shocked, somber, sorrowful, spiritless, suffering, sulky, sullen, tortured, tragic, unhappy, woebegone, woeful, worried

Happy

airy, amused, animated, beatific, blissful, blithe, bright, brisk, buoyant, cheerful, cheery, comfortable, contented, convivial, debonair, ecstatic, elated, enthusiastic, excited, exhilarated, exultant, festive, free and easy, frisky, genial, glad, gleeful, great, high-spirited, hilarious, humorous, important, inspired, jaunty, jocular, jolly, jovial, joyful, joyous, jubilant, laughing, lighthearted, lively, lucky, merry, mirthful, overjoyed, peaceful, playful, pleased, proud, rapturous, satisfied, saucy, self-satisfied, serene, sparkling, spirited, sprightly, sunny, terrific, thankful, tranquil, transported, vivacious

Ecstatic

delighted, fabulous, fantastic, overjoyed

POWER/CONTROL/RESPONSIBILITY

Irresistible

aggressive, exuberant, immortal, indestructible, invincible, invulnerable, powerful, unstoppable

Powerless

bashful, blocked, defeated, discouraged, disorganized, exhausted, hopeless, irresponsible, overwhelmed, thwarted, worn down, worn out

Out of Control

careless, impotent, obligated, obliterated, powerless, reckless, vulnerable, weak

Apathetic

complacent, full of ennui, immobilized, lazy, lethargic, numb, passive, quiescent, unconcerned, unmotivated

Adequate

capable, competent, composed, confident, encouraged, excited, in control, organized, responsible

ATTACHMENT

Alone

cut off, excluded, forsaken, isolated, left out, rejected, shut out, detached, lonely, lonesome, misunderstood

Independent

arrogant, autonomous, cocky, strong, macho

Attached

affectionate, belonging, captivated, cherished, compassionate, connected, empathetic, included, liked, loved, loving, understood

Codependent

addicted, insecure, needy, sympathetic

Hated

abandoned, chastised, criticized, deserted, discarded, forsaken, ignored, left out, let down, overlooked, rejected, replaced, unapproved of, unlovable, unloved

Loved

accepted, adored, adorable, approved of, desirable, entrusted, loved, validated, valued, welcomed

SOCIAL STANDING

Belittled

chagrined, diminished, discredited, disgraced, insignificant, underestimated, unsupported

Embarrassed

ashamed, awkward, disparaged, guilty

Average

common, ordinary

Esteemed

admired, appreciated, respected, revered, significant, supported, valued, worshiped

JUSTICE

Cheated

disparaged, victimized

Singled Out

affronted, categorized, guilty, judged, labeled, rated, stereotyped

Justified

absolved, acquitted, appeased, redeemed, satisfied, vindicated

Entitled

exempt, favored, immune, privileged

FREEDOM

Trapped

imprisoned, optionless

Burdened

obligated, pressured, put upon, thwarted

Free

autonomous, independent, released, unshackled

DIRECTION/FOCUS

Derailed

disjointed, disoriented, torn

Lost

baffled, bewildered, confused, unfocused

Focused

committed, complacent, determined, in the zone

Obsessed

compelled, consumed

DESIRE/INTEREST

Demoralized

disappointed, discouraged, disheartened, disillusioned, disinclined, repulsed, stifled, thwarted

Bored

ambivalent, apathetic, complacent, full of ennui, indifferent, lackadaisical, unmotivated

Attracted

absorbed, affected, agog, full of anticipation, anxious, attracted, avid, challenged, concerned, confident, craving, curious, dedicated, desirous, eager, earnest, enchanted, engrossed, enthusiastic, excited, fascinated, fervent, fervid, hopeful, inquisitive, inspiring, intent, interested, intrigued, keen, motivated, needed, nosey, snoopy, zealous

Lustful

addicted, ardent, aroused, horny, hot and bothered, infatuated, lustful, needy, passionate, turned on, yearning

SAFETY/SECURITY

Fearful

afraid, aghast, alarmed, anxious, appalled, apprehensive, awed, cautious, chicken, cowardly, defenseless, diffident, dismayed, doubtful, exposed, fainthearted, fearful, fidgety, frightened, hesitant, horrified, hysterical, in fear, insecure, irresolute, menaced, misgiving, nervous, panicked, petrified, phobic, quaking, restful, scared, shaky, shocked, suspicious, terrified, terrorized, timid, timorous, trembling, tremulous, upset, worried, yellow

Anxious

apprehensive, cautious, concerned, distrustful, doubtful, dubious, full of misgiving, hesitant, indecisive, pensive, perplexed, questioning, skeptical, suspicious, tense, unbelieving, uncertain, uncomfortable, wavering

Fearless

audacious, bold, brave, certain, confident, courageous, daring, dauntless, determined, encouraged, enterprising, gallant, hardy, heroic, reassured, resolute, secure, self-reliant, spirited, stout-hearted

Safe

at ease, calm, comfortable, composed, peaceful, secure

Surprise

astonished, bewildered, confused, shocked, startled, surprised

MISCELLANEOUS

active, afraid, agitated, animosity, antagonistic, artificial, astounded, aware

bad, balanced, beautiful, blurry

childish, clear, clever, competitive, complexity, conciliated, conspicuous, constrained, contemptuous, courteous, cruel, cynical

deceitful, decisive, defiant, dependent, desperate, destructive, different, dim, disqualified, disregarded, dissatisfied, distracted, disturbed, divided, drained, droopy, dumb

earthy, embittered, empty, energetic, enlightened, envious, evil, exasperated

failure, fatigued, firm, flustered, fond, foolish, forgiving, fortunate, frank, frantic, friendly, frozen, fulfilled, full, futile

generous, giddy, good, grateful, greedy, gullible

harried, hasty, haughty, helpful, helpless, homesick, honored, horrible

imposed upon, impressed, inadequate, incapable, incompetent, inconsiderate, ineffective, inferior, intense, intimidated, intricate, involved

jealous, jumpy

kind

lenient, longing, lovable

mature, mean, meditative, methodical, miserable, misery, mocked, murderous

natural, naughty, nice

obnoxious, odd, optimistic, out of place

pained, patient, perturbed, pessimistic, pitied, pleasant, posing, possessive, pretty, pushy, put down, puzzled

relaxed, relieved, respected, responsive, restless, restrained, revengeful, rewarded, ridiculous, right, routine

skeptical, scornful, self-confident, self-doubt, servile, sharp, shy, sick, silly, sincerity, sleepy, slumber, smart, sneaky, solemn, spiteful, stable, stingy, strange, stressed, stubborn, stunned, stupid, successful, suicidal, superior, sure talkative, tempted, tenacious, tender, tentative, terrible, tired, tolerant, troubled, trusted

ugly, unaware, undecided, undeserving, undesirable, uneasy, unequaled, unfair, unfulfilled, unified, unmatched, unsettled, unsupported, unstable, unsure, unwanted, unworthy, uptight, useless

vehement, vigilant, vile, violent, vitriolic

weary, whimsical, wicked, wiped out, wonderful, worthless, worthy