Notes

Introduction

1. William Backus and Marie Chapian, Telling Yourself the Truth (Minneapolis: Bethany House, 2000), 17–18.

2. Steven Pressfield, The War of Art (New York: Black Irish Entertainment, 2012), 40.

Chapter 1: Good-bye to the Victim

1. Viktor Frankl, Man’s Search for Meaning (Cutchoque, NY: Buccaneer Books, 1993), 75.

2. Erich Fromm, The Art of Loving (New York: Harper & Row, 1956), 19.

3. St. Catherine of Genoa, Life and Doctrine of Saint Catherine of Genoa, ed. Paul A. Boer Sr. (New York: Christian Press Assoc. Publishing Company, 1907).

Chapter 2: The Call to Happiness

1. Arthur Schopenhauer, On the Suffering of the World (New York: Penguin, 2004), 5.

2. Ludwig Wittgenstein, Ludwig Wittgenstein Quotes, Goodreads.com, accessed June 16, 2015, http://www.goodreads.com/author/quotes/7672.Ludwig_Wittgenstein.

Chapter 3: The Perfectionist

1. Bronnie Ware, The Top Five Regrets of the Dying (Carlsbad, CA: Hay House, 2012), v.

Chapter 5: The Magnitude of Loss

1. Leonard Berkowitz, Aggression: Its Causes, Consequences, and Control (Philadelphia: Temple University Press, 1994).

Chapter 6: The Search for Success in an Unhappy World

1. Cambridge Dictionaries Online, s.v. “success,” http://dictionary.cambridge.org/us/dictionary/american-english/success.

2. Gavriel Zaloshinsky, ed., The Ways of the Tzaddikim (Nanuet, NY: Feldheim Publishers, 1995).

3. Guilaume Apollinaire, Guilaume Apollinaire Quotes, BrainyQuote.com, accessed June 16, 2015, http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/authors/g/guillaume_apollinaire.html.

4. Missy Franklin, quoted in Chad Bonham, “A Conversation with U.S. Olympian Missy Franklin,” Beliefnet.com, accessed June 16, 2015, http://www.beliefnet.com/columnists/inspiringathletes/2012/06/a-conversation-with-u-s-olympian-missy-franklin.html.

5. Steve Jobs, “‘You’ve Got to Find What You Love,’ Jobs Says,” Stanford News, June 14, 2005, http://news.stanford.edu/news/2005/june15/jobs-061505.html.

6. Phil Mahre, “1-2 and Baby Makes 3,” New York Times, February 20, 1984, http://www.nytimes.com/1984/02/20/sports/1-2-and-baby-makes-3.html.

7. Edmund Bergler, Selected Papers, 1933–1961 (New York: Grune & Stratton, 1969).

Chapter 7: Work and Happiness

1. George Lehner and Ella Kube, The Dynamics of Personal Adjustment (New York: Prentice Hall, 1955).

2. Mother Teresa, No Greater Love (Novato, CA: The World Library, 2001).

Chapter 9: The Fears That Kill You

1. Henri Nouwen, Bread for the Journey (New York: HarperOne, 2006), 26.

2. John of the Cross, Selected Writings, ed. Kieran Kavanaugh (New York: Paulist Press, 1987), 271.

3. Saint Faustina, Diary: Divine Mercy in My Soul, 3rd ed. (Stockbridge, MA: Marian Press, 2005).

4. Maria Etter Woodworth, Signs and Wonders (New Kensington, PA: Whitaker House, 1997).

5. Joan of Arc, Joan of Arc Quotes, BrainyQuote.com, accessed June 16, 2015, http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/authors/j/joan_of_arc.html.

6. Charles S. Carver and Ronald J. Ganellen, “Depression and Components of Self-Punitiveness,” Journal of Abnormal Psychology 92, no. 3 (1983): 330–37.

7. Lois Joy Hofmann, Maiden Voyage: In Search of Adventure and Moments of Bliss (San Diego: PIP Productions, 2010).

Chapter 10: Beloved

1. Marie Chapian, Talk to Me, Jesus: Journal and Devotional (Racine, WI: Broadstreet Publishers, 2015).

2. Mickey O’Neill McGrath, OSFS, www.bromickeymcgrath.com.

3. Julian of Norwich, Revelations of Divine Love, ed. Dom Roger Hudleston, OSB (Mineola, NY: Dover, 2006), 7.

4. John Ramsey, with Marie Chapian, The Other Side of Suffering (New York: Faith Words, Hachette Book Group, 2012).

Chapter 11: The Loveaholic

1. Fromm, Art of Loving, 19.

2. James Thurber, The Thurber Carnival (New York: Harper Collins, 1999).

Chapter 12: Heart and Soul Happiness

1. Viktor Frankl, Viktor E. Frankl Quotes, Goodreads.com, accessed June 16, 2015, http://www.goodreads.com/author/quotes/2782.Viktor_E_Frankl.

Chapter 13: Your Happy Brain

1. Rick Hanson, “Taking in the Good,” RickHanson.net, May 1, 2014, http://www.rickhanson.net/event/taking-good.

2. Chapian, Talk to Me, Jesus: Journal and Devotional.

3. Steven Furtick, Sun Stand Still (Colorado Springs: WaterBrook Multnomah, 2010), 9.

4. Candace Pert, “Where Do You Store Your Emotions?” CandacePert.com, accessed June 16, 2015, http://candacepert.com/where-do-you-store-your-emotions.

5. Norman Doidge, The Brain That Changes Itself (New York: Penguin, 2007), 86.

6. Michael Merzenich, quoted in ibid.

Chapter 14: Rest and Idleness for a Happier You

1. Tim Kreider, “The ‘Busy’ Trap,” New York Times, June 30, 2012, http://opinionator.blogs.nytimes.com/2012/06/30/the-busy-trap/?_r=0.

2. Thomas Aquinas, Thomas Aquinas Quotes, BrainyQuote.com, accessed June 16, 2015, http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/quotes/t/thomasaqui186905.html.

3. John Violanti, Dying for the Job: Police Work Exposure and Health (Springfield, IL: Charles C. Thomas Publishing, 2014), 79.

4. Rebecca Smith-Coggins, “Improving Alertness and Performance in Emergency Department Physicians and Nurses: The Use of Planned Naps,” Annals of Emergency Medicine 48, no. 5 (2006): 596–604.

5. Amber Brooks and Leon Lack, “A Brief Afternoon Nap Following Nocturnal Sleep Restriction: Which Nap Duration Is Most Recuperative?” Sleep 29, no. 6 (2006): http://journalsleep.org/ViewAbstract.aspx?pid=26564.

6. M. G. Berman, J. Jonides, and S. Kaplan, “The Cognitive Benefits of Interacting with Nature,” Psychological Science 19, no. 12 (2008): 1207–12.

7. Ovid, Ovid Quotes, BrainyQuote.com, http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/quotes/o/ovid159352.html.

8. Henri Nouwen, The Way of the Heart (New York: Ballantine Books, 1981), 16.

9. Thomas Merton, A Merton Reader, ed. Thomas P. McDonnell (New York: Image Books, 1989), 476.

10. John O’Donohue, Eternal Echoes: Exploring Our Yearning to Belong (New York: Cliff Street Books, 1999).

11. Chapian, Talk to Me, Jesus: Journal and Devotional.

Chapter 15: The Beautiful Now

1. Anthony De Mello, Awareness (Grand Rapids: Zondervan, 1990), 5.

2. Mike Bickle, Song of Songs: The Ravished Heart of God Part 1 (Kansas City, MO: Friends of the Bridegroom, 1999).

3. This section was inspired in part by the foreword of Joan Chittister, Sick, and You Cared for Me: Homilies and Reflections for Cycle B, ed. Deacon Jim Knipper (Princeton: Clear Faith Publishing, 2012).

Chapter 16: The Happiness Recovery Plan

1. Sidonie-Gabriella Colette, Colette Quotes, Goodreads.com, accessed June 16, 2015, http://www.goodreads.com/author/quotes/51575.Colette.

2. W. Beran Wolfe, How to Be Happy Though Human (New York: Farrar & Rinehart, 1931).

3. Saint Faustina, Diary.

4. William Faulkner, William Faulkner Quotes, Goodreads.com, accessed June 16, 2015, http://www.goodreads.com/quotes/129450-given-the-choice-between-the-experience-of-pain-and-nothing.

5. Walt Whitman, “Song of Myself,” Leaves of Grass, www.Bartleby.com/142/14.html.

6. Vera Wang, quoted in Venus Williams, Come to Win (New York: HarperCollins: 2010), 80–82.

7. Steve Jobs, quoted in Jennifer Valentino-DeVries, “Steve Jobs’s Best Quotes,” Digits, October 5, 2012, http://blogs.wsj.com/digits/2012/10/05/steve-jobss-best-quotes-2/.