CONTENTS

Preface: How Not to Read This Book

Introduction

PART 1 MARRIAGE

Chapter 1 New Marriage, Same Spouse

Chapter 2 Friend with Benefits

Chapter 3 Men and Marriage

Chapter 4 The Respectful Wife

Chapter 5 Taking Out the Trash

PART 2 SEX

Chapter 6 Sex: God, Gross, or Gift?

Chapter 7 Disgrace and Grace

Chapter 8 The Porn Path

Chapter 9 Selfish Lovers and Servant Lovers

Chapter 10 Can We _______?

PART 3 THE LAST DAY

Chapter 11 Reverse-Engineering Your Life and Marriage

Acknowledgments

About the Authors

Notes

Index

Appendix I: “Getting to Know Your Spouse” Questionnaire

Appendix II: Date Night Tips

Appendix III: Divorce and Remarriage

Appendix IV: Marriage to an Unbeliever

Appendix V: Sexual Behavior and Religious Belief

Appendix Notes