LIST OF TABLES

  I.1: NARM’s Five Core Needs and Their Associated Core Capacities

  I.2: The Five Adaptive Survival Styles and Their Core Difficulties

  I.3: Development of Core Capacities and the Formation of Adaptive Survival Styles

  I.4: Shame-Based Identifications and Pride-Based Counter-Identifications for Each Adaptive Survival Style

  1.1: Foreclosure of the Self to Maintain the Attachment Relationship

  2.1: Key Features of the Connection Survival Style

  2.2: Therapeutic Strategies for the Connection Survival Style

  3.1: Comparison of the Two Attunement Survival Style Subtypes

  3.2: Key Features of the Attunement Survival Style

  3.3: Therapeutic Strategies for the Attunement Survival Style

  4.1: Key Features of the Trust Survival Style

  4.2: Therapeutic Strategies for the Trust Survival Style

  5.1: Key Features of the Autonomy Survival Style

  5.2: Therapeutic Strategies for the Autonomy Survival Style

  6.1: Key Features of the Love-Sexuality Survival Style

  6.2: Therapeutic Strategies for the Love-Sexuality Survival Style

  7.1: Sympathetically and Parasympathetically Driven Changes that Occur in the Body in Response to Stress or Threat

  7.2: Some Physiological Markers of the Differences between Coherence and Activation

  8.1: Recognizing the Symptoms of Early Trauma

  8.2: Early Sources of Trauma

  8.3: Distortions of Healthy Aggression

  8.4: Effects of Early Trauma on Health

  8.5: Characteristics of Healthy and Compromised Energetic Boundaries

10.1: Primary Principles, Tools, and Techniques Used in the NARM Approach

10.2: Overview of the Basic Steps to Reconnection

10.3: Impact of Trauma on the Eyes

10.4: Techniques Useful in Managing the Therapeutic Process of Connection

10.5: Therapeutic Themes to Keep in Mind When Working with the Connection Survival Style

10.6: Shame-Based Identifications and Pride-Based Counter-Identifications (partial list)

10.7: Summary of Principles and Techniques that Inform the NARM Therapeutic Process with the Connection Survival Style