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Abdy, Jane, Lady (née Noble), 198 & n2

Abdy, Sir Robert, 199n2

Achillopoulos, Costa, 18n2

Acton, Sir Harold, 3n2, 142–3 & n1, 346n1, 347

Acton, William, 367 & n2

Adeane, Edward, 356 & n4

Agrapha range (mountains), 134 & n Agricultural Notebook, The, 247n1, 248

Airlie, David Ogilvy, 8th Earl of, 340 & n1

Alevizakis, George, 210n3

Alevizakis, Father John, 209 & n3

Alexandra, Princess, 213

Alington, Feodorovna, Lady (née Yorke), 319n4, 320

Alington, Napier Sturt, 3rd Baron, 319–20 & n4, 321n5

Almásy, Ilona, 201

Almásy, Janos von, 237n8

Alport, Cuthbert, Baron, 73n5

Alport, Rachel (née Bingham), 71 & n5

Alsop, Susan Mary, 88n2

Amery, John, 146 & n4

Amory, Mark: PLF describes, 7n4; edits Ann Fleming letters, 23n5, 203 & n1, 232; edits Evelyn Waugh’s letters, 144n3, 173 & n3; DD’s friendship with, 196; PLF declines to review book for, 252

Andros, 42

Annesley, Richard Grove, 70n2

Anson, Lady Clodagh, 228 & n1, 229

Antibes, 292

Antrim, Randal McDonnell, 8th Earl of (‘Ran’): at Lismore, 9 & n4; DD meets at Lady Bridget Parsons’, 15; in Paros, 46; shooting, 50; conducts National Trust cruise round Ireland, 111; and National Trust gardens, 199

Apesteguía, Jaime Parladé, Marques de, 91n1, 144, 253, 293, 353

Apesteguía, Janetta, Marquesa de see Woolley, Janetta Armitage, Sir Arthur, 214

Ashton, Sir Frederick, 197 & n2

Asquith, Herbert Henry, 1st Earl of Oxford and Asquith, 8n5

Asquith, Raymond, 218n1

Astaire, Adele see Cavendish, Lady Charles Astaire, Fred, 5 & n1

Astor, Michael and Pandora, 95n1

Athens, 76, 109, 175

Austin, Texas: Harry Ransom Center, 178 & n3

Austria, 117

Avéroff, Evangelos, 81–2 & n1, 133, 192

Avéroff, Tatiana, 134

Baker, Richard, 204

Bannister, Sir Roger, 176 & n2

Bath, Alexander Thynne, 7th Marquess of, 301 & n1

Bath, Henry Thynne, 6th Marquess of, 3n, 12, 59 & n1, 276 & n2, 290–1, 307

Bath, Virginia, Marchioness of (née Parsons; then Tennant), 59 & n1

Batsford Park, Gloucestershire, 211 & n2

Beaton, Sir Cecil, 38 & n1, 53, 68, 119

Beaufort, Caroline, Duchess of (née Thynne), 216n4, 301

Beaufort, David Somerset, 11th Duke of, 216 & n4

Beaufort, Henry Somerset, 10th Duke of (‘Master’), 73n3, 217 & n6

Beaverbrook, William Maxwell Aitken, 1st Baron, 85 & n2

Beckett, Sir Martyn, 50 & n3, 153 & n8, 155–6

Beckett, Priscilla, Lady (née Brett), 51n3

Beddoes, Very Rev. Ron, Provost of Derby Cathedral, 299 & n1

Beddoes, Thomas Lovell, 299

Bedford, John Robert Russell, 13th Duke of: How to Run a Stately Home, 228

Beevor, Antony, 237n11, 360; Crete: The Battle and the Resistance, 264 & n1

Beit, Sir Alfred, 119 & n2

Beit, Clementine, Lady (née Mitford), 119 & n2

Bell, Angelica (later Garnett), 190n1

Bell, Vanessa, 190n1 Belstone Fox, The (film), 218n6

Benaki Museum, 308 & n1

Bence Jones, Mark: Palaces of the Raj, 149 & n3

Berlin, Sir Isaiah, 284n7

Berners, Gerald Tyrwhitt-Wilson, 14th Baron, 232n2

Betjeman, Sir John, 11n3, 154n5, 300 & n3, 310, 321, 366; ‘Dumbleton Hall’ (poem), 31n1

Betjeman, Penelope, Lady (née Chetwode), 150 & n5

Biddesden Manor, Wiltshire, 205n1, 210

Bigham, Joanna (née Murray; later Viscountess Mersey), 158

Bignor Park, Sussex, 206, 266

Birgi, Nuri, 220

Birkenhead, Frederick Winston Furneaux Smith, 2nd Earl of, 85 & n2

Birkhall (house), Aberdeenshire, 348

Blair, Cherie (née Booth), 332

Blair, Tony, 328 & n1, 332, 356

Blake, William, 317

Blakiston, Georgiana: edits Conrad Russell letters, 247n1

Bligh, Sir Timothy, 98 & n4

Blunt, Anthony, 184 & n4

Bock, Field Marshal Fedor von, 215 & n3

Bogarde, Sir Dirk, xv, 19–20 & n2, 290, 301

Bolton Abbey, Yorkshire, 49–50, 109, 210, 218, 277, 343

Bonjour Tristesse (film), 37n1

Bonnet, M. & Mme (née Dubonnet), 69

Bordeaux, 86

Borghese, Princess Pauline: portrait bust at Chatsworth, 363 & n4

Boumaza, Miranda (née Rothschild), 110 & n2

Bowles, Thomas Gibson (DD’s grandfather), 348 & n2, 355

Bowood, Wiltshire, 355

Bowra, Sir Maurice, 46 & n1, 110, 144, 284n7, 320, 365–6; New Bats in Old Belfries (ed. Henry Hardy and Jennifer Holmes), 367n2

Bragg, Melvyn, Baron, 254 & n1

Brahms, Caryl and Ned Sherrin: The Mitford Girls (musical), 189 & n3, 192, 194, 196

Brains Trust, The (radio programme), 48 & n8

Branch, Guy Rawstron, 253n1, 283 & n7

Branch, Lady Prudence (née Pelham), 284n7

Branscombe, Devon, 104

Brenan, Gamel, 122n3

Brenan, Gerald, 121 & n3

British Union of Fascists, 13n2

Brittany, 86, 88

Brock, Michael and Eleanor (eds): H. H. Asquith: Letters to Venetia Stanley, 8n5

Broughshane, Kensington Davison, 3rd Baron, 277 & n1

Brown, Lancelot (‘Capability’), 210

Brown, Tina, 292n1

Bruern Abbey, Oxfordshire, 94 & n1

Bucharest, 199, 201

Buchwald, Art: ‘Six-Minute Louvre’, 147 & n1

Buck, Edward John: Simla Past and Present, 154n7

Buckingham Palace: DD attends party, 197

Buckland, Marion, 250 & n1

Budapest, 199, 201, 233

Burlington, Laura, Countess of (née Roundell), 260n4

Burlington, William Cavendish, Earl of (DD’s grandson), 259 & n4, 262n1

Burn, Barbara, 274 & n2

Burn, Mary (née Booker), 306 & n3

Burn, Michael, 306 & n3

Burrows, Tim, 213

Buxton, Derbyshire, 197n4

Byng, Douglas, 320 & n3

Byron, George Gordon, 6th Baron, 128, 278, 320, 326

Byron, Robert, 358 & n4; The Road to Oxiana, 359n5, 367

Caccia, Harold, Baron, 78 & n1

Calvert, Phyllis, 155 & n3

Cameroon, 42–3, 45

Campbell, Mary see Dunn, Mary, Lady Campbell, Robin, 23n7

Campbell, Thomas, 363n4

Canova, Antonio, 363n4

Cantacuzène, Elena (later Donici; ‘Pomme’), 199 & n2, 201

Cantacuzène, Princess Marie-Blanche (‘Balasha’): PLF’s correpondence with, xi; PLF attempts to evacuate from Romania, 82 & n3; home in Moldavia, 202; sings Provençal carols, 253n1; and Idina Sackville, 282–3

Cap Ferrat, France, 20

Capote, Truman, 47 & n4, 53

Carr, Sir Raymond (‘Professor Brainstorm’), 195 & n2

Carrington, Dora, 75n6, 121 & n3, 205, 207 & n2, 297; Letters and Extracts from her Diaries (ed. David Garnett), 205n1, 320 & n5

Carritt, Dr Christian, 313 & n1, 336, 340, 342–3

Carritt, David, 111 & n1

Cavendish, Lady Celina (DD’s granddaughter), 259 & n3

Cavendish, Lord Charles, 6n1

Cavendish, Lady Charles (Adele Astaire), xx, 6n1

Cavendish, Lady Elizabeth (DD’s sister-in-law; ‘Deacon’), 9 & n3, 245, 312, 321

Cavendish, Lady Emma see Tennant, Lady Emma

Cavendish, Henry, 173

Cavendish, Lady Jasmine (DD’s granddaughter), 259 & n3

Cavendish, Lady Sophia see Topley, Lady Sophia

Cecil family, 80n3

Cecil, Lord David, 307 & n2

Chagford, Devon, 23, 26, 28, 90, 303, 305

Chantilly, France, 6, 15n5, 34, 38, 41, 362

Charles, Prince of Wales: wedding, 198n1; supports Norfolk Churches Trust, 264n3; visits Chatsworth, 279, 284; invites DD and PLF to Sandringham, 283–4; keeps rare breed poultry, 286; DD visits France with, 289; and Morton’s book on Diana, 290–1; at Queen Mother’s funeral, 332 & n2; DD stays with at Birkhall, 348; attends DD’s reading at carol service, 355; marriage to Camilla Parker Bowles, 356 & n6

Charteris, Laura (later Duchess of Marlborough), 195 & n1

Chatsworth House, Derbyshire: DD and Andrew occupy and revive, x, xix–xxi, 57, 62; Old Master drawings exhibited at National Gallery in Washington, 94n3; mock book-titles, 100–3, 256; staff, 103–4; drawings listed for insurance, 111; gift shop, 158 & n1; treasures exhibited in Fort Worth, 185n4; as charitable trust, 188; Capability Brown landscapes, 210; Raymond Asquith denigrates, 219n1; PLF spends Christmases at, 222n2, 326, 334; PLF visits, 231, 244, 331, 339; wallpaper blocks, 261; farm shop (Pilsley), 281 & n9; Frink horse sculpture at, 287; television programmes on, 288, 318 & n1; Lascelles describes, 291; branch of farm shop opened in London, 318 & n1; archives, 322; pop concerts, 344–5

Chatsworth House Trust, 287

Chatwin, Bruce, 227 & n1, 229–30, 309; On the Black Hill, 230n1

Chauvel, Jean, 284n3

Cheshire, David, 254 & n1

Cheshire, Leonard, Baron, 212 & n4

Chester Row, London, 29, 31, 94, 108

Chesterfield Street, London, 3 & n5, 77, 100

Cholmondeley, Lady Aline, 212 & n7

Cholmondeley, David Rocksavage, 7th Marquess of, 213 & n8

Cholmondeley, Lavinia, Marchioness of (née Leslie), 212 & n6

Cholmondeley, Sybil, Marchioness of (née Sassoon), 110 & n1, 197, 205, 211–13, 239, 244, 259, 310n1

Churchill, Clementine, Lady: paternity, 346 & n3

Churchill, Randolph, 120 & n6

Cicogna, Countess Anna-Maria, 57n1

Clark, Alan, 313 & n2

Cliff Cottage, Dinas, Pembrokeshire, 83

Cobb, Carolyn Postlethwaite, 305 ‘Coccinelle’ see Dufresnoy, Jacqueline-Charlotte Codrington, Admiral Sir Edward, 112, 326

Cole, Nat King, 79

Coleman, Henry, 263 & n1, 356

Coleman, Joan, 356

Coleridge, Gill, 291 & n2

Cole’s of Mortimer Street, 261

Colonna, Prince Marcantonio, 321n4

Conner, Angela, 284 & n1

Connolly, Cyril, 39 & n1, 143, 282, 283n2, 342

Cooleville House, Co. Tipperary, 59n2

Cooper, Alfred Duff (later 1st Viscount Norwich): in France, 7n3, 15n5; marriage, 15n5; wears medals at party, 307; Diary (ed. John Julius Norwich), 361

Cooper, Artemis (later Beevor), 235 & n11, 264, 330, 360; (ed.) Words of Mercury, xiiin, 329 & n3

Cooper, Lady Diana (née Manners): PLF’s correspondence with, xi; death, xii; PLF visits in France, 7n3, 14 & n5; DD sees at ball, 18; and Somerset Maugham, 22; at Gielgud’s Shakespeare reading in Paris, 37; dinner with Ann Fleming, 48; on cruise to Greece and Black Sea, 53; in Greece, 68, 116; attends Nancy Mitford’s launch party, 72; portrayed in Don’t Tell Alfred, 88n2; faints at cinema, 108; at cinema with PLF, 118; and PLF’s visit to England, 216; longevity, 239; in Conrad Russell letters, 247; visits Iris Tree in hospital, 265; on Russian cruise with Rose Macaulay, 304; PLF’s fondness for, 361–2

Corfu, 144, 192

Cornwall, Camilla, Duchess of (earlier Parker Bowles), 357n6

Courances chateau, 289 & n1

Coward, Sir Noël, 189

Cranbrook, Caroline, Countess of (née Jarvis), 333 & n1

Craxton, John, 11n9, 257 & n1

Creech Jones, Arthur, 74 & n5

Creech Jones, Violet (née Tidman), 74 & n5

Crete: PLF in, x, xv, 3n; Communists oppose wartime memorial plaque, 175; battle anniversaries celebrated, 192, 208, 273, 276; PLF revisits with Joan, 202; PLF returns to for funeral, 235

Cribbins, Bernard, 93n1

Crichel, Dorset, 286

Cryssovelóni, Nicky, 82

Csáky, Count Alex, 279 & n2, 287, 297n1

Cuban crisis (1962), 93n1, 332

Daily Mail: interview with PLF, 249 & n1 Daily Telegraph: PLF writes for, 261 & n1, 267, 276

Dartmoor, 24–5

de Courcy, Anne, 335 & n2

de Guingand, Major-General Sir Francis (‘Freddie’), 72 & n9

Delamere, Diana, Lady (née Caldwell), 280 & n3

De La Warr, Herbrand Sackville, 9th Earl, 283 & n4

Delves Broughton, Sir John (‘Jock’), 281n3

d’Erlanger, Zoë, 320 & n6

Desmond, Michael, 47 & n1, 50, 53

de Vesci of Abbeyleix, Ivo Richard Vesey, 5th Viscount, 11n7

Devlin, Bernadette (later McAliskey), 131 & n4

Devon, 23–5

Devonshire, Amanda, Duchess of (née Heywood-Lonsdale), 250 & n2

Devonshire, Andrew Cavendish, 11th Duke of: engagement and marriage to DD, ix, xix; succeeds to dukedom and inherits Chatsworth, x, xx, 11n2; war service in Coldstream Guards, xix, 112 & n1; PLF’s appreciation of, xx; at Lismore, 9 & n2, 216; invents brain-sharpener, 15n1; maiden speech in Lords, 29 & n1; friendship with Cyril Connolly, 41n1; appears on Brains Trust, 48; love of walking, 49–50; friendship with Tom Egerton, 59n1; lost in Greece, 70n4; as Parliamentary Under-Secretary for Commonwealth Relations, 71 & n1; attends President Kennedy’s inauguration, 77–9; visits USA, 93; attends Kennedy’s funeral, 98; visits Kenya, 98; in Fishmongers Company, 106 & n1; loses government post, 106; complains of taxes, 111; accompanies PLF on trip to Peru, 117 & n1, 119; in hospital for alcohol cure, 119 & n1, 211; on expedition to Pindus Mountains (Greece) with PLF, 122, 124–6, 129–30, 132, 134–5, 140; colour-blindness, 132; affection for Harold Acton, 143; security guard in Ireland, 145 & n1; proposes Persia trip to PLF, 159; travels in Pyrenees with PLF, 160–9; proposes walk through southern France into Spain, 170 & n3; illness at Lismore, 188; insists on leaving Prince of Wales’s wedding, 197; PLF dedicates book to, 207, 276 & n3; recovers from alcoholism, 211; fishing in Ireland, 224; visits Constantinople with Anne Tree, 243; recovers from hip replacement, 299 & n2; at Daphne Fielding’s 90th birthday, 301; at Pratt’s Club, 313; ageing, 338, 340; final illness and death, 342 & n1, 343; funeral and service, 343–5; commemorative exhibition at Chatsworth, 362; Accidents of Fortune, 78n1

Devonshire, Deborah, Duchess of (née Mitford): upbringing, ix; PLF first meets, ix, xv, xix; apolitical stance, xi; letter-writing, xi–xiii; article on PLF’s 85th birthday, xv–xviii, 330n2; PLF’s article on 80th birthday, xix–xxiii; opens shops at Chatsworth, xxiii, 271 & n9; writing, xxiii, 16, 176, 178, 197, 238, 248, 252, 351; in nursing home after operations, 3n, 91; supposed non-reading, 3n, 60–1, 146, 243, 266; PLF’s attachment to, 9, 14; and birth of daughter Sophia, 27; visits PLF in Paris, 37; shooting, 49, 52, 78, 80, 109, 110, 211; thumb, 57 & n7; visits PLF in Italy, 58–9; at official dinners, 73–4; attends President Kennedy’s inauguration, 77–9; portrayed in Nancy’s Don’t Tell Alfred, 88n2; attends Kennedy’s funeral, 98; breeds and shows Shetland ponies, 112; as President of Royal Smithfield Show, 112n2, 147; stock-breeding interests, 117, 120; sheepdog handling, 156 & n1, 158; sends puzzles to PLF, 171–2; attends charity opera performance, 177–8; whistling, 177; book launched, 203–4; PLF dedicates book to, 207, 276 & n3; stays at Sandringham, 211–12; on board of Tarmac, 224–5; visits USA, 225, 228, 249, 251; bequest from Marion Buckland, 250 & n1; speaks at literary lunch, 266; book reviewing, 275, 309; speaking voice, 275; visits France with Prince of Wales, 289; lists ‘pin-ups’ for The Oldie, 310 & n1; sends photographs of corn circles to PLF, 316 & n1; opens farm shop in London (Elizabeth Street), 318 & n1; on foot and mouth outbreak (2001), 328; stays with Prince of Wales at Birkhall, 348–9; reads extract from PLF’s A Time of Gifts at carol service, 351–2; in hospital for brain scan, 355–7; trip with Emma, 355; moves to Edensor, 358 & n1, 361, 365n2; eye trouble, 362; French TV programme on, 362–3; Counting My Chickens, 229n3, 275n, 310n1, 329, 362 & n3; The Estate: A View from Chatsworth, 238 & n1, 248, 253n1, 259, 264, 266, 267 & n1; Farm Animals, 266 & n2; The House, x, 53n2, 176 & n1, 197, 199, 203; Round About Chatsworth, 351 & n1

Devonshire, Evelyn, Duchess of (Andrew’s grandmother), 307n1

Devonshire, Peregrine Cavendish, 12th Duke of (DD’s son) see Hartington, Marquess of Devonshire, William George Spencer Cavendish, 6th Duke of, 244 & n1

Diana, Princess of Wales (née Spencer): wedding, 197 & n1; visits Chatsworth, 249; Morton’s book on, 290 & n1; character, 291; tiara, 307 & n1

Dixon, Sir Pierson, 104 & n3

Donaldson, Frances, Lady: life of P. G. Wodehouse, 266 & n1

Donici, Constantin, 200n2

Doundoulakis, George J., 208 & n2

Downing, Ben: ‘Philhellene’s Progress’, 328n2

Drogheda, Garrett Moore, 11th Earl and

Joan, Countess of (née Carr), 119 & n5, 259

Dublin, 159

Dudley Ward, Penelope, 145 & n3

Duff, Juliet, Lady (née Lady Juliet Lowther), 53 & n3

Duff, Sir Robert, 54n3

Dufresnoy, Jacqueline-Charlotte (earlier Jacques-Charles; ‘Coccinelle’), 36 & n2

Dumbleton Hall, Worcestershire, 31

Dunn, John, 204

Dunn, Mary, Lady (née Lady Mary St Clair-Erskine), 22 & n7, 90

Dunn, Sir Philip, 23n7

Dunphy, Jack, 47n4

Durante, Jimmy, 79

Durrell, Lawrence, 86 & n1

Easton Neston, Northamptonshire, 95

Eden, Anthony (later 1st Earl of Avon):` and Suez crisis, 29n1

Edensor: DD moves to and writes from, 358, 361, 362, 364–5, 370

Edensor House, Bakewell, Derbyshire, 8 & n1, 17–18, 35n1, 41n1, 47, 56, 97n1, 342

Edward VII, King, 88n3

Egerton, Lady Anne, 318

Egerton, Anne (née Cobbold), 59n1

Egerton, Thomas, 58 & n1

Egremont, John Wyndham, 1st Baron, 52 & n2

Egremont, Pamela, Lady (née WyndhamQuin), 53n2

Eisenhower, Mamie, 79 & n4

Elizabeth II, Queen, 197, 213, 245, 339–40

Elizabeth, Empress of Austria-Hungary, 349

Elizabeth the Queen Mother (‘Cake’): at Tate Gallery, 57 & n4; at film première with DD, 155; attends charity performance of opera, 177; Ashton imitates, 198n2; at Houghton Hall, 213; at Royal Smithfield Show, 278; funeral, 332

Elpida (PLF’s helper), 339

Epstein, Sir Jacob, 57 & n2

Eros II (boat), 23n10

Erroll, Josslyn Victor Hay, 22nd Earl of, 280 & n5

Esher, Reginald Baliol Brett, 2nd Viscount, 207 & n3

Esterházy, Christine, 201

Evans, Sir Harold, 98 & n5

Eyres Monsell, Joan see Fermor, Joan Leigh Eythimíou, Tásso, 123–4, 126

Fairweather, Eileen, 250

Faringdon House, Oxfordshire, 231

Farquhar, Elizabeth, 228 & n2

Fedden, Renée (née Catzeflis), 23n6, 122–3, 126–9, 134–6, 140, 150, 162

Fedden, Robin, 21 & n6, 111, 118, 122–3, 125, 128–30, 134, 136, 140, 150; The Enchanted Mountains, 162 & n5

Fellowes, Marguerite (née Decazes; ‘Daisy’), 22 & n9, 37

Fenton, Jack, 154n6

Fenton, Vanessa (née Leigh Fermor; PLF’s sister), 151 & n6, 157

Fermor, Joan Leigh (née Eyres Monsell; then Rayner): PLF’s devotion to, ix; settles in Greece, x, 92, 105n, 159, 184, 256; PLF’s correspondence with, xi; courtship and marriage with PLF, 11 & n9, 14; motor cars and driving, 18, 65; in France with PLF, 19; in Paros, 46; on Hydra, 50–1; in Castello di Passerano, 55; in Epirus, 81, 128; visits to England, 107–9; and Mani cats, 116; trip to Malaysia, 148; joins PLF in India, 153–4; gives up Sunday newspapers, 154; proposed trip to Petra, 171; imitates owl’s call, 177; in Spain with PLF, 181; visits Crete with PLF, 202; photographs in The Cretan Runner, 209 & n4, 235; in Turkey with PLF, 219–23; hip operation, 244 & n1; and PLF’s television interview, 254; stays with Hildyard, 277; declines invitation to Sandringham, 285; heart irregularity, 300; cracks rib, 312; hobbling, 330; death and funeral service, 334 & n1; Bowra gives poems to, 366; photograph of cat, 369

Fermor, Sir Lewis Leigh (PLF’s father), 30, 149n2

Fermor, Muriel Eileen (née Ambler; PLF’s mother), 149 & n2; death, 157

Fermor, Sir Patrick Leigh: first meets DD, ix, xv, xix; visit to DD at Lismore, ix, 3–6, 8, 216; settles in Greece, x, 92, 105 & n1; travels and travel-writing, x–xii; war record, x; apolitical stance, xi; letter-writing, xi–xiii; depicted in film Ill Met by Moonlight, xv, 19–20, 27; DD’s article on 85th birthday, xv–xviii, 330n2; qualities, xvi, xviii; schooling and career, xvi; article on DD’s 80th birthday, xix–xxiii; hurt in fight at hunt ball, 6 & n2; courtship and marriage, 11, 14; visits Pitt-Rivers in France, 19; visits Somerset Maugham, 20–2; riding and hunting, 24, 26–9, 39–41; ear trouble, 31; works on screenplay of The Roots of Heaven, 33n1, 34, 41; in Cameroon, 42–3; as non-shooter, 49; DD visits in Italy, 58–9; overland tour from France to Greece, 65–8; motoring, 88n4; acquires land in Mani, 92; breaks wrist in hunting fall, 92n2; gives up and resumes smoking, 95 & n2; nickname (‘Whack’), 97n1; provides mock book-titles, 101–3, 106–7, 256, 328 & n1; tattoo, 106; pet dog, 116; trip to Peru, 117 & n1; account of expedition to Pindus Mountains, 122–40; trip to India and Himalayas, 148–54; account of travel in Pyrenees, 160–9; answers DD’s puzzle about gooseberry and vegetable names, 172–3; travels in Spain and Portugal with Fieldings, 179–83; writing, 179; in Syria, 187; address at 40th anniversary of Crete battle, 192–3; travels to Hungary, 199–200; profile in Observer, 203; translates Strachwitz’s The Heart of Douglas, 215 & n1; travels in Turkey, 218–22; swims Hellespont, 219–23; travels in Germany and central Europe, 232–5; invited to stay at Windsor Castle, 245; interviewed by Daily Mail, 249–50; in Provence, 253; TV interview on South Bank Show, 254 & n1; in Yemen, 255; composes alliterative verse, 256–8; Daily Telegraph articles, 261 & n1; letters from Nancy Mitford, 261–2; reviews DD’s The Estate, 267 & n1; Xan Fielding prepares obituary of, 267; awarded honorary D.Litt by University of Kent, 273–4; stays with Hildyard, 277; as guest at Sandringham, 284–5, 287; wins French literary prize for A Time of Gifts, 291; on enigmatic sign in Mayfair, 293–6; in hospital for back operation, 297–8 & n1; childhood in Northamptonshire, 302; awarded French honours, 308 & n2; spends Christmases at Chatsworth, 309, 311, 326; uses hearing aid, 312; takes balloon trip, 315; damages heel, 330; and Joan’s death, 334, 351; knighthood, 338 & n1; investiture, 339–40; writes account of Andrew Devonshire’s funeral, 344 & n6; loses walking stick, 353; eye trouble, 361, 363n1, 367; devises Kit-e-Kat advertisement, 363–4; spends New Year 2006 at Edensor, 365n2; Between the Woods and the Water, xi, xvi, 157 & n3, 190 & n1, 200, 232n5, 237n9, 241n1, 242n1, 252 & n1, 262; ‘A Cave on the Black Sea’, 107n1; Mani, xi, 81, 359; ‘Observations on a Marine Vulture’, 88n1; ‘Paradox in the Himalayas’, 150 & n1; Roumeli, xi, 108 & n1, 133; Three Letters from the Andes, xii, 119n, 121, 207 & n1, 276 & n3, 362; A Time of Gifts, xi, xvi, 146 & n1, 156, 158n2, 177 & n1, 240, 250, 291, 351; A Time to Keep Silence, xii, 17n1; The Traveller’s Tree, 17n1; Words of Mercury, xiin, 107n1, 154n, 338 & n2

ffytche, Timothy (ophthalmologist), 361, 365

Fielding, Agnes (née Magruder; then Phillips; ‘Magouche’), 3n4, 90 & n2, 110, 168–9, 179, 187, 218, 221, 231–2, 255, 265–6, 273, 293, 306, 353

Fielding, Alexander (Xan): marriage to Daphne, xi; wartime exploits in Crete, xv, 3n, 128; travels with PLF, xx, 179–81, 187, 218, 221, 232, 255–6; friendship with PLF, 3 & n3; stays with DD in London, 3; stays with PLF in France, 6, 8; letter from PLF, 9, 14; in Tangiers, 12–13; letter to DD, 18; and film Ill Met by Moonlight, 19–20; stays at Chatsworth, 62; DD misses, 76; DD’s devotion to, 89; joins PLF for Pyrenees trip, 162, 168–9; misses 1981 anniversary of Crete battle, 192; visits PLF in Mani, 231; cancer, 265–7; death and obituaries of, 267, 275 & n1, 276; attends 50th anniversary of battle of Crete, 273, 276; ashes buried in Crete, 306; sings ‘The Holly and the Ivy’, 327; Aeolus Displayed: A Book of the Winds (first published as Das Buch der Winde), 169 & n7; Hide and Seek, 18

Fielding, Daphne (née Vivian; then Marchioness of Bath): marriage to Xan, xi; stays with DD in London and Ireland, 3–4; stays with PLF in France, 6, 8; letter from PLF, 9, 14; qualities and character, 12; in Tangiers, 12; stays at Chatsworth, 62; DD misses, 76; DD meets, 89; sends Cranach postcard to PLF, 171 & n1; moves to England after divorce from Xan, 216 & n3; and PLF’s visit to England, 216; in Conrad Russell’s letters, 247–8; marriage to Henry Bath, 276 & n2; 90th birthday celebrations, 301; remembers racy youth, 312; The Duchess of Jermyn Street, 3n; Mercury Presides, 23n7

Fischer, Dagmar, 234

Fischer, Rudolf, 234 & n9, 240

Fitzgerald, Ella, 79

Fitzroy House, London, 3, 91

Flanders, Michael, 48 & n9

Flecker, James Elroy: ‘Hassan’, 187 & n, 189

Fleming, Ann (née Charteris): PLF’s correspondence with, xi; visits PLF in France, 7 & n4; stays with Somerset Maugham, 20–1; PLF visits, 31, 176; friendship with DD, 47–8, 57–8; in Switzerland, 76; and Nicky Cryssovelóni, 83; relations with Ian, 101n1; financial difficulties after Ian’s death, 106 & n5; sells Ian’s library, 115 & n3; at cinema with PLF, 118; gives party for PLF’s A Time of Gifts, 158n2; dislikes John Pearson, 173; PLF stays with at Sevenhampton, 176; cancer and death, 187–8 & n2, 191–2, 194 & n1; The Letters (ed. Mark Amory), 23, 203 & n1, 204, 232 & n1

Fleming, Caspar, 118 & n3

Fleming, Ian, 7n4, 101n1, 106 & n5, 115, 173, 232

Flemming, Bridget and Andrew, 371 & n1

Flintham (house), Nottinghamshire, 277

Florence: La Pietra, 346n1, 347

Flynn, Errol, 42, 44

Forio d’Ischia, Italy, 59, 61

Fort Lamy, French Equatorial Africa, 42

Fort Worth, Texas: Kimbell Art Museum, 185n4

Forward, Anthony, 290

Foulbé people (Cameroon), 43

Fould-Springer, Baron Max, 41n2 400 Club, London, 10

Fourquet, Federico, 343 & n2

Fox, James: White Mischief, 281n1, 282

foxhunting: banned, 314 & n1, 327–8

Franz Joseph, Emperor of Austria-Hungary, 349

Fraser, Lady Antonia, 153 & n9

Frederick II (the Great), King of Prussia, 215n2

Freeman, John, 63 & n1

Frere-Reeves, Alexander and Patricia (née Wallace), 21 & n5

Freud, Lucian: stays at Edensor, 34 & n2; paints Chatsworth bathroom, 62; DD’s devotion to, 80; absent from Ann Fleming’s funeral, 196; aged 80, 330; DD admires, 333; works at Chatsworth, 362; Skewbald Mare (painting), 344

Frink, Dame Elisabeth, 279 & n2, 287–9, 297 & n1

Fry, Jennifer (later Heber-Percy), 217n1

Gadencourt, Pacy-sur-Eure, France, 6, 9, 13, 16

Gage, Henry, 6th Viscount, 7 & n6

Gaitskell, Hugh, 78 & n2

Gallicano nel Lazio, Italy, 54–5

Ganay family, 289n1

Garnett, David, 190 & n1; see also Carrington, Dora: Letters

Garnett, Richard, 178 & n2, 190, 196, 238, 243, 248

Gary, Romain: Les Racines du ciel, 32 & n1

Gaulle, Charles de, 282

Gavarni, Paul, 162

Gavarnie, Hautes Pyrénées, 160, 162

Gendel, Milton, 8n5

Gere, Charlotte (née Douie), 199nn1, 2

Gere, John, 198 & n1, 200

Ghika, Barbara (née Hutchinson; then Rothschild; then Warner), 5n1, 69, 84n1, 110 & n2, 144 & n1, 175, 193, 199, 240

Ghika, Nikos, 4 & n1, 65, 69, 84n1, 110, 144, 175, 193, 199, 240, 257, 298

Giacometti, Alberto, 134 & n5

Gibbs, Christopher, 337 & n1

Gielgud, Sir John, 37 & n2 Gigi (film), 39n1

Gilbert, Brian, 287

Giles, Frank, 22 & n12

Giles, Lady Katherine (née Sackville; ‘Kitty’), 22 & n12

Gladwyn, Gladwyn Jebb, 1st Baron, 37n3

Glenconner, Elizabeth, Lady (née Powell), 143 & n4

Goldsmith, Sir James, 248 & n2

Goldsmith, Oliver: The Deserted Village, 227n2

Goodman, Arnold, Baron, 196 & n3

Gorky, Arshile, 91n2

Goussiónis, Grigóris, 134

Grafton, Hugh Denis Charles Fitzroy, 11th Duke of, 213

Grafton, Jesse, 261

Grant, Duncan, 190n1

Gréco, Juliette, 36 & n1, 42, 44

Greece: PLF and Joan settle in, x, 92, 105 & n1; see also Mani Greenwell, Peter, 189n4

Grimond, Jo, Baron, 98 & n6

Guinness, Bryan (later 2nd Baron Moyne), 13n2, 205n1

Guppy, Shusha, 303 & n2

Hammersley, Violet (née Williams-Freeman; ‘Mrs Ham’), 75 & n7, 89, 100, 337, 347

Hammond, Nicholas, 273 & n4

Hardinge, Elizabeth, 320 & n6

Hardisty, Stanley, 150–2

Hardwicke, Philip Yorke, 9th Earl of, 320 & n5

Hare, Alan, 46 & n1, 50

Hare, Jill (née North), 47n1

Harlech, David Ormsby Gore, 5th Baron, 89 & n1, 98, 224

Harlech, Pamela, Lady (née Colin), 89n1

Harlech, Sylvia, Lady (née Lloyd Thomas; ‘Sissy’), 89 & n1, 98

Harold Godwinsson, King of the English, 359

Harold Haardraada, King of Norway, 359

Harrod, Henry, 108 & n2

Harrod, Wilhelmina, Lady (née Cresswell; ‘Billa’), 263 & n3, 289, 366

Hartington, Amanda, Marchioness of (née

Heywood-Lonsdale; later Duchess of Devonshire), 250n2, 351

Hartington, Kathleen, Marchioness of (née Kennedy; ‘Kick’), 78n1, 97n1, 322 & n1

Hartington, Peregrine Andrew Morny Cavendish, Marquess of (later 12th Duke of Devonshire; DD’s son; ‘Stoker’): at Lismore, 9 & n1; shooting, 50; exchanges Christmas presents with DD, 76; suggests mock book-title, 100; in Paris with DD, 104; marriage, 250n2; and Elisabeth Frink horse sculpture, 287; in Las Vegas, 338

Hartington, William Cavendish, Marquess of (‘Billy’), 11n2, 78n1, 322 & n1, 343 & n4

Hartwell, Pamela, Lady (earlier Lady Pamela Berry), 366 & n1

Hastings, Sir Max, 262n1

Hastings, Lady Selina: Nancy Mitford, 232 & n2

Hayworth, Rita, 18n1

Head, Antony, 1st Viscount, 361 & n3

Heber-Percy, Robert, 51n5, 216 & n1, 231 & n1, 250

Hedly, Priscilla B., 302

Hellespont: PLF swims, 219–23

Henderson, Mary, Lady (née Cawadias), 225n4, 319

Henderson, Sir Nicholas (‘Nicko’), 224–5 & n4, 228, 248, 251, 318, 343, 358, 365n2

Henry IV (the Pious), Duke of Saxony, 171 & n1

Herbert, David, 13 & n1

Hermitage Museum, St Petersburg, 322 & n3

Hesketh, Christian, Lady (‘Kisty’), 95n1

Hesse, Margaret (‘Peg’), Princess of (née Geddes), 232 & n4

Hildyard, Myles, 150 & n4, 277–8

Hill, Derek, 347 & n1

Hill, Heywood (bookshop owner), 63 & n5; literary prize, 344 & n1; correspondence with Nancy Mitford, 346 & n2, 347, 350

Hillary, Richard, 303 & n1, 306

Himalayas: PLF visits, 148, 150–4

‘Hinterwälder, Franz Xaver’, 241

Historic Houses (magazine), 275 & n2

Hitler, Adolf: Diana Mosley’s friendship with, 13n

Hoare, Lucy, Lady (née Cavendish-Bentinck), 277 & n3

Hoare, Sir Reginald, 278n3

Hockney, David, 193 & n5

Holkham Hall, Norfolk, 285 & n3, 305

Holroyd, Michael: The Pursuit of Power, 266 & n1

Home, Alexander Douglas-Home, 14th Earl of (later Baron Home of the Hirsel), 74 & n1, 98 & n1

Home, Elizabeth, Countess (née Alington), 74 & n1, 98

Honorius, Roman Emperor, 81

Hopkins, Rev. John Henry, Jr, 327n1

Hore-Belisha, Leslie (later Baron), 342 & n1

Hornby, Lesley (‘Twiggy’), 155 & n1

Horner, Katherine, 218n1

Horton, Robert, 374 & n1

Houghton Hall, Norfolk, 205 & n1, 212–13, 259

Howard, Henry, xix

Howard, Michael, 356 & n9

Howard, Trevor, 42 & n2, 44

Howell, Brocas, 152

Hozier, Lady Blanche, 346n3

Hughes, Robert, 344 & n5

Hungary, 199–202

Huston, Anjelica, 108n3

Huston, Enrica (née Soma; ‘Ricki’), 108 & n3

Huston, John, 42 & n1, 43, 56, 108n3

Hutchinson, Jeremy, Baron, 283 & n8

Hydra (island), Greece, 4, 49, 53, 65, 69

Ill Met by Moonlight (film), x, xv, 19–20, 27, 284n6

Inch Kenneth (island), Hebrides, 60 & n1, 95 Indecent Proposal (film), 298 & n2

India: PLF visits, 149–54

Ioannidis (mayor of Papigo), 128

Irish Times, 160

Istanbul (Constantinople), 219, 243

Iveagh, Benjamin Guinness, 3rd Earl of, 356n2

Iveagh, Miranda, Countess of (née Smiley), 355–6 & n2

Jackson, Derek: marriage to Pamela Mitford, 73n7, 185n1; marriage to Janetta Woolley, 91n1; unidentified at conference, 185–6 & n1, 231

Jackson, Pamela (née Mitford; ‘Woman’): correspondence with DD, xi; at unveiling of memorial to father, 72 & n7; marriage to Derek, 73n7, 185n1; visits Chatsworth, 75; with dying mother at Inch Kenneth, 96–7; in TV film on Nancy, 183 & n2; reads PLF’s Between the Woods and the Water and A Time of Gifts, 243, 252; advice on cutting pigmeat, 319; birth at Wilbury, 355

Jarvis, Ralph and Coney, 333

Jebb, Julian, 110 & n1, 170, 183

Jellicoe, George, 2nd Earl, 273 & n2, 298, 370

Jenkins, Dame Jennifer, 251 & n2

Jenkins, Roy, Baron, 251 & n2

Joannovitch, Prince Vsevolode, 120n7

John, Augustus, 48, 119n3, 320

John, Sir Caspar, 119n3

John, King of England, xx

Johnson, Lady Bird (née Claudia Taylor), 148 & n1

Johnson, Lynda, 148 & n1

Johnson, Lyndon Baines, 148n1

Jones, Harry, 52 & n1

Jones, Inigo, 263

Jones, Tom, 344

Jousselin, Bertrand de La Haye, 64n1

Jousselin, Laure de La Haye (née Noailles), 64n1

Juan Carlos I, King of Spain, 332

Judah, Cynthia, 48n3

Kahn, Otto, 321n7

Kalamata: earthquake (1986), 241

Kantorowicz, Ernst, 47n3

Karaïskákis, Georgios, 138

Karvoúnis, Chrístos, 132–3

Katounia, Limni, Greece, 97, 99, 101

Keats, John: ‘Ode on a Grecian Urn’, 139 & n7

Kee, Kate (née Trevelyan), 48n3

Kee, Robert: at Lismore, xxii; at Chatsworth, 48 & n5, 224, 263, 322, 358; PLF invites to Hydra, 50; DD’s devotion to, 76, 80, 198; and Nicky Cryssovelóni, 83; marriage to Janetta Woolley, 91n1; and Ann Fleming’s death, 194–6; and Oonagh Guinness, 301 & n2; ageing, 348; plans biography of Mitterrand, 348 & n1; war service and imprisonment, 358 & n2; A Crowd Is Not Company, 359n2; The Green Flag, 121 & n2, 133; Ireland: A History, 199 & n3

Keith, Penelope, 210 & n1

Kennedy, Edward (‘Teddy’), 224 & n3

Kennedy, John F.: inaugurated as President, 77 & n1, 79; DD admires, 78–9; DD visits in USA, 89; sends message to DD, 94n2; unveils Mona Lisa in Washington, 94; assassination and funeral, 97–9; visits Ireland, 97 & n; and Cuban crisis, 332

Kennedy, Joseph P., 78n1

Kennedy, Sir Ludovic: In Bed with an Elephant, 289 & n1

Kent, Katharine, Duchess of (née Worsley), 213

Kent, Marina, Duchess of, 274

Kent, University of: awards honorary doctorate to PLF, 273–4

Kenward, Betty: Jennifer’s Diary, 216 & n2

Kenya: DD visits, 98

Kenyatta, Jomo, 98 & n7

Kerr, Rosemary, 320 & n2

Khan, Dr Aijaz, 356

Khan, Prince Aly, xxii, 18 & n1, 225n2

King Edward VII’s Hospital, London, 298n1

King’s School, Canterbury, xvi, 273 & n5

Kinross, Angela, Lady (née Culme-Seymour), 305 & n1

Kinross, Patrick Balfour, 3rd Baron, 304–5 & n1

Kipling, John Lockwood, 369–70

Kipling, Rudyard: Kim, 369

Klobusiçky, Caroline von (née Princess Caroline Murat), 235 & n10

Klobusiçky, Elemér von, 202 & n4, 233–4, 240, 349

Klobusiçky, Juliana von, 202n4

Klobusiçky, Miklos von, 235 & n10

Knight, Guy and Hester (‘Heck’), 171n1

Knollys, Eardley, 323 & n2

Korn, Eric, 256

Kreipe, Major-General Heinrich, x, xv, 22n1, 121 & n1, 123, 138, 209n1, 236

Lady, The (magazine), 349n2

Lambert, Tony, 50

Lambton, Antony, Viscount: Elizabeth and Alexandra, 232 & n5

Lambton, Lady Lucinda, 108 & n2

Lansdowne, Charles Petty-Fitzmaurice, 9th Marquess and Fiona, Marchioness of (née Merritt), 356 & n1

La Rochelle, 86

Lascelles, Sir Alan, 291

Lasnet, David, 368n1

Lear, Edward, 124

Ledebur, Count Friedrich, 60n2, 61 & n1, 146

Lee-Potter, Lynda, 250n1

Lees-Milne, Alvilde ( formerly Chaplin), 208n3, 217

Lees-Milne, James, 73n3, 207 & n3, 217, 259, 301, 311, 335; The Bachelor Duke, 244 & n1; Fourteen Friends, 309 & n1

Lehmann, John, 282 & n2

Leiris, Michel, 37 & n4

Leon, Sonia (later Quennell; ‘Spider’), 14 & n4

Lewis, Jeremy: Cyril Connolly: A Life, 283n2

Liaut, Jean-Noël, 363n3

Lismore Castle, Co. Waterford, ix, xix–xxii, 4 & n2

Lloyd, Peter, 150 & n2

London, Jack: White Fang, 229 & n2

Londonderry, Alexander Vane-Tempest-Stewart, 9th Marquess and Doreen, Marchioness of (née Wells), 355 & n3

Long Crichel House, Wimborne, Dorset, 59n2, 297, 322–3, 325

Longford, Elizabeth, Countess of: biography of Wellington, 314

Longleat estate, Wiltshire, 60n1, 301

Loraine, Sir Percy and Louise, Lady (née Stuart-Wortley), 320 & n1

Lord, Tom, 49 & n1

Lubbock, Adelaide (later Lady Avebury; née Stanley), 14 & n3

Lubbock, Maurice (later 1st Baron Avebury), 15n3

Lubow, Arthur, 292n1

Lygon, Lady Dorothy (later Heber-Percy; ‘Coote’): on Hydra, 50–1 & n5, 53; with PLF in Greece, 82, 128; car stolen, 157; PLF visits in England, 216; marriage to Heber-Percy, 217n1, 231 & n1; at Chatsworth ball, 263; in Prague with PLF, 293; at Daphne Fielding’s 90th birthday, 301; celebrates 85th birthday, 312 & n1; in Julian Jebb’s film, 319

Lygon, Lady Mary (sometime Joannovitch), 120 & n7

Macaulay, (Dame) Rose, 8n8, 53, 303–4, 305

McCabe, Charles, 23n7

McCall, Peter, 122 & n2, 133–4, 140

McConnell, Primrose: edits The Agricultural Notebook, 247n1

Mackenzie, Anne, 306

Macmillan, Adam, 184 & n3

Macmillan, Lady Dorothy (née Cavendish), 51n2, 244

Macmillan, Harold (later 1st Earl of Stockton; ‘Uncle Harold’): government, xx; shooting, 50 & n2, 57; conversations with DD, 52; appoints Harlech ambassador to Washington, 89n1; President Kennedy meets, 97n1; resigns premiership, 107n1; as chairman of Macmillan Publishers, 173 & n2; awarded Onassis International Prize, 184 & n1; and DD’s book (The House), 197; 90th birthday party, 214; at Chatsworth, 225; death, 243; on introduction of pheasants to Britain, 244–5

Macmillan (publishers), 173n2, 264

Magruder, Agnes (‘Magouche’) see

Fielding, Agnes Magruder, Essie, 169

Major, Sir John, 280 & n7

Major, Norma, Lady (née Johnson), 280 & n7

Mani: PLF settles in, 29, 92; house constructed, 109; floods, 299; PLF bequeathes house to Benaki Museum, 309; thunderbolt, 310

Marchant, Helen, 362 & n2

Margadale, Alastair Morrison, 3rd Baron, 286n1, 311

Margaret, Princess: death, 331

Marlborough, Sarah, Duchess of (née Jennings), 318 & n1

Maroua (Cameroon), 45

Maroua, Lamido of, 43

Marriott, Sir John, 321n7

Marriott, Maud (née Kahn; ‘Momo’), 321 & n7

Marshall, Arthur, 224 & n6

Marshall, Ray (later Garnett), 190n1

Marten, Lieut-Commander George (‘Toby’) and Mary Anna (née Sturt), 286n2, 320 & n6

Martin, Margaret, 302

Mary, Queen of George V, 307n1

Massigli, Odette (née Boissier), 282 & n3

Massigli, René, 284n3

Matsas, Aleko, 282–3

Maugham, Syrie, 22n4

Maugham, William Somerset, 20–2, 25, 142, 329

Maxwell, Sir Aymer, 99 & n1, 116

Mayall, Sir (Alexander) Lees, 224 & n2

Mayfair, London, 293–4

Melba, Dame Nellie, 33n4

Mellors, Keith and Stella, 356 & n8

Meran, Count Johann (‘Hansi’), 200–1 & n2

Mersey, Edward Bigham, 3rd Viscount, 11n5

Mersey, Katherine, Viscountess (née Petty-Fitzmaurice; then Lady Nairne; ‘Kitty’; ‘Wife’): correspondence with DD, xi; death, xii; at Lismore, 9 & n5; dress, 17; bereaved, 26; sees Evelyn Waugh’s blank book for DD, 61; DD sends book to, 76; unwell, 89; DD reads book openings while staying with, 178; at preview of The Mitford Girls at Chichester, 192; DD stays with, 214, 266; trees damaged by gale, 251; finds error in DD’s The Estate, 264; ageing, 296; at Bowood, 355

Metsovo, Epirus, 80

Metternich-Winneburg, Princess Tatiana (née Vassiltchikov), 232 & n3

Meyers, Jeffrey: Somerset Maugham: A Life, 329 & n4

Middleton, William (‘Bay’), 346 & n3, 348–9

Mill Cottage, Swinbrook, 150 & n1, 266

Mitchell, Leslie, 365 & n1

Mitford, Clement (DD’s uncle), 120n2

Mitford, Dorothy (DD’s aunt), 251n1

Mitford, Jessica see Treuhaft, Jessica Mitford, Mary Russell: Our Village, 170 & n1

Mitford, Nancy: on Mitford upbringing, ix; correspondence with DD, xi; reproaches DD at Lismore, xxii; teases DD, 3 & n2, 15n6, 58n7; PLF visits in France, 6, 14, 25, 33, 38, 105; on ‘Hons’ Cupboard’, 8n2; infatuation with Hamish St Clair-Erskine, 23n8; DD meets in London, 29; correspondence with Mark Ogilvie-Grant, 53; in Venice, 56; and Gaston Palewski, 57 & n6; in England, 72; with dying mother at Inch Kenneth, 95–6; DD visits in Paris, 104; sixty-first birthday, 110; moves to Versailles, 111 & n1; illnesses and death, 117 & n3, 141, 142 & n1, 191, 345; letters, 142–3; TV documentaries on, 170, 183, 319 & n2; correspondence with Evelyn Waugh, 173, 300 & n1, 303; Selina Hastings’ biography of, 232 & n2; letters published, 261; letters to DD, 262; winter walk with PLF, 311; wit, 336; correspondence with Heywood Hill, 346 & n2, 347, 350; adopts foreign accent for childhood game, 352n3; letters to Robert Byron, 358; letters from Bowra, 365; Don’t Tell Alfred, 72 & n6, 86 & n2; Frederick the Great, 215 & n2; Highland Fling, 170 & n2; Love in a Cold Climate, 183n2, 189 & n5; Love from Nancy (letters; ed. Charlotte Mosley), 261 & n1; The Pursuit of Love, 189n5

Mitford, Thomas, 85n2, 119 & n3

Mitford, Unity (‘Bobo’), 145 & n2

Mitterrand, François, 348 & n1

Mlinaric, David and Martha (née Laycock), 224 & n5, 261, 358

Moffat, Curtis, 60n2

Moffat, Ivan, 85 & n1

Moncreiffe, Diana, Lady (née Hay), 284n6

Moncreiffe, Sir Iain of that Ilk, 283 & n6

Monsell, Bolton Eyres Monsell, 1st Viscount ( Joan’s father), 31n1

Monsell, Graham Eyres Monsell, 2nd Viscount ( Joan’s brother), 64 & n2, 118, 144, 148, 217, 235; death, 300

Monsell, John S. B., Canon of Worcester, 300 & n3

Montagu, Judy (later Gendel), 8 & n5, 14, 48, 331

Montague, Hermione, 152

Montgomery-Massingberd, Hugh, 276 & n1

Moore, Demi, 298n2

More O’Ferrall, Angela, 281n4

More O’Ferrall, Frank, 280 & n4

Morrison, Declan (DD’s grandson), 311n1

Morrison, Nancy (DD’s granddaughter), 311n1

Mortimer, Raymond, 323 & n1

Morton, Andrew: Diana: Her True Story, 290 & n1

Mosley, Alexander: portrayed in Don’t Tell Alfred, 88n2

Mosley, Charlotte (ed.): The Letters of Nancy Mitford and Evelyn Waugh, 300n1, 303; Love from Nancy, 261 & n1; The Mitfords: Letters between Six Sisters, 226n7, 345 & n1

Mosley, Diana, Lady (née Mitford; then Guinness): correspondence with DD, xi; David Herbert disparages, 13; at unveiling of memorial to father, 72; with dying mother at Inch Kenneth, 95–6; sixty-first birthday, 117; appearance, 120; and Nancy’s illness, 141; and biography of Unity Mitford, 145; and husband’s death, 188; recovers from brain tumour operation, 204 & n1; first marriage to Bryan Guinness, 205 & n1; at Biddesden, 210; visits Chatsworth, 280; visits Sophy in Wiltshire with DD, 286; death and obituaries, 335–6 & n1; Anne de Courcy biography of, 336n2; letter from DD on visit to La Pietra, 346n1, 347; on Kee’s proposed biography of Mitterrand, 348; A Life of Contrasts, 154–5 & n1; Loved Ones: Pen Portraits, 208n2, 231

Mosley, Sir Oswald: marriage to Diana, 13n2; death, 188

Moss, William Stanley: helps kidnap Kreipe in Crete, xv; Ill Met by Moonlight, x, xv, 22n1

Moumaza, Boudjemma, 110n2

Moumaza, Da’ad, 110

Mountbatten of Burma, Admiral Louis, 1st Earl, 74 & n2, 146n1

Murray, Diana, 274

Murray, John (‘Jock’), 146 & n2, 207, 230, 239, 242n1, 274

Nancy Mitford: A Portrait by her Sisters (TV film), 170, 183n2

Napier, Phyllis: I Have Sind, 273n1; Raven Castle, 272 & n1

Napoleon I (Bonaparte), Emperor of the French: portrait bust at Chatsworth, 363 & n4

Natar, Carl, 122 & n1, 124–6, 128–9, 134, 140, 150

National Gallery, London: Sainsbury wing, 280 & n6

National Trust Manual of Housekeeping, 275

Navarino Bay, battle of (1827), 326

Neidpath, Catherine, Lady (née Guinness), 210 & n2

Neidpath, James, Lord, 210 & n2

Nevile, Henry, 277 & n2

New York: PLF visits, 208–9

New Yorker (magazine): aborted article on Jessica, 292

Newmarket, 113

Newstead Abbey, Nottinghamshire, 288

Niarchos, Athina ( formerly Onassis; née Livanos), 69–70 & n7

Niarchos, Eugenia (née Livanos), 69 & n7

Niarchos, Stavros, 23n10, 69

Nicolaïdis (Yanina mountaineer), 123

Nicolson, Sir Harold, 48 & n3; Good Behaviour, 354

Nightingale, Florence, 279

Nîmes, France, 85

Nimr, Fares, 7n1

Noailles, Viscount Charles de, 63 & n1, 65, 92n1, 319

Noailles, Viscountess Marie-Laure (née Bischoffsheim), 64n1

Normandy, 7

Norwich, John Julius Cooper, 2nd Viscount, 231 & n3, 256, 362n2

Norwich, Mollie, Viscountess (née Makins; then Philipps), 231 & n3

Obolensky, Chloë (née Georgakis), 241 & n2

Obolensky, Prince Dimitri, 241 & n3

Obolensky, Leonid, 242n2 Observer (newspaper): profile of PLF, 203

Ogilvie-Grant, Mark, 32 & n4, 46, 50–1, 53, 67–8, 70n4, 82, 143, 240, 367

Oldie, The (magazine), 310 & n1

Olsen, Stanley, 259 & n1

Onassis, Aristotle, 70n7

Onassis, Jacqueline (earlier Kennedy), 93, 224, 227

Onassis Prize, 185n1, 199 & n1

O’Neill, Shane Edward Robert, 3rd Baron, 83n4

Oranmore and Browne, Oonagh, Lady (née Guinness), 301 & n2

Ormsby Gore, Mary (Lady Mayall), 224 & n2

Osmond, Donny, 344

Ovindoli, Italy, 56

Paget sisters (Lady Caroline, Lady Elizabeth, Lady Rose), 119–20 & n4

Pakenham, Michael, 153 & n9

Palewski, Gaston (‘Colonel’), 57 & n6, 347

Pandit, Vijaya Lakshmi, 74 & n3

Paris: PLF in, 6, 14, 25, 32–3, 35–9; DD visits, 37, 104

Parker Bowles, Andrew, 356 & n7

Paros, 46

Parsons, Lady Bridget, 11 & n5, 15, 31, 83, 120, 367

Parthénios, Theodore, 137

Partridge, Frances (née Marshall), 74 & n6; Friends in Focus, 251 & n4, 252; Life Regained, 316 & n1

Partridge, Ralph, 74 & n6

Passerano, Castello di, 54

Paterakis, Manoli, 208–9 & n1, 235–6

Pau, 161–2

Pearson, John: Façades, 173 & n1; Stags and Serpents, 206 & n2

Pembroke, William Herbert, 18th Earl of, 356 & n5

Perrone, Natalie (née Noailles), 64n1, 65 & n1, 331

Perrone, Sandro, 64n1

Peru, 117 & n1

Peto, Rosemary (earlier Countess of Sandwich), 150 & n3

Petra, 171

Petre, Mildred Mary (Mrs Bruce), 155 & n4

Philip, Prince, Duke of Edinburgh, 71, 98, 210

Phillips, John C., Jr, 90 & n2

Pindus Mountains, Greece: PLF’s account of expedition to, 122–40

Pitt-Rivers, Julian, 18 & n1

Pitt-Rivers, Margarita (formerly Primo de Rivera), 19n1

Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, 149

Pompadour, Hôtel de (Perrones’ house), 65, 70n1

Pompidou, Georges, 104 & n1

Portland, William Cavendish-Bentinck, 6th Duke of: Men, Women and Things, 178 & n4, 190

Portugal, 180–1

Potter, Beatrix: The Tale of Pigling Bland, 265n1

Poussin, Nicolas: Holy Family (painting), 188

Powell, Michael, 22n1

Prague, 293

Preminger, Otto, 37n1

Prescott, John, 332 & n3

Presley, Elvis, 310n1

Pressburger, Emeric, 22n1

Price, Lynda, 122n3

Pryce-Jones, Alan, 23 & n11, 40, 50–1

Pryce-Jones, David: Unity Mitford: A Quest, 145–6 & n2, 212

Pryce-Jones, Thérèse (née Fould-Springer), 23n11, 41n2

Psychoundakis, George, 254 & n3; The Cretan Runner, 209 & n4

Pyrenees: PLF travels in, 160–9

Quennell, Sir Peter, 7 & n7, 14

Rackham, Arthur, 31

Raleigh, Sir Walter, xx

Rare Breeds Survival Trust, 292

Raven, Simon, 189n5

Rayner, William John, 11n9

Redesdale, Algernon Bertram Mitford, 1st Baron, 214n2, 346 & n3

Redesdale, David Mitford, 2nd Baron (DD’s father): marriage, 64n3; portrayed by Nancy in Don’t Tell Alfred, 88n2; reads Jack London’s White Fang, 229 & n2

Redesdale, John Mitford, 4th Baron (‘Jack’), 86 & n3

Redesdale, Sydney, Lady (née Bowles; DD’s mother): at Inch Kenneth, 61n1, 159; and Jessica’s book Hons and Rebels, 63 & n3; at unveiling of memorial to husband, 72; illness and death, 95–6 & n1; poultry farm, 106 & n3; suggests title for Nancy’s first book, 170

Redford, Robert, 298n2

Redwood, Philip, 302

Renishaw Hall, Derbyshire, 143

Renta, Annette de la, 343 & n1

Renta, Oscar de la, 343 & n1, 368

Richard, Sir Cliff, 344

Ripon Cathedral, 351–3

Rita (PLF’s cook/housekeeper in Dumbleton), 370

Ritsa (PLF’s cook/housekeeper in Mani), 310 & n3, 330

Robinson, Hamish, 337 & n1, 370

Rodd, Peter, 7n2

Romania, 82, 108, 199, 202, 262

Romilly, Esmond, 64n2

Roots of Heaven, The (film), 33n1, 41, 45nn1, 2

Rose, General Sir Michael, 343 & n3, 345

Rosse, Beatrice, Countess of (later Viscountess Vesci), 11n7

Rothenstein, Sir John, 57 & n5

Rothschild, Baron Elie and Baroness Liliane (née Fould-Springer), 212–13 & n5

Rothschild, Jacob, 4th Baron, 144 & n1, 193, 196 & n4

Rothschild, Miranda see Boumaza, Miranda Rothschild, Serena, Lady (née Dunn), 145n1, 193, 197n

Rothschild, Victor, 3rd Baron, 84n1, 110n2

Roualle, Marquis Jean de, 40–1 & n3

Royal Smithfield Show, 112 & n2, 147, 278

Royaumont, Abbey of, 40 & n2

Rubirosa, Porfirio and Odile (née Rodin), 69 & n6

Rudnay de Rudnó et Divék Ujfalu, Maria (née Countess Maria Meran; ‘Marsci’), 201 & n3

Runciman, Sir Steven, 212 & n3

Russell, Conrad, 247 & n1, 248

Rylands, George (‘Dadie’), 144 & n2, 193

Sabine Women, 314

Sackville, Edward Sackville-West, 5th Baron, 58 & n2, 64, 88n2, 91n1, 323–5

Sackville, Lady Idina, 280 & n2, 282–3, 285

Sagan, Françoise, 36 & n1

Sainsbury, Alan John, Baron, 280 & n8

Sainsbury, John, Baron, 280 & n6

Sainsbury, Simon, 282n6

Sainsbury, Sir Timothy, 280 & n6

St Clair-Erskine, James Alexander (‘Hamish’), 22 & n8

Sandringham, Norfolk, 211–12 & n1, 284–5, 287

Sandys, Diana (née Churchill), 71n2

Sandys, Duncan (later Baron Duncan-Sandys), 71–2 & n2

Sangorski (bookbinders), 106 & n4

Santa Cruz, Lucía, 259 & n2

Sarakatsáns, 125, 127, 129–30, 132–3, 137–8

Sassoon, Sir Philip, 213 & n9

‘Schoissbauer, Alois’, 240

Sedgwick, Alexander, 51n6

Sedgwick, Roxane (née Sotiriadi), 50 & n6

Seferis, George, 118 & n4

Sevenhampton Place, Swindon, 176, 195

Sevki (Turk), 219–21

Sewell, Brian, 111 & n1

Shah of Iran (Muhammad Reza Pahlavi), 159n1

Shaw, George Bernard: Holroyd’s biography of, 266 & n1

Shawe-Taylor, Desmond, 241, 323

Shimwell, Alan, 159 & n1, 363

Shriver, Eunice (née Kennedy), 94 & n4

Shriver, Sargent, 93 & n4

Silcock, Lieut-Colonel John, 26 & n1, 291 & n1

Sinatra, Frank, 79

Sitwell family, 173

Sitwell, Georgia, Lady, 367n1

Sitwell, Sir Osbert, 143 & n2, 178, 215

Sitwell, Sir Sacheverell, 367 & n1

Sloane, Sir Hans, 313

Smart, Amy, Lady (née Nimr), 7n1, 65

Smart, Sir Walter, 7n1

Smith, Christian, Lady (née Carnegy), 229

Smith, Jack, 116

Smith, Sir John (Lindsay Eric), 229 & n3

Smith, John Saumarez: The Bookshop at 10 Curzon Street, 346n2, 347

Smyrna, 113–14

Smyth, Dame Ethel, 215 & n4

Snow, Jon, 358 & n3

Soames, Mary, Lady: Clementine Churchill, The Biography of a Marriage, 346 & n3

Society of Hons, 8n2

Somerset, Lady Anne: Ladies-in-Waiting, 217 & n5

Somerset House, London, 322 & n3

Somerville, Edith Oenone and Martin Ross (Violet Martin), 360

Soulbury, Herwald Ramsbotham, 1st Viscount, 74 & n4

South Bank Show, The (TV programme), 254n1

Souza-Lage, Jean de, 39, 41

Spain: PLF travels in with Fieldings, 179–82; see also Pyrenees

Special Operations Executive (SOE), 3n4, 129 & n3, 132, 192

Spectator ( journal), 267n & 1

Spencer House, London, 197n4

Spender, Natasha, Lady (née Litvin), 193 & n4

Spender, Sir Stephen, 193 & n4

Spetsai (island), 69, 109, 116

Stanley, Venetia, 8n5

Starás, Cléarchos, 130

Stephens, Ellen (‘Diddy’), 57 & n3

Stergios (Vlach), 123

Stewart, Beatrice, 350–1

Stewart, Damaris, Lady (née du Boulay), 113 & n1

Stewart, Sir Michael, 113 & n1, 184, 199, 235, 331

Stewart, Olivia, 331

Stewart-Richardson, Gladys, 53 & n4, 63

Stirling, Colonel David, 73n8, 370

Stirling, Peter, 200 & n1

Stirling, Colonel William, 72 & n8, 78, 200

Stoppard, Sir Tom, 330n1

Strachey, Julia, 205

Strachey, Lytton, 144, 205 & n1, 207 & n2

Strachwitz, Moritz, Graf: ‘The Heart of Douglas’, 215 & n1

Sturford Meade (house), near Longleat, Wiltshire, 12

Suez crisis (1956), 29n1

Sunday, Bloody Sunday (film), 118

Sunday Times, 290

Sutherland, Colonel David, 273 & n3, 370

Swann, Donald, 48n9

Swinbrook House, Oxfordshire, 8n2, 336 & n1; see also Mill Cottage

Swindon see Sevenhampton Place

Swiss Cottage, Chatsworth, 52 & n1

Syria, 187

Talassius, 314

Tamarón, Santiago de Mora-Figueroa y Williams, Marqués and Isabella, Marquesa de, 322 & n2

Tangiers, 12–14

Tarmac (company), 224–5, 228, 248

Tássos see Eythimíou, Tásso

Tennant, Edward (DD’s grandson), 141, 143, 356

Tennant, Isabel (DD’s granddaughter), 106 & n2, 259

Tennant, Lady Emma (née Cavendish; DD’s daughter): at Lismore, 9 & n1; PLF gives vasculum to, 30 & n1; proposes giving skeleton to St Elphin’s, 48; shooting, 50; teenage rebelliousness, 57; lost in Greece, 70n4; marriage and child, 106 & n2; in Scotland, 117; at Oxford, 196n2; at Buckingham Palace party, 197; appointed head of National Trust gardens, 199; letter to PLF, 215; makes hooked rugs, 251 & n3; and foot and mouth crisis, 328 & n2; mother’s trip with, 355; calls Bowra ‘Old Tragic’, 365

Tennant, Stella (later Lasnet; DD’s granddaughter), 117 & n2, 218, 259, 368 & n1

Tennant, Toby (Emma’s husband), 107n2, 117, 328 & n2

Testino, Mario, 368 & n1

Thatcher, Sir Denis, 225 & n7

Theodore (drover/guide), 125–6, 130

Thompson, Ernest: Wild Animals I Have Known, 100 & n2

Thompson, Hamilton, 152

Thrapsanó, Grigóris Khnarákis de, 137

Thynne, Lord Christopher, 312 & n2, 313

Thynne, Lady Christopher (née Antonia Palmer), 312n2

Timson, Rodney, 210 & n1

Topley, Lady Sophia (née Cavendish; then Morrison; DD’s daughter): birth, 27 & n1, 29; Epstein bust of, 56 & n2; visits Greece with mother, 109; schooling, 117; in Florence, 143; DD stays with in Wiltshire, 286 & n1; marriage to Morrison, 286n1; Christmas 1966 at Chatsworth, 311

Topolski, Feliks, 71 & n4

Toronto, 209

Toynbee, Philip, 192 & n2, 195–6, 207 & n1, 309

Treasures from Chatsworth, The Devonshire Inheritance (exhibition), 184 & n4

Tree, Lady Anne (née Cavendish; DD’s sister-in-law; ‘Tig’), 69 & n5, 109, 243

Tree, Iris (later Moffat; then Ledebur), 59 & n2, 61, 84, 265

Tree, Michael, 70n5

Treuhaft, Jessica (née Mitford; then Romilly; ‘Decca’): correspondence with DD, xi, 278; invents Society of Hons, 8n2; attends Philip Toynbee’s funeral, 196; confounds US telephone company, 206; visit to PLF, 207; aborted New Yorker article on, 292 & n1; death, 309; Faces of Philip, 207 & n1; A Fine Old Conflict, 154–5 & n2; Hons and Rebels, 63 & n2; Kind and Usual Punishment, 178; The Trial of Dr Spock, 178

Treuhaft, Robert (‘Bob’), 64n2

Trevor-Roper, Patrick, 192 & n1, 194, 196, 311, 323

Turkey, 218–22

Twiggy see Hornby, Lesley

United States of America: DD and Andrew visit, 77–9, 89; DD visits with Sir Nicholas Henderson, 225, 228, 249, 251

Updike, John, 254 & n2

Valéry, François, 66 & n3

Vanity Fair (magazine), 348 & n2

Varanasi, India, 150

Varro, 314

Vasiliki (cook), 53

Vaux-le-Vicomte chateau, near Paris, 163n2, 289

Veil, Simone, 184 & n2

Velouhiótis, Aris, 124n, 139

Venturi, Robert, 280 & n6

Versailles, 111

Vesci see de Vesci Vlachs, 122–3, 132–5, 139

Vogüé, Countess Marie Cristina (née Colonna), 263 & n2

Vogüé, Count Patrice de, 263n2, 289n1

Wallace, Barbara (née Lutyens), 284n9

Wallace, David, 283 & n5

Wallace, Edward, 284n9

Wallace, Captain Euan, 281n2, 284n9

Wallace, Gerard, 284n5

Wallace, John, 284n9

Wallace, William (‘Billy’), 283 & n9

Walpole, Horace, 213

Walton, Susana Gil, Lady (née Passo), 59n3

Walton, Sir William, 58 & n3, 79

Wantage, 160

Ward, Leslie (‘Spy’), 348 & n2

Warner, Rex, 84n1

Washington, DC, 89, 93; National Gallery, 94nn3, 1

Waugh, Alec, 305 & n2

Waugh, Evelyn: stays at Edensor, 34 & n1, 143, 342; correspondence with Nancy Mitford, 173, 300 & n1, 303; papers at Austin, Texas, 178; at Carolyn Cobb’s funeral, 305; Brideshead Revisited, 51n5, 303; Letters (ed. Mark Amory), 144n3, 173 & n3; The Life of the Right Reverend Ronald Knox, 60 & n2; Put Out More Flags, 7n2; Vile Bodies, 170

Waugh, Laura, 305

Webb, Norman, 305

Welles, Orson, 108

Wellington, Arthur Wellesley, 1st Duke of, 314

Wells, John, 194 & n2, 295 & n1

Whigham, Ian, 148 & n1, 157

White Mischief (film), 280 & n1, 282

White’s Club, London, 216, 230, 245, 298

Whyte-Melville, George John, 38n5, 178

Wilbury, Wiltshire, 355

William I (the Conqueror), King of England, 359

Wilson, Sir Angus, 48 & n4

Wilson, Harold, Baron, 98 & n2, 197 & n4

Wimborne, Dorset see Long Crichel House

Windsor Castle, 245–6

Wodehouse, Sir P. G.: Frances Donaldson’s biography of, 266 & n1

Woodhouse, Christopher Montague (5th Baron Terrington), 136 & n6

Woolf, Virginia, 215n4

Woolley, Janetta (later Marquesa de Apesteguía), 48n3, 90 & n1, 110, 169, 253, 267, 273, 293, 353

Wragg, Tom, 93 & n3, 103 & n1

Wrightsman, Jayne (née Larkin), 322 & n3, 343

Wyndham, John see Egremont, 1st Baron

Yemen, 255

Zanuck, Darryl F., 32 & n2, 36, 42, 44

Zervas, Napoleon, 124

Zuckerman, Solly, Baron, 197 & n3

Zulueta, Sir Philip de, 98 & n3.