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Index
Relationships
Content
Foreword
Evaluating you relationships
Relationship evaluation - Part 1 Basic evaluation
The Potential of Relationships
And they lived happily ever after ...?
Relationship evaluation - Part 2 How can we enrich each other’s lives?
Step 1 - “What can I do to enrich your life?”
Step 2 - “What can you do to enrich my life?”
Step 3
Step 4 – Reflection
Happy Together
Happiness strategies
Assumptions that help us to create satisfying relationships
Human beings share the same needs
Everyone’s needs are important
Emotions tell us what we need
Human action is motivated by a desire to meet needs
People enjoy contributing
To distinguish observations from interpretations gives us a common reality
If we see people as free to choose, it will make it easier to relate to their choices
Conflicts are handled more easily if we prioritize connection
All people have the ability to experience and show compassion
I do not recognize you!
Usual emotions when our need are met
Usual emotions when our need are not met
Some exampels of human needs
Relationship evaluation - Part 3 Beyond the static images
Step 1
Step 2
Freedom
About requests
Save a bush
Relationship evaluation - Part 4 Expectations and demands
Step 1:
Step 2
If you loved me, you would get me the bread
No!!!
Let me show you how I use these three assumptions:
Relationship evaluation - Part 5 Handling a “no”?
Dealing with ‘no’ from others
Saying no
Love as a feeling or Love as a need
Mistakes - doors to deeper connection
Saying you are sorry
Appreciation keeps relationships alive
Relationship evaluation - Part 6 Appreciation and gratitude
An appreciation that would make you “dance for joy”
Step 1
Step 2
Step 3 - Reflection
Me, we and all the others
Relationship evaluation - Part 7 Meeting needs
How internal images and external structures affects relationships
Some usual assumptions about relationships:
Other possible ways of looking at relationships
Relationship evaluation - Part 8 Clarity in intimate relationships
1. Preparing for important conversations
How:
Ask yourself:
2. Communication with focus on connection
Relationship training
References and literature
About the author
Short tips to nurture your relationships
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