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Index
Cover
Title Page
Note from the Author
Contents
Book One - First Adulthood
Prologue: Oh, Pioneers!
Part One - Whatever Happened to the Life Cycle?
Chapter 1 - Mapping Lives Across Time
Which Generation Are You Traveling With
World War II Generation
Silent Generation
Vietnam Generation
Me Generation
Endangered Generation
Welcome To Provisional Adulthood
The Good News
Part Two - The Flourishing Forties
Chapter 2 - The Vietnam Generation Hits Middlescence
Who Me, An Adult?
Out Of Control
Chapter 3 - Men Redefining Success
Rise Of The Nonworking Class
The Double Squeeze
The Pharmaceuticals Salesman, Age 48
The Auto Worker, Age 46
A Black Man’s Bonus Time, Age 40
A Wunderkind’s Handicap, Age 40
The Wunderkind Growing Up, Age 47
The New Midlife Man
Chapter 4 - Out-of-Sight Women
A Woman In Early Midlife Crisis
Catch-40 For Couples
Beyond “me”—to Another Level Of Being
Chapter 5 - The Fantasy of Fertility Forever
LATE BABYMANIA
THE GREAT POSTPONERS
The Psychic Fallout
WHAT DO YOU MEAN, MY EGGS ARE TOO OLD?
But Susan Sarandon Did it
The Facts On Infertility
SO GLAD I DIDN’T WAIT
The Race
Chapter 6 - Perpetual Middlescence
Holding The Edge
A Woman Addicted To Success, Age 52
Frozen In Time
Single Men: What Are You Doing From Five To Nine?
Single Women: Tales From The Naked City
Book Two - Second Adulthood
Prologue: A Brand-New Passage
Part Three - Passage to the Age of Mastery
Chapter 7 - The Mortality Crisis
Living On The Edge
Little Victories
Composing Your Own Progress Narrative
Peggy’s progress
Guides And Teachings
Part Four - Flaming Fifties Women
Chapter 8 - Women: Pits to Peak
First, The Terror
The Vanity Crisis
The New Female Pacesetters
Working-Class Women: Finding Faith In Yourself
Surprise! You’re Not Getting Older, You’re Getting Happier!
Women’s Historical Progress Across Time
A Survivor Who Found Passion At 50
Chapter 9 - Wonder Woman Meets Menopause
“I’m out of Estrogen, and I’ve Got A Gun”
Phase One: The Perimenopause Panic
Phase Two: Over The Hump
Should I Take Hormone Replacement Therapy (Hrt)?
The Breast Cancer Phobia
THE WEIGHT GAIN FALLACY
Phase Three: Postmenopause
Call Of The Wild Girl
Chapter 10 - From Pleasing to Mastery
ON THE PRIVILEGE OF BEING 50
Moving Toward Mastery
Finding One’s Own Voice
From Anger To Forgiveness
Part Five - Flaming Fifties: Men
Chapter 11 - The Samson Complex
The Male Vanity Crisis
The Aging Athlete, Age 57
The Excessed Vp, Age
The Sociable Athlete, Age 59
Macho Men Holding The Line
But My Body Is Bulletproof!
Chapter 12 - Fall Guys of the Economic Revolution
Corporate Refugees
THE LIFER, AGE 53
THE MEANT- TO-BE-PRESIDENT, AGE 55
Psychic Consequences
Angry And Anxious White Males
The New (Hostile) Dependence On Wives
Reality Testing For The Future
The Rehabilitation Of The Corporate Refugee
The Company Man As Free Agent, Age 48
Chapter 13 - The Optimism Surge
From Competing To Connecting
Men’s Anguish Over Empty Nest
Father, I Hardly Knew Ye
Reinventing Fatherhood
The Start-Over Dad, Age 59
The Mediator, Age 48
Chapter 14 - The Unspeakable Passage: Male Menopause
I’d Rather Have A Talking Frog
The Problem Without A Proper Name
Hard Statistics And Hopeful Science
Sex, Lies, And Scorekeeping
Am I Just Getting Old?
The Mind-Body Link
High-Tech Solutions
High-Technique Solution
How To Restore Vitality And Virility
Beyond Male Menopause
Chapter 15 - Men and Women: The New Geometry of the Sexual Diamond
A Point Of Harmony
Brain-Sex Changes Take
Back Your Diamond
The Crossover Crisis
Secrets Of Serene Potency
Bust-To-Boom Banker, Early Fifties
New-Age Electrician, Age 52
The Save-Your-Life Wife
The Divorce Springboard
Victoria’s Real Secret—Sexual power surges
Finding Your Passion Without A Man
Part Six - Passage to the Age of Integrity
Chapter 16 - The Serene Sixties
Ready For Prime Time
Growing Brain
The Hunger For Harmony
Special Powers Of The Sixties
Permission To Play
The Designer who learned to play at 63
Self-Confident Survivors
The Wiley Widow, Age 60
Love Stories Of The Sixties
Rekindling Old Flames, Age 77
Reconciliations
Chapter 17 - Men: Make My Passage
Grand Dads
Retirement: Love It Or Leave It?
The Bush Retirement (Non)Plan
The Carters’ Retirement Plan
The Winner’s Circle
Mr. Hat, The Company Man
Late-Age Entrepreneur
Sources Of Well-Being In The Sixties
How Much Is Enough?
Old Elephants’ Club, Age 65
Comebacks From Hopelessness
The Cancer Survivor
Chapter 18 - Wisewomen in Training
Dreamer Beyond Dreams
The Wit Network
A Wisewoman Model, Age 60
Survivor Sex And Extrasexual Passions
Congratulations, You’re A New Grandmother!
The New Fly-In Grandmother, Age 56
Nurturing: The Second Wave
Life And Love Beyond Loss
Caretakers Of The World
Master Of Divinity At 63
Looking Ahead
Expanding The Wit Network
Chapter 19 - Two Species of Aging
Choosing How To Age
Renaissance In The Art Of Health
Sharpening Up For The Sage Seventies And Beyond
Celebratory Centenarians
The Present Never Ages
Acknowledgments
Appendixes
Appendix I: Life History Survey
Appendix II: Professional Women’s and Men’s Surveys
Appendix III: Family Circle Survey
Appendix IV: New Woman Survey
Appendix V: Suggested Readings on Menopause
Dedication
Notes
About the Author
Copyright
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