S.E.X. · the All-You-Need-To-Know Progressive Sexuality Guide to Get You Through High School and College by Corinna, Heather -- Read -- Imperial Library of Trantor

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Praise about the author Title Page Copyright Page Dedication disclaimer t-h-a-n-k y-o-u about scarleteen. com Foreword who’s this book for, anyway ? Chapter 1 - I pledge allegiance ... to myself and the united state of my sexuali!y Chapter 2 - your body: an owner’s manual

■WHAT IS “SEXUALITY”? ■ ■ MEGA-METAMORPHOSIS: . ■ - Puberty ■ WHAT’S UP DOWN THERE? ■ - Male and Female Sexual Anatomy ■ FEMALE SEXUAL ANATOMY: ■ honorably discharged ■ MALE SEXUAL ANATOMY: ■ TOO LOOSE/TOO TIGHT! ■ TOO LONG/TOO SHORT! TOO LARGE/TOO SMALL! Or, What ... FOR THE GUYS: A FEW SHORT WORDS ON THE SHORT AND CURLIES WHATS “NORMAL” DOWN THERE?

Chapter 3 - the problem with perfect: body image

■ TEN BODACIOUS WAYS ■ TO BOOST BODY IMAGE ■ DISORDERED EATING ■ AND EATING DISORDERS ■ THE IDEAL SPIEL ■ ■ WHOLE BODY/WHOLE SEXY ■ ■ VIVA LA REVOLUCIÓN! ■

Chapter 4 - all by myself: solo sex, arousal, orgasm, and fantasy

■ SOLO SEX (MASTURBATION) ■ ■ AROUSAL AND ORGASM: ■ - Human Sexual Response Coming and Going ■ HOW DO YOU MASTURBATE? ■ HOW DO YOU TELL IF YOU’VE HAD AN ORGASM? WHAT IF YOU JUST CAN’T HAVE ONE, EVER? BUZZ KILLS KEEPING IT SAFE ISN’T IT A SIN? BUT ONLY LOSERS MASTURBATE! HOW MUCH IS TOO MUCH? AND YOUR FIRST SEX PARTNER IS ... ? ■ FANTASY FODDER: ■ - Sexual Fantasy WHICH FANTASIES ARE OKAY, AND WHICH AREN’T? ■ PORNOGRAPHY: ■ - One Big, Tricky, Sticky Issue PORN PROBLEMS DOES PORN CONTRIBUTE TO RAPE AND ABUSE? IS IT OKAY TO LIKE PORNOGRAPHY? IS IT OKAY TO DISLIKE IT?

Chapter 5 - multiple choice: gender, orientation, and sexual identity

Chapter 6 - on board the relationship

■ “RELATIONSHIP” SHOULD BE A VERB ■ ■ RELATIONSHIP MODELS: ■ - What Works for You? ■ DATING: ■ - Different, Not a Dinosaur INTERNET DATING ■ WITHOUT A MAP: ■ - Alternative Relationships ■ THOSE THREE LITTLE WORDS ■ ■ THE TEST OF TIME: ■ - Long-Term Relationships ■ DYSFUNCTION JUNCTION: ■ - The Crummy Stuff ■ ADVENTURES IN SPLITSVILLE: ■ - Breakups and How to Deal ■ “JUST” FRIENDS? ■

Chapter 7 - to be, or not to be ... sexually active

■ GREAT SEXPECTATIONS ■ TO PLAN OR NOT TO PLAN, THAT’S THE QUESTION LIGHTS, CAMERA, ACTION! WORST-CASE SCENARIOS UNTIL MARRIAGE ■ INTIMACY: ■ - Bonding Basics ARE YOU MENTAL? YES! INCREASING INTIMACY ■ VIRGINITY: ■ - Past and Present ■ BEA BLABBERMOUTH! ■ - Communicating with Partners about Sex ■ BODY OF EVIDENCE: ■ - Legal Issues in Your Sex Life

Chapter 8 - popular mechanics: the ins and outs of partnered sex

About the Pregnancy and STI Risk Assessments ■ KISSING ■ ■ PETTING/MASSAGE ■ ■ MUTUAL MASTURBATION ■ ■ FROTTAGE OR “DRY SEX” ■ ■ MANUAL SEX ■ ■ ORAL SEX: ■ - Cunnilingus ■ ORAL SEX: ■ - Fellatio ■ ORAL SEX: ■ - Analingus ■ VAGINAL INTERCOURSE ■ ■ ANAL SEX/INTERCOURSE ■ ■ CYBERSEX OR PHONE SEX ■ ■ SENSATION PLAY ■ ■ “KINKY” SEX ■ ■ THE OL’ GIVE AND TAKE: ■ - Sexual Symmetry, Reciprocity, and Equality ■ SEX AND OBLIGATION ■ ■ FAKING IT ■ ■ HAVING TROUBLE REACHING ■ ORGASM OR FEELING AROUSED WITH A PARTNER? ■ SEXUAL DIFFERENCES ■ VS. SEXUAL INCOMPATIBILITY ■ AFTERCARE ■ ■“GAY” SEX AND “STRAIGHT” SEX: ■ - What’s the Diff? ■ SEX AND DISABILITY ■ ■ THE POPULAR MECHANICS ■ ROUNDUP: - The 5 Most Important Things to Remember ...

Chapter 9 - safe and sound: safer sex for your body, heart, and mind

■ TAKING CARE DOWN THERE: ■ - Sexual Healthcare ■ SAFER SEX 101 ■

Chapter 10 - hidden wounds: preventing, identifying, and healing from abuse and rape

■ TYPES OF ABUSE ■ ■ PROTECTING YOURSELF FROM ■ ABUSIVE PARTNERS AND RELATIONSHIPS ■ PROTECTING YOURSELF FROM ■ RAPE AND SEXUAL ASSAULT ■ HEALING AND DEALING ■

Chapter 11 - to be or not to be ... pregnant: contraception

Chapter 12 - oh, baby ! conception, pregnancy, and pregnancy options

Chapter 13 - how to change the world (without even getting out of bed) APPENDIX A - common sexually transmitted infections: stis from a to z APPENDIX B - bibliography and recommended resources index