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Index
Cover
Title Page
Copyright
Table of Contents
Acknowledgments
Introduction
My Story
What Is This Book About?
Who Is This Book For?
Why Was This Book Written?
PART ONE: ASEXUALITY 101
The Basics
Asexuality Is a Sexual Orientation
Asexuality Is a Mature State
Asexuality Is a Description
Asexuality Is a Healthy Status
Asexuality Is a Reasonable Possibility
PART TWO: ASEXUAL EXPERIENCES
Romantic Orientation
Romanticism
Aromanticism
Grayromanticism
Demiromanticism
Libido and Masturbation
Intimate and Sexual Activity
Polyamory and Non-Monogamy
Kink, Fetish Play, and BDSM
Gray Areas
Graysexuality
Demisexuality
Asexual Relationships
Society, Discrimination, and Queer Communities
Asexual Community
Young and Asexual
Older and Asexual
Asexual Women, Asexual Men
Asexual People of Color
Gay / Queer and Asexual
Transgender and Asexual
Other Non-Cisgender / Non-Binary Identities and Asexuality
Autistic and Asexual
Disability, Illness, Mental Illness, Disorders, and Asexuality
Asexual People and Entertainment
Asexual Community Insiders
Non-Asexual People
The Asexual Experience
PART THREE: THE MANY MYTHS OF ASEXUALITY
Bingo!
Aren’t They Using the Word Asexual Incorrectly?
Is Asexuality Based On Fear of or Anger Toward Other Genders?
Do People Become Asexual Because They Fail at Dating?
Do People Become Asexual Because They’re Physically Unattractive?
Do Asexual People Have a Physical or Hormonal Problem?
Are Asexual People Too Distracted by Their Busy Lives to Be Sexual?
Did Asexual People Have a Bad Sexual Experience and Swear Off Sex?
Could Asexual People Be Suffering From Trauma Brought on by Sexual Abuse?
Could Asexual People Be Secretly Gay?
Have Asexual People Just Not Met the Right Person?
Is Asexuality a Religious Statement?
Are Asexual People Going Through a Phase or Seeking Attention by Being Different?
Wouldn’t Asexual People Be Lonely All the Time?
Are Asexual People Repressed, Boring, or Dispassionate?
Aren’t Asexual People Being Awfully Selfish? Isn’t an Asexual Person a Tease?
Don’t Asexual People Need to Procreate?
Do Asexual People Hate Sex or People Who Have Sex?
Should Asexual People Get Therapy to Be Fixed?
Aren’t Asexual People So Lucky to Have Simple, Uncomplicated Lives Without Sex?
Shouldn’t Asexual People Let an Experienced Sexual Partner Change Their Minds?
PART FOUR: IF YOU’RE ASEXUAL (OR THINK YOU MIGHT BE)
Am I Asexual?
But This Changes Everything!
Should I Come Out?
How Should I Handle the Criticism?
What If I’m a Teenager? Everyone Keeps Calling Me a “Late Bloomer.”
What If I’m Already in a Relationship, or Want to Be? What Do I Tell My Partner(s)?
So Where Do I Go From Here?
PART FIVE: IF SOMEONE YOU KNOW IS ASEXUAL (OR MIGHT BE)
A Message for Non-Asexual People
What Does It All Mean?
What Do Asexual People Want? How Can I Make Them Feel Accepted?
So How Can I Acknowledge Their Existence?
Is There Anything I Should Avoid Saying or Doing?
Somebody Just Told Me They’re Asexual! What Do I Say?
But What If I’ve Already Said Something Kind of Regrettable?
What If My Child Just Said They’re Asexual? Are They Too Young To Know?
What If My Partner Just Said They’re Asexual? What Do I Do?
Can I Ask Questions?
What Questions Can I Ask Without Making Someone Uncomfortable?
Anything I Should Avoid Assuming?
PART SIX: OTHER RESOURCES
Basic Information, Introductions, Organizations, and FAQs:
Discussion Groups, Networking, and Forums
Academic Resources and Research Collectives
Brochures and Educational Materials
Published Papers and Book Chapters on Asexuality
Published Articles and Interviews on Asexuality
Asexuality-Related Professional Video Media
Asexuality-Related Audio Interviews, Presentations, and Podcasts
Internet Videos and Channels on Asexuality
Asexuality-Related Blogs
“Asexual Perspectives” Contributors
Bibliography
Index
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