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Index
Cover
Praise for Reconcilable Differences
Title Page
Copyright Page
Dedication Page
Contents
Acknowledgments
Preface
PART I - The Conflicting Sides of Conflict
1. Three Sides to Every Story
2. “You’re Wrong!”: Relationship Problems as Faults
PART II - A DEEP Understanding of Conflict: The Third Side of the Story
3. “How Can You Be That Way?”: Relationship Problems as Differences
4. “You Know How to Hurt Me”: Relationship Problems as Emotional Sensitivities
5. “Can’t You See I’m Stressed Out?”: Relationship Problems as External Circumstances
6. A Cure Worse Than the Disease: Relationship Problems as Patterns of Communication
PART III - From Argument to Acceptance
7. The Delicate Balance: Acceptance and Change
8. A Story of Our Own: Acceptance through Understanding
9. Walking in Your Partner’s Shoes: Acceptance through Compassion
10. Getting Some Perspective on the Conflict: Acceptance through Tolerant Distance
PART IV - Deliberate Change through Acceptance
11. The Dilemmas of Deliberate Change
12. Deliberate Change through Mindfulness: Custom-Fitting Change to Suit Your Relationship
13. Deliberate Change through Communication: Taking Good Advice about Talking and Listening with a Mindful Grain of Salt
14. The Silver Bullet of Deliberate Change: Taking Charge of Change Even When Things Go Bad
PART V - When Acceptance Is Not Enough
15. “Don’t Do That to Me!”: Violence, Verbal Abuse, and Infidelity
16. Calling In the Professionals: Couple and Individual Therapy
Resources
Bibliography
Index
About the Authors
About Guilford Press
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