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Index
How to Spot a Dangerous Man Before You Get Involved
Dedication
Title Page
Important Note
Foreword
Preface
Introduction
Chapter 1 - Understanding the Face of Dangerousness
Why Women Choose Dangerous Men
Minimizing and Glamorizing
Developing Your Own Language for Dangerous
Categories of Dangerous Men
A Few Words about Pathology and Personality Disorders
“But My Man Isn’t Pathological!”
What Causes Pathology?
What You Can Expect from a Pathological Man
Pathological vs. Chronic Disorders
What Should You Do If You’re Already Involved with a Dangerous Man?
Not All Men Are Dangerous
Meet Tori
Chapter 2 - Red Flags and Red Alerts: Knowing, Sensing, Being Aware —and ...
Your Built-In Danger-Alert System
Why Do Women Ignore Their Red Flags?
Tori’s Red Flags
Your Own Red Flags
What Other Women’s Red Flags Can Teach You
Implications
Telling Yourself the Truth
Women’s Self-Sabotaging Behaviors
Conclusions
A Gift from Your Sisters
Chapter 3 - The Permanent Clinger
Alan Adoration-Turned-to-Suffocation
Who They Seek
Why They Are Successful
Women’s Stories
Your Defense Strategy
Women’s Insights
Chapter 4 - The Parental Seeker
Tommy Teenager
Who They Seek
Why They Are Successful
Women’s Stories
Your Defense Strategy
Women’s Insights
Chapter 5 - The Emotionally Unavailable Man
Donnie Don’t-Call-Me-I’ll-Call-You
Who They Seek
Why They Are Successful
Women’s Stories
Your Defense Strategy
Women’s Insights
Chapter 6 - The Man with the Hidden Life
Hank the Hider
Who They Seek
Why They Are Successful
Women’s Stories
Your Defense Strategy
Women’s Insights
Chapter 7 - The Mentally Ill Man
Mike the Meltdown
Who They Seek
Why They Are Successful
Women’s Stories
Your Defense Strategy
Women’s Insights
Chapter 8 - The Addict
Paul Partyboy
Types of Addictions
Who They Seek
Why They Are Successful
Women’s Stories
Seeing Addictions in Stories from Other Chapters
Your Defense Strategy
Women’s Insights
Chapter 9 - The Abusive or Violent Man
Victor the Viper
What Constitutes Abuse?
Who They Seek
Why They Are Successful
Women’s Stories
Your Defense Strategy
Women’s Insights
Help for Women in Abusive Relationships
Chapter 10 - The Emotional Predator
Howard the Hunter
Who They Seek
Why They Are Successful
Women’s Stories
Any Woman’s Story
Your Defense Strategy
Women’s Insights
Chapter 11 - Signs of a Bad Dating Choice
Boundaries and Their Role in Healthy Relationships
Healthy Versus Unhealthy Relationships
Specific Signs of a Bad Dating Choice
For Women Involved with a Dangerous Man: Deciding Whether to Leave or Stay
Questionnaire: Am I in Danger of Dating More Dangerous Men?
Chapter 12 - To Thine Own Self Be True: Learning to Heed Your Red Flags
How Women Fail to Honor Their Red Flags
Universal Red Flags
Mythical Assumptions
The Many Stories of Katie
Mythical Conclusions
Chapter 13 - New Life, New Choices
Sierra’s Success Story
Jenna’s Success Story
Your Success Story
In Closing
Appendix - Descriptions of Mental and Emotional Disorders
Resources
Index
Copyright Page
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