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Index
Introduction
Be your own man, not someone else’s version of you
My stumbles
Embodying the powers of Masculine Emotional Intelligence
Why this book?
Growing up
It’s not therapy
The three phases of change
The Nine Steps of Growing Up
Women and this book
Boys and this book
How to use this book
“Sober" up
A few notes
Disclaimer
Chapter 1: Show Up
Being present gives you power
What do you really want?
Simple skill, powerful effects
Use the power of your body
A man’s story
When you’re not experiencing your body anymore
Change your body… change your mind
Don’t fix; be
Hold the space
Putting it all together
Chapter 2: If It Ain’t Working, Let It Die
Let go of what’s not working so you have space for what can work
It’s holding you back, so let it go
Discover a new ally
The Projector
Looking into the mirror
Break the projector, shatter the mirror
Just deal with it, you can do it
Don’t fear change—embrace it with Evolutionary Change
Look at it clearly, so you can kill it
Chapter 3: Leave Home —Really Leave Home— and Grow Up
Leave the dependency on women
Give it up
Take the woman out of you—but leave the feminine
The feminine in men that works
Create” the parents you didn’t have
Leave home… be alone
There is life after leaving home
Creating your space
Chapter 4: Ask For Help: Growing Up is a Community Effort
Who do you call at 2 a.m. when your world explodes?
Weapons of self-destruction
Get over it
Ask for directions
Growing up is a team sport
Structure of support
So what helps?
Your journey to being Remarkable
Chapter 5: Fill in the Blanks
Find what is undone and finish it
Deep change
Deep completion
Deep forgiveness
Filling the holes of childhood
Completing what is missing
Chapter 6: Man Up! Take Responsibility For Yourself!
Develop the skills to live your life
Get your life back
Get out of the drama
Own your consequences
What to own
Be an entrepreneur
Who are you?
Accountability
Growing up and manning up
Chapter 7: Go For It! Take Some Risks!
The Value of Risk
Set boundaries
Purpose
Whom do you serve?
Purpose leads to passion
Refinements
Chapter 8: Connect to the Divine, Know You’re Not Alone
Connect to the Divine—in yourself and in your relationships with friends and family
Accountability to your standard
Contribution
Your divine connection
Chapter 9: Enjoy!
Receive your rewards
Let go to receive
Conclusion
Putting it all together to become remarkable
Reinforce it
Be Remarkable
Thank You
Resources for the Remarkable Man
Spirit
Emotions
Body
Mind
Trainings
Men’s Trainings
Men learning to relate to women
Mindfulness Stress Reduction Program
Circling
Sexual energy and vitality
The books that started the men’s movement
Books teaching men to not be women
Christian books
Boys to men
Non-men’s books
Movies
More information
Use these resources
Gratitude
Special Bonus for Reading the Book
Endnotes
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