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Index
Cover
Dedication
Epigraph
Author’s Note
Introduction
Part One: For Better—Or Worse: How to Identify the Real Problem in Your Relationship
1. What in the World Did “I Do”?: Marriage may be challenging, but it isn’t impossible
2. Why Marriage Can Be So Hard: We’re playing a game, and we don’t even understand the rules
3. Don’t Be Afraid to Change First: How to become the front-runner for change in your marriage
Part Two: Now What Do I Do?: How to Implement Change by Yourself
4. It Gets a Lot Easier Once You Know What to Fix: If what you’re doing isn’t working, try something new
5. Keep Your Anxiety From Running the Show: Strengthen your tolerance for the things that push your buttons
6. What Happens Once You Calm Down?: Growing separately, together
7. The Big Picture: How to recognize what you’re really fighting about
8. We All Play a Part: You have more power than you think
9. Marriage Is a Choice: Making peace with the little (and even big) things that drive us nuts
10. Hidden in Plain Sight: How we get unhooked from our big-picture issues
Part Three: Welcome to Your Stronger, More Loving Relationship: How to Keep Learning and Growing—Separately and Together
11. 360 Degrees and Sunny: The surprising truth about what makes happy couples happy
12. It Takes One to Tango: A pep talk for your journey
Acknowledgments
Appendix: Typical and Normal Ways People Avoid Differentiation
About the Author
Notes
Copyright
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