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INTRODUCTION
AUGUST 2003
OCTOBER 2006
THE WEEKEND BOOT CAMP
MARCH 2008: DÉJÀ VU
STEP ONE: UNDERSTANDING CHEMISTRY
ROMANTICISM VERSES PRACTICALITY
SLOW BUILD-UP OF THE ‘CHEMISTRY SENSATION’
RAPID BUILD-UP OF THE ‘CHEMISTRY SENSATION’
STEP TWO: UNDERSTANDING WHAT WOMEN WANT
KNOWING YOUR TARGET
FAMILIARITY
THE NEED WITHIN
THE PRIMAL NEED
THE EVER-CHANGING DESIRES
STEP THREE: CONFIDENCE AND THE MISTAKE OF BEING VAGUE
JUST BE CONFIDENT
PINPOINTING YOUR STICKING POINTS
PINPOINTING YOUR STRENGTHS
STEP FOUR: THE STAGE
WHAT IS THE STAGE?
THE WEAK STAGE
THE STRONG STAGE
THE SIX COLUMNS OF YOUR STAGE
FIRST COLUMN: LEG POSITION
SECOND COLUMN: ARMS
THIRD COLUMN: HANDS
FOURTH COLUMN: EYE CONTACT
FIFTH COLUMN: FACIAL EXPRESSION
THE NERVOUS LAUGH
SIXTH COLUMN: VOCAL TONE
SUMMARY OF THE STAGE
STEP FIVE: THE THREE ELEMENTS OF ATTRACTION
THE FORMULA OF ATTRACTION
CONTROL
EXCUSES, EXCUSES
IMPACT
CONNECTION
STEP SIX: PRE-APPROACH
ASSESSING THE SITUATION
DISCRETION
WHAT YOU ARE LOOKING FOR
OUTCOME DEPENDENCE
MARKS OUT OF TEN
CREATING YOUR LIST
THE NEW PRE-APPROACH FRAME OF MIND
STEP SEVEN: THE OPENER
A MESSAGE ABOUT CANNED MATERIAL
STEP EIGHT: CONVERSATION SKILLS AND THE NINE-HOOK LEAD SYSTEM
“BUT I CAN TALK SO WELL WITH MY FRIENDS”
THE NINE-HOOK LEAD SYSTEM
HOOKS
HIGH-CALIBRE AND LOW-CALIBRE HOOKS
HOOK LEAD ONE: OPEN QUESTION
HOOK LEAD TWO: FACT
HOOK LEAD THREE: OPINION
THE DIFFUSION TECHNIQUE
HOOK LEAD FOUR: CHALLENGE
HOOK LEAD FIVE: HUMOUR
HOOK LEAD SIX: ANECDOTES
HOOK LEAD SEVEN: TASKS
HOOK LEAD EIGHT: VALIDATION
HOOK LEAD NINE: ASSUMPTION
THE TWO-OPTION ASSUMPTION
SUMMARY OF THE NINE-HOOK LEAD SYSTEM
PRACTICE
STEP NINE: VALIDATION
POSITIVE VALIDATION
NEGATIVE VALIDATION
PUSH-PULL TECHNIQUE
SUMMARY
STEP TEN: BITCH SHIELDS
WHY DO WOMEN HAVE BITCH SHIELDS?
DESTROYING BITCH SHIELDS
VALIDATE, VALIDATE AND VALIDATE!
FINAL REMINDERS ON DESTROYING BITCH SHIELDS
STEP 11: SEXUAL ESCALATION
WHAT IS SEXUAL ESCALATION?
WHY ARE SOME MEN USELESS AT SEXUAL ESCALATION?
THE THREE STAGES
THE DIPPING TECHNIQUE
EFFECTIVE DIPPING
ASSESSING THE SITUATION
WHAT NEXT?
FLIRTING
STEP 12: CLOSING
GETTING A NUMBER AS A RESULT OF DAYTIME OR DIRECT APPROACHES
THE NICKNAME NUMBER CLOSE
MAKING SURE YOU DON’T GET A ‘FLAKY NUMBER’
ONLINE ROMANCE? NO WAY!
STEP 13: THE PHONE CALL
THIRD DAY LOGIC
WHAT TIME?
THE PHONE CALL
STEP 14: GOOD GUYS VS. BAD GUYS
THE BAD GUY
THE GOOD GUY
THE NICE GUY
WHY DO NICE GUYS CONTINUE TO BE ‘NICE’?
STEP 15: NEVER GOING BACK TO ZERO
WHAT IF SHE THREATENS TO LEAVE?
AUTHOR’S POSTSCRIPT
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