How to Quit Being a Loser With Women · and Become the Man Women Instantly Want by Summers, Marc -- Read -- Imperial Library of Trantor

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ABOUT MARC SUMMERS INTRODUCTION “I’VE GONE PLACES WITH AN ERECTION THAT I WOULDN’T HAVE GONE TO WITH A SHOTGUN.” WOMEN SHOULD’VE CAME WITH AN INSTRUCTION MANUAL I SPENT YEARS FIGURING THIS STUFF OUT YOUR MOMENT OF OPPORTUNITY TRAIN YOUR MIND FOR DATING SUCCESS HOW WILL THIS CHANGE YOUR LIFE? THE CURRENT DIVORCE RATE AND FAILING RELATIONSHIPS USE THIS BOOK AS A GUIDE HOW TO CONTACT ME – MARC SUMMERS SO YOU KNOW… PART 1: HOW TO GET THE MOST FROM THIS BOOK

DON’T BELIEVE ME IT TAKES TIME LEARNING MAKES PEOPLE NERVOUS COMMIT TO YOURSELF BAD STARTS THERE’S NO GOING BACK NOW

PART 2: CHANGE STARTS ON THE INSIDE

ACCEPT YOURSELF AS YOU ARE BECOME AWARE OF WHERE YOU’RE AT NOW JOHARI WINDOW OF COMPETENCE BE RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR SUCCESS COMPARE YOUR SUCCESS TO WHAT YOU WANT OTHERS WANT TO KEEP YOU DOWN NEVER STOP IMPROVING YOURSELF

PART 3: WOMEN CAN BE WEIRD

MY CAT AND DOG THEORY WHY WOMEN ARE SO FREAKIN’ HARD TO UNDERSTAND WOMEN HAVE A BIOLOGICAL TIME CLOCK HOW DOES ATTRACTING WOMEN REALLY WORK? FLIPPING THAT “ATTRACTION SWITCH”

PART 4: A DIFFERENT WAY OF LOOKING AT THINGS

TIMES HAVE CHANGED A DIFFERENT OUTLOOK CHANGE THE WAY YOU THINK LOGICAL VS. WHAT WORKS LEARN TO BE SINGLE AND HAPPY FIRST DEVELOP AND MAINTAIN A HEALTHY PERSPECTIVE OF WOMEN DON’T OBSESS OVER WOMEN OR GETTING LAID NEVER MAKE WOMEN THE CENTER OF YOUR UNIVERSE YOU ARE THE WOMAN ON YOUR ARM

PART 5: COMMON MISCONCEPTIONS WE HAVE ABOUT WOMEN

PART 6: TRAIN YOUR MIND FOR SUCCESS WITH WOMEN

OUR NATURAL “DEFAULT SETTING” OVERCOMING SHYNESS OVERCOMING NERVOUSNESS OVERCOMING FEAR EXPAND YOUR COMFORT ZONE GET COMFORTABLE WITH REJECTION DEVELOPING CONFIDENCE KEEP YOUR COMPOSURE CONTROL YOUR EMOTIONS NEVER WHINE, COMPLAIN, OR ACT LIKE A VICTIM CORRECTLY HANDLE DRAMA AND CONFLICT OWN YOUR FEELINGS KNOWING WHEN TO STOP NEVER BE NEEDY, CLINGY, OR SEEK APPROVAL EXAMPLES OF BEING NEEDY, CLINGY, AND SEEKING APPROVAL EXAMPLES OF NOT BEING NEEDY, CLINGY, AND SEEKING APPROVAL JEALOUSY ALWAYS BE POSITIVE ALWAYS BE HONEST BE AUTHENTIC BE A LEADER BE DOMINANT HAVE HIGH STANDARDS NEVER ACCEPT BAD BEHAVIOR SURROUND YOURSELF WITH VALUABLE PEOPLE IDENTIFY GAMES YOU PLAY AND ELIMINATE THEM YOUR UNCONSCIOUS AND NERVOUS HABITS AROUND WOMEN SELF-DISCIPLINE AND DELAYING GRATIFICATION LOCUS OF CONTROL LIVE IN YOUR OWN REALITY KNOW YOUR LIFE PURPOSE AND STICK TO IT CHANGE YOUR SELF-BELIEFS RECOGNIZE AND USE YOUR INNER POWER

PART 7: BEHAVIORS AND HABITS FOR BETTER RESULTS

DON’T BE A GIRLY MAN NEVER CHASE WOMEN APOLOGIZE ONLY WHEN NECESSARY NEVER MANIPULATE WOMEN EXAMPLES OF BEING MANIPULATIVE LEARN TO SAY “NO” STOP SEEKING PERMISSION DON’T BE HER GIRLFRIEND HOW DO YOU UNKNOWINGLY BECOME HER GIRLFRIEND? DON’T TRY FIXING HER PROBLEMS STOP GIVING WOMEN YOUR MONEY NEVER USE WOMEN TO GET YOUR FRIENDS’ APPROVAL DON’T BE THE GUY WHO’S NICER THAN ALL THE OTHERS LEARN TO BE MORE OF A BAD BOY NICE GUY / BAD BOY

PART 8: INTERACTING WITH & TALKING TO WOMEN

THE QUALITY OF YOUR INTERACTION MATTERS WHY ARE WOMEN SO EASILY WEIRDED OUT? DO YOU “GET” WOMEN AND DATING? SIGNS THAT SHOW WOMEN YOU “GET IT” WHEN YOU’RE OUT MEETING WOMEN APPROACHING WOMEN WHAT’S THE WORST THAT CAN HAPPEN? WHAT TO SAY THE RIGHT MINDSET WHEN APPROACHING WOMEN WHAT TO DO IF SHE’S NOT INTERESTED BE MYSTERIOUS BE A CHALLENGE PICK-UP LINES STOP TRYING TO IMPRESS WOMEN AVOID TELLING WOMEN EVERYTHING ABOUT YOURSELF NEVER BE TOO BORING LEAVE BORING STUFF OUT OF CONVERSATIONS STOP BEING PREDICTABLE EXAMPLES OF BEING UNPREDICTABLE STOP THINKING TOO MUCH EYE CONTACT COMMUNICATING WITH YOUR EYES BODY LANGUAGE UNATTRACTIVE BODY LANGUAGE: ATTRACTIVE BODY LANGUAGE: EYE CONTACT AND BODY LANGUAGE REVIEW VOICE TONE HOW FAST/SLOW AND LOUD/QUIET TO TALK VERBAL WASTE LEARN TO SPEAK WELL LISTEN MORE THAN YOU SPEAK COMPLIMENTING WOMEN DON’T SELL FROM THE HEELS LEARN TO HAVE FUN TALKING TO WOMEN MAKING HER LAUGH HOW TO BE FUNNIER A FEW COMEDIANS TO WATCH AND LISTEN TO: JOKING AROUND EXAMPLES OF JOKING AROUND AND MAKING HER LAUGH: IT’S OK TO BE PERVERTED AROUND WOMEN EXAMPLES OF BEING PERVERTED AROUND WOMEN HOW YOU SHOULDN’T BE PERVERTED HOW TO GET WOMEN TO SEE YOU AS A COOL GUY THINGS THAT AREN’T COOL THINGS THAT MAKE YOU A COOL GUY

PART 9: GOING OUT ON DATES

WHERE TO MEET WOMEN TO GO OUT WITH HOW TO GET WOMEN’S PHONE NUMBERS TALKING ON THE PHONE HOW TO ASK WOMEN OUT ON A DATE DON’T PLAN DATES OR WORRY ABOUT AN OUTCOME BE PROFESSIONAL AND PAY ATTENTION TO DETAIL PREPARING FOR A DATE HYGIENE AND GROOMING EXERCISE AND PHYSICAL HEALTH HOW TO DRESS RELAXING BEFORE A DATE WHERE TO GO ON A DATE FUN AND SIMPLE PLACES TO GO WHAT NOT TO DO ON A DATE GO WITH THE FLOW… DON’T FORCE ANYTHING TO HAPPEN WHEN WOMEN START TESTING YOU ENDING THE DATE – KNOW WHEN TO CALL IT A NIGHT

PART 10: CONCLUSION: WHAT YOU SHOULD DO NOW

PRACTICE, PRACTICE, PRACTICE UNDERSTAND THAT YOU ARE GOING TO REGRESS UNDERSTAND WOMEN AND DATING WILL NOT FIX ALL YOUR PROBLEMS WOMEN AND DATING WON’T BE AN OBSESSION ANYMORE YOU ARE NOW RESPONSIBLE FOR HELPING OTHER MEN AROUND YOU SIGN UP FOR MY NEWSLETTER