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Index
Contents
Illustrations
Preface
1. The Best of News: A Reason to Get Up in the Morning
To “Get” the News You Have to Understand the Story
Now for the Best of News
Our News Must Be the Good News
Why Hope Rests on a Person
What Sin Does to Us
2. In the Hands of the Redeemer
Many Tools in the Toolbox
But There Is More
God’s Monsoon
Answers, Encyclopedias, and Outlines
Tell Me the Old, Old Story
God’s Rebar
Amazing Grace
It’s Not Your Party
A Life Worth Living
3. Do We Really Need Help?
The Best Place to Start Is at the Beginning
People Think
You Gotta Serve Somebody
Putting It All Together
The Entrance of Another Counselor
Why Obey God?
People, the Serpent, and Personal Ministry
Saved, But Still Needy
Bringing It All Together
4. The Heart Is the Target
Why Do People Do the Things They Do?
Fruit, Roots, and the Heart
Personal Ministry and Fruit Stapling
The Heart of the Matter
God’s Response
Covert and Overt Idolatry
Applying the Principle
It’s a Matter of Treasure
5. Understanding Your Heart Struggle
Looking for Conflict in All the Wrong Places
An Army of Desires in a World at War
Dueling Kingdoms and Relational Chaos
Spiritual Adultery and Anger with People
A Jealous Grace
The Capture of the Heart
The Humble Cleansing of the Heart
Powerful Passions and Powerful Desires
Two Realities
6. Following the Wonderful Counselor
So You Want to Be an Instrument of Change?
To Understand Your Calling, You Need to Understand the Incarnation
Grace and Truth
A New Agenda
A Focused Calling
Love, Know, Speak, Do
7. Building Relationships by Entering Their World
Foundational Love
Redemptive Relationships
What Does a Redemptive Relationship Look Like?
8. Building Relationships by Identifying with Suffering
In a World Where Suffering Is Common
Suffering and Personal Ministry
9. Getting to Know People
Breaking Through the Casual
Christ the Data Gatherer
The Problem of Assumptions
Making Sure Your Conclusions Are Correct
The Importance of Asking Good Questions
Now for Some Good Questions
The Redemptive Importance of Good Questions
10. Discovering Where Change is Needed
Making Sense of the Data
Organizing the Information Biblically
Understanding and Using the Hooks
What About Emotions?
Loving God and People Enough to Take Time
11. The Goals of Speaking the Truth in Love
Biblical Confrontation Means Starting with Your Own Heart
Biblical Confrontation Starts with the Right Goals
Don’t Leave the Gospel at the Door
12. The Process of Speaking the Truth in Love
Understanding the Steps of the Confrontation Process
How to Confront Biblically
13. Establishing Agenda and Clarifying Responsibility
Quitting Too Soon
Ingredients Needed to Encourage Change
Knowing Where You’re Going
Applying the Three Questions
Trust and Obey
14. Instilling Identity with Christ and Providing Accountability
The Importance of Knowing Who You Are
The Gift of Loving Accountability
What Accountability Provides
The Simplicity and Grandeur of Personal Ministry
Core Truths of an Ambassadorial Lifestyle
Appendix 1: Opening Blind Eyes: Another Look at Data Gathering
Appendix 2: What the Counselor Brings to the Process of Data Gathering
Appendix 3: Strategies for Data Gathering
Appendix 4: Doctrines that Drive Homework
Appendix 5: Homework and Four Phases of Counseling
Getting the Big Picture
What is the Christian life?
Responding to the Situations of Life
Clarifying Responsibility
Notes
Index of Scripture
Resources for Changing Lives
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