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Index
Cover
Title Page
Copyright
Table of Contents
Dedication
Foreword
Foreplay
Harder
“I started equating having an orgasm with just getting really, really close to it.”
“Accept that you are not Jennifer Lawrence and let yourself feel good.”
“I’ve had amazing sex with one-night stands and horrible sex with a longtime boyfriend.”
“Had I been molested, maybe? I would be asked this by more than one doctor, in a tone approaching hopefulness.”
“I feel her strap-on bulging through her pants and boxer briefs.”
“When you make me come, I don’t want to be reminded about how for so long I was saving myself for marriage.”
“Get in there. Get messy.”
“Slowly, I began to realize that as guilty as I felt about sex, I also really enjoyed it.”
“I’m sure I’m not the only one, but every single guy I hooked up with attempted to have anal sex with me.”
“Dogs and cats gotta be off the bed.”
“An ex and I timed it to see how long it would take for him to make me climax: seventeen seconds.”
Softer
“Love me like Sting loves Trudie.”
“YOIRM—Your Orgasm Is Ruining Mine”
“She explained to me that I had one of the few known strains of HPV that can lead to cervical cancer.”
“Kiss my nipples and tell me they taste sweet.”
“I was so inhibited that I did not talk about sex with him or even birth control.”
“I’ve only been having sex for about five years, so I still have a lot to learn.”
“I thought that it was an urban legend that couples come together, but we both come very quickly.”
“There’s a very fine line between kissing breasts in a super-sexy way and making it feel like a man is feeling super oedipal and trying to breastfeed.”
“I forget about how much I like sex, so if you want to make me come, remind me.”
“I don’t want to be having sex where faking an orgasm is the only way out of it. I don’t want to be having sex where I even NEED a way out of it.”
“We have all been made to feel powerless or weak in sexual circumstances. Let’s commit to not perpetuating that.”
“Sex in my early sixties came with the agreement that it just didn’t matter if either one of us had an orgasm.”
“I remember the day everything changed for me. The day I finally understood what tantra was.”
Deeper
“He gets me off by telling me all about his naughty past with other women.”
“I would take off my pants and undies, lie naked from the waist down on a table, insert a transparent plastic speculum into my vagina, and show a roomful of women I had never met how to do pelvic self-examination using a mirror.”
“Sex education, if any, inspired fear in the hearts of the innocent and uneducated in the classroom around me.”
“I hung from him like a decoration, my knees off the mattress slightly as he took my weight fully in his hands.”
“The orgasms I have with him are like nothing I’ve experienced before.”
“He’d managed to make every other girlfriend come. Why couldn’t I? What was wrong with me?”
“Feel free to ask to watch me touch myself. If you haven’t already, LEARN TO FIND THIS HOT.”
“I can’t believe I own a sex toy! I’m such a sexy pervert!”
“I don’t believe I owe my partner a real orgasm any more than I owe her access to my pussy.”
“Sometimes we try so hard for sex to be casual or animal or merely physical that we forget there can be an emotional underbelly to it all.”
“You told me if I didn’t act like I was into sex, we’d have to stop dating.”
“It wasn’t until after a decade of promiscuity that I realized what had actually happened.”
“To put it bluntly, I don’t bang dudes who aren’t feminists anymore.”
A Little to the Left
“Picture my pussy like a map of Manhattan.”
“Maybe this is an obvious statement, but sex is just better when it’s desired.”
“I can’t come when I have roommates and I can hear them opening and closing the fridge and talking about which ABC Family movie they’re going to hate-watch next.”
“There was something about Toni Collette, middle-aged and real with a bundle of frustrations and a knee-length khaki skirt, that really spoke to my clit.”
“Each time, without fail, this man has made every single woman he’s ever been with orgasm?”
“My pussy is your spirit animal.”
“It seemed a problem of epic proportions and I hoped the feminist movement would address it somehow.”
“And while there’s something encouraging about the NEVER GIVE UP! set, the fact that mostly they blow past the fact that I tell them it’s not going to happen kind of cancels out their good intentions.”
“I had HEARD about this clit thing, but I was like, no way, I don’t have that, or if I do it’s definitely broken.”
“Tell her she tastes amazing right off the bat.”
The Afterglow
Acknowledgments
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