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Index
Cover
Title Page
Copyright
Contents
PROLOGUE
What Just Happened to Me?
How Fast Does Chemistry Happen?
Does Timing Count?
What’s Happening to My Brain?
Who Discovered Why We Feel Chemistry?
But I Thought Chemistry Is Either There . . . Or It Isn’t
Chemistry Makes the World Go ‘Round
Why Did It Happen?
Are You the Master or the Slave of Love?
Why Are We So Naive About Love?
Skull and Crossbones
Now the Good News
A Few Important Housekeeping Notes (Don’t Skip These!)
CHAPTER 1 LOVE IN LIMBIC LAND
Where Love Lives
Your Amygdala Nickname: Ms. Emotions
Your Hippocampus Nickname: Mr. Memory
Your Hypothalamus Nickname: Mr. Action
Your Nucleus Caudate and Environs Nickname: Pleasure Island
Your Prefrontal Cortex Nickname: The Professor
The Six Sexy Chemicals of Love
Dopamine
Serotonin
Testosterone
Estrogen
Oxytocin
Vasopressin
CHAPTER 2 CHEMISTRY AT FIRST SIGHT
“All Men Are Animals”
“All Women Are Gold Diggers”
Huntresses, Cut the Animals Some Slack
Sex Scrambles His Brain
Blame Mom and Co.
Hunters, Cut the Gold Diggers Some Slack
What Sparks a Hunter’s Chemistry—and Why
Babies “R” Us
Let’s Break It Down to Body Parts. Guys Do.
What Sparks a Huntress’s Chemistry—and Why
Planet Earth’s Colossal Unisex Chemistry Sparker
Cliff Notes
CHAPTER 3 HOW TO SPARK CHEMISTRY TO ATTRACT
Forget the Golden Rule When Trying to Spark Chemistry
Fight, Flight, or Chemistry at First Sight?
Get Wise to the Geisha in Every Woman
Huntresses, Fight Your Instincts
Eye Contact is Not Unisex
Hunters’ Fishing Trip
Your Actions Speak Louder Than Looks
Smiling Is Not Just Smiling
Does She Really Care What I Wear?
Why Coordination Counts
Huntresses’ Fishing Trip
What Went Wrong?
How the “Beauty Challenged” Can Ace the “Tens”
A Hunter’s Brain Is Like a Light Switch with a Delayed Connection
Hunting Gear for Trapping First-Class Quarry
Forget Fashion, Think Flirtation
Sizzling Sparkers for Serious Huntresses
One Huntress’s Triple-X Tip
Erotic Truth Is Stranger than Fiction
CHAPTER 4 HOW TO SPARK CYBER CHEMISTRY
The Successful Online Hunter
Hunters’ Clothes
Hunters’ Background
The Successful Online Huntress
Huntresses’ Clothes
Huntresses’ Background
Number of Photos and Poses
A Devious Digital Tip for Both Sexes
Your Online Name
Your First Message
Who Is Your Quarry Really Interested In?
Talk About What You Read Between the Lines
A Beautiful Tip from an Unsightly Man
CHAPTER 5 HOW TO SPARK CHEMISTRY IN YOUR FIRST CONVERSATION
Chemistry Sparking “Pickup Lines.” (Hunters, Bite Your Tongue!)
What Every Woman Needs to Know—But Few Do
Guys Just Don’t Get It!
The Case for Female Proceptivity
Huntresses’ Pickup Lines (Try a Few—He’ll Love It!)
But Won’t He Think I’m Being Aggressive?
The Physical Side of “Hello”
Spark Your Quarry During the First Conversation
The Rapid Transit System Called the Female Brain
She Reads Between the Lines—So Talk Between the Lines
A Pivotal Question
Today the Who-Impresses-Whom Rules Are Reversed
Huntress, Are You One in a Million, or One Among a Million?
Begin the Bait and Switch
Double Name Talk
So Far, So Good
CHAPTER 6 HOW TO SPARK CHEMISTRY ON DATES
Hunters, “Sell” Her on the Date Like a Pro
Crack the Old Hard-to-Get Chestnut
How to Get the Date without Asking
The Most Chemistry-Sparking First Date
The First Half of the Date
The Second Half of the Date
Eating Sparkers
Play Games with Your Quarry
Chemistry-Sparking Conversation on Every Date
He Says/She Says, What?
Hunters, Follow Your Quarry’s Rhythm
Huntresses, Don’t Fill in the Blanks
Give a “You Fit My LoveMap” Feeling
So . . . How Should I Listen?
I Want a Man Who Makes Me Laugh
What Makes Huntresses Laugh
What Makes Hunters Laugh
CHAPTER 7 HOW TO SPARK CHEMISTRY FOR SEX
Huntresses, How Soon Should You Have Sex?
Why Sex Blows Your Mind
Huntresses, Sex Has an Even Bigger Effect on You!
Hunters, Hints for You on First-Date Sex
Foreplay Begins Way Long Before the Bedroom
Set the Stage for Sex
When It’s Time to Get Naked
Oral Sex (It’s Not What You’re Thinking)
The Educational Value of Daytime Soaps
“Oh, Great, How Do I Find Out What She Really Wants?”
Why She Needs All That Stuff First
Squares versus Swirls
Women Don’t Come with Pull-Down Menus and Online Help
Who Stole the G-Spot?
Huntresses Are Naturals
Go Where Women Aren’t Allowed
Better Yet, Get It Straight from the Horse’s Mouth
Why Won’t He Cuddle After Sex?
Do You Decide Who Turns You On—or Does Mother Nature?
If the First Kiss Stinks, Forget About It
Huntresses on the Pill, Read This Carefully
CHAPTER 8 HOW TO SPARK CHEMISTRY FOR A RELATIONSHIP
Mars and Venus Told You the What, Now the Why
The Ball of Yarn vs. the Stack of Boxes
His Box Brain
Her Yarn-Ball Brain
P.S. for Huntresses
What Are You Thinking About? 173
How Do You Feel About That?
Why He’s Tongue-Tied
Learn a Very Different Body Language
Shall We Talk It Out, or Slug It Out?
CHAPTER 9 HOW TO SPARK CHEMISTRY FOR FALLING IN LOVE
Is This Quarry a Keeper?
Why Is He Afraid to Commit?
I See Life That Way Too!
How Do You Define “Togetherness”?
“In Sickness and in Health”
The Magnificent Twenty-First-Century Mantra—Personal Growth
“Vet” Your Quarry
May I Have a Word with Young Lovers?
Don’t Marry Until You’re Myelinated (Parents, Don’t Miss This!)
Shall We Make a Federal Case Out of It?
CHAPTER 10 HOW TO SPARK CHEMISTRY FOR A LIFETIME OF LOVE
Making Beautiful Beginnings Last Forever
The Two-Year Itch
A Little Mouse in the Meadow Holds a Secret of Togetherness
How to Spark Long-Lasting Chemistry Anywhere, Anytime
Time Out, Sports Fans
What If I’m Ticked and Don’t Feel Like Touching Right Now?
Couples Who Play Together Stay Together
Laughing Is Just Another Way to Say “I Love You”
What About Long-Term Sizzling Sex?
Here’s the Good News—No, the Great News!
Why “Quickies” Count
Turnabout Is Fair Foreplay
Everyone Has Something They Need to Hear
Hunters, Why Her Feeling Loved Creates Lasting Chemistry
Huntresses, Why His Feeling Needed Creates Lasting Chemistry
“To What Do You Credit Your Lifelong Love?”
What to Expect When You’re Expecting Lasting Love
References
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