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Index
Cover
Title Page
Copyright Page
FINDING YOUR VOICE
Introduction
How This Book Works
CHAPTER 1 - My Awakening
What I Know Today
How I Got Here
My Wish
CHAPTER 2 - Cultivate Your Healing Tree
CHAPTER 3 - Is It Real?
Can You Recognize Abuse?
REFLECTIONS
Monsters or Lambs
Borderline Abusive Relationships
Put on Your Glasses and See Reality: Step Out of Denial
The Costumes of Abuse Survivors
Learn How to Walk, Then Run
Asking for and Receiving Help
Stop the Cycle
Emerging Out of the Darkness
CHAPTER 4 - The Roots of Your Life
How Yesterday Shapes Today
Get to Know Your Little Girl
Connecting with Your Little Girl
Discover What Your Little Girl Knows
Where Am I?
The First of The Big 3: Acceptance
Negative Self-Talk
REFLECTIONS
Gossip
REFLECTIONS
The Second of The Big 3: Unconditional Love
REFLECTIONS
Creating Positive Self-Talk
How and When to Do Affirmations
Examples of Affirmation Statements
The Third of The Big 3: Self-Respect
Warning
REFLECTIONS
Self-Sabotage
REFLECTIONS
Perception
CHAPTER 5 - Embracing the New You
What Kind of Life Have You Created?
REFLECTIONS
REFLECTIONS
Identify Your Survivor Skills
Playing the Victim
Addictions
REFLECTIONS
Self-Destructive Behaviors
REFLECTIONS
Avoiding Intimacy
REFLECTIONS
Attempting to Fill a Void
REFLECTIONS
Intense or Void Emotions
REFLECTIONS
Manipulation
REFLECTIONS
Secrets and Lying
REFLECTIONS
The Victim
REFLECTIONS
Understand Your Survivor Skills
When, Where and Why Your Survivor Skills Originated
REFLECTIONS
Emotional Uprising
From Happy to Sad and Everything in Between
Varying Degrees of Emotions
Express Emotions
Unresolved Emotions
REFLECTIONS
Change is How We Grow
Changing Your Behaviors Will Change Your Life
Pain Versus Desire
Removing Can't, Shouldn't and Should
Become a Can-Do Person
REFLECTIONS
Obstacles for Changing Behaviors
Doubt
REFLECTIONS
Analysis Paralysis
REFLECTIONS
Pain of Change
REFLECTIONS
Unhealthy Normal
REFLECTIONS
Mistakes
REFLECTIONS
Start Setting Boundaries
REFLECTIONS
Be Forewarned: Your Changes Can Impact Your Relationships
REFLECTIONS
Closing Summary for Chapter Five
REFLECTIONS
CHAPTER 6 - Discover Who You Are
REFLECTIONS
Differences Between Needs and Desires
Physical Needs
REFLECTION
Emotional Needs
REFLECTIONS
Desires
REFLECTIONS
Manifest Your Desires
REFLECTIONS
Set an intention for what I desire
Imagine my desire in my life
Translate my desire into a belief
Take action to produce my desire
Patiently wait for my desire
Focus
Intuition
Flow
REFLECTIONS
Actions to Create Your Desires
Read Your Desires
Hear Your Desires
Visualize Your Desires
Feel Your Desires
Value of Meditation
Types of Mediation
Closing Summary for Chapter Six
REFLECTIONS
CHAPTER 7 - Embrace Happiness and Joy
Discover Your Happiness and Joy
Happiness Boosters
Live in the Moment
Take Care of Yourself
Accept and Love Yourself
Accept Others and Give Back to the World
Express Gratitude
Appreciate All Your Experiences
REFLECTIONS
Make Time for Your Desires
Give Yourself a Break
The Happy Busters
REFLECTIONS
Guilt
REFLECTIONS
Shame
REFLECTIONS
Forgiveness
Forgive Yourself
Forgive the Monster or Not
REFLECTIONS
Forgiving Your Protectors
How to Forgive
Healing Past Guilt and Shame
Fear
REFLECTIONS
Worry
REFLECTIONS
Stress and Anxiety
Symptoms of Stress and Anxiety
What are Your Anxiety Accelerators?
Steps to Dealing with Anxiety
REFLECTIONS
Day-to-Day Anger
Let Go of Your Story
CHAPTER 8 - Your Relationships with Others
The Roots of Your Relationships
The Value of Communication
Communication Rules
See, Hear and Listen
Practice Calm, Direct and Respectful Communication
Communicate Honestly and Truthfully
Ask Could You Instead of Insisting You Should
Express How You Feel
Never Assume
REFLECTIONS
Same Page
Communicating and Connecting with Body Language
Healthy Boundaries
Embrace the Words Yes and No
Compromise
Set Guidelines in Your Relationships
REFLECTIONS
Master of Your Reactions
REFLECTIONS
Don't Try to Change or Control Others
Don't Try to Fix Others, Fix Yourself
REFLECTIONS
Care Enough to Understand Those Close to You
The Differences Between Men and Women
Insight into Men
Insight into Women
Understanding Your Past Relationships
REFLECTIONS
Red Flags
REFLECTIONS
Learning from Your Experiences
REFLECTIONS
Relationship Obstacles
You Don't Choose Your Family
The Perfect Person for Me
REFLECTIONS:
REFLECTIONS
What is Your Perfect Partner Like?
Parenting Insight
Protect Your Child
Teach Your Child to Protect Themselves
Lead by Example
CLOSING - The Answer
About the Author
Reference
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