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Index
Cover
Advance Praise for WHOLE AGAIN
Title Page
Copyright
Dedication
Contents
FOREWORD
The Feeling in My Heart
Introduction
Fracture
PART 1
Tools
Daily Practice
Mindfulness
Personal Responsibility
Unconditional Love
Finding Unconditional Love
PART 2
Identifying the Protective Self
Looking for Patterns
Your Protective Self
The Perfectionist
The Protective Self
Conversation with Sarah
The Cluster-B Abuse Survivor
The Protective Self
It’s Not About You
But Why Did They Hurt Me?
What If They’re Not Cluster B?
But We Were So in Love
Conversation with Mel
Conversation with Elliot
Codependent
The Protective Self
People Pleasing Doesn’t Work
The Drama Triangle
Guilt for Having Emotions
Conversation with Tony
C-PTSD
The Protective Self
Undoing Blame-Shifting
How to Win Against an Abuser?
C-PTSD or Borderline?
Conversation with Anna
Avoidant
The Protective Self
Conversation with a Therapist
Borderline
The Protective Self
The Borderline Cycle of Oversharing and Rejection
The Favorite Person
Romanticizing Mental Illness
Conversation with Linda
Other Protective Selves
PART 3
Deconstructing the Protective Self
Beyond Numbness
Avoidant and Numbness
BPD and Numbness
External to Internal
Cluster-B Abuse Survivor and Internal Focus
Perfectionist and Internal Focus
Resentment
Codependent and Resentment
Intentional Triggers
BPD and Intentional Triggers
The Box
Fear: Anxiety and Depression
The Core Wound
PART 4
Resolving the Core Wound
Just Stay
Toxic Shame
Avoidant and Toxic Shame
Self-Doubt
Cluster-B Survivor and Self-Doubt
Self-Forgiveness
Cluster-B Survivor and Self-Forgiveness
Forgiveness
Beyond Victimhood
Codependency and Forgiveness
BPD and Forgiveness
Cluster-B Abuse Survivor and Forgiveness
Boundaries
Codependents, Avoidants, and Boundaries
Cluster-B Abuse Survivor and Boundaries
BPD and Boundaries
Changing Life
Codependents and Changing Life
Cluster-B Survivor and Changing Life
BPD and Changing Life
C-PTSD and Changing Life
Shifting from a Dual to Non-Dual Perspective
Letting Go of Separation
Whole Again
Afterword: Angel
Acknowledgments
About the Author
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