When a Man You Love Was Abused by Murphy, Cecil -- Read -- Imperial Library of Trantor

Index

Cover Title Page Copyright Page Contents Preface Ackowledgments Introduction: If You’re an Important Woman in His Life Part 1. Who He Is

1. Who Are the Molested? 2. A Personal Journey 3. Randall Rusher’s Story 4. Where Was God? 5. A Theft of Childhood 6. “That Was the Past” 7. Flashbacks and Dreams 8. False Memories? 9. If His Abuser Was a Woman 10. The Effects of Abuse 11. The Inner Abuser 12. Typical Symptoms 13. Male Self-Images 14. Compartmentalizing Himself 15. His Need for Control 16. What About Boundaries? 17. To Feel Again 18. Facing His Abuser 19. Forgiving His Abuser 20. Forgiving Himself 21. Going Public 22. Positive Effects 23. When Is Healing Complete?

Part 2. How You Can Help Him

24. The Other Victim 25. Accept His Unspeakable Problem 26. Believe Him and Help Him Believe 27. Support His Spiritual Recovery 28. Help Him Honor His Body 29. Accept His Shame 30. Remind Him That You Care 31. Listen, Listen, Listen 32. Pray for Him 33. Respect His Privacy 34. Let Him Mourn 35. Be Honest with Him 36. Pay Attention to His Emotions 37. Don’t Let Him Self-Punish 38. Allow His Inconsistencies 39. Be Careful About Touch 40. Don’t Push Him to Forgive 41. Let Him Move at His Own Pace 42. Refuse to Let Him Justify the Abuser 43. Encourage Him to Break the Silence 44. Ask Him to Consider Professional Help 45. The Healing Influence of Women

Conclusion: He Needs You

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