Notes

Chapter 1  “Out There” Issues

1. Trace William Cowen, “14-Year-Old Girl Dies in Crash after Sister Livestreams While Driving Drunk,” Complex Life, July 25, 2017, http://www.complex.com/life/2017/07/woman-livestreams-car-crash-killed-sister-instagram.

2. “Teens Filmed, Laughed While Man Slowly Drowned, Authorities Say,” Fox News, July 20, 2017, http://www.foxnews.com/us/2017/07/20/teens-filmed-mocked-and-laughed-while-man-slowly-drowned.html.

3. Glen Kwon, “Why Aren’t We Talking about the Latest School Shooting?” HuffPost, April 12, 2017, http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/why-arent-we-talking-about-the-latest-mass-shooting_us_58eef70be4b0156697224c71.

4. Kory Grow, “Sixteen People Die Falling through Grate at South Korea Concert,” RollingStone, October 17, 2014, http://www.rollingstone.com/music/news/sixteen-people-die-falling-through-grate-at-south-korea-concert-20141017.

5. “Sexual Assault and Rape,” Joyful Heart Foundation, accessed July 25, 2017, http://www.joyfulheartfoundation.org/learn/sexual-assault-and-rape?gclid=EAIaIQobChMI68u4rfin1QIVSWt-Ch1zFg1hEAMYASAAEgJM_PD_BwE.

6. “Segregation and Integration in America,” accessed July 25, 2017, http://www2.dickinson.edu/departments/amos/mosaic01steel/Marie/sia.html.

7. Josh Eloge, in discussion with the author, July 25, 2017, Ashville, New York.

8. “Are You Prejudiced? Take the Implicit Association Test,” The Guardian, March 6, 2009, https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2009/mar/07/implicit-association-test.

9. “Family Abduction,” National Center for Missing & Exploited Children, accessed July 21, 2017, http://www.missingkids.org/theissues/familyabduction.

10. Jessica Klimczak, “Author Spotlight: Hannah and Josh Eloge,” Blurb, March 2016, http://www.blurb.com/blog/author-spotlight-hannah-and-josh-eloge/.

Chapter 2  When Hurt Hits Home

1. Richard Pérez-Peña, “1 in 4 Women Experience Sex Assault on Campus,” New York Times, September 21, 2015, https://www.nytimes.com/2015/09/22/us/a-third-of-college-women-experience-unwanted-sexual-contact-study-finds.html.

2. Louise Saunders, “When Two TV Greats Meet: Oprah Winfrey Opens Up on Her Traumatic Childhood during David Letterman Lecture Series,” Daily Mail, November 27, 2012, http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2239102/Oprah-Winfrey-opens-traumatic-childhood-David-Letterman-lecture-series.html.

3. Oprah Winfrey, quoted in Saunders, “When Two TV Greats Meet.”

4. “Males and Eating Disorders,” NIH Medline Plus, accessed July 27, 2017, https://medlineplus.gov/magazine/issues/spring08/articles/spring08pg18.html.

5. Edwin Arlington Robinson, “Richard Cory,” Poetry Foundation, accessed July 27, 2017, https://www.poetryfoundation.org/poems/44982/richard-cory.

6. The basic principles of the four goals of misbehavior are taken from Rudolf Dreikurs and Margaret Goldman, “Adlerian Child Guidance Principles,” Alfred Adler Institutes of San Francisco & Northwestern Washington, accessed July 21, 2017, http://www.adlerian.us/guid.htm.

7. Monica C. Worline, quoted in Skip Prichard, “Awakening Compassion at Work,” Skip Prichard Leadership Insights, May 8, 2017, https://www.skipprichard.com/tag/awakening-compassion.

8. Trudy M. Johnson, quoted in “Feelings after Abortion: Post-Abortion Syndrome,” LifeFacts, accessed July 27, 2017, https://www.lifesitenews.com/resources/abortion/abortion-risks/feelings-after-abortion-post-abortion-syndrome.

Chapter 3  The Three Basic Fears and Their Antidotes

1. Kevin Leman, Have a New Kid by Friday (Grand Rapids: Revell, 2012), 70.

Chapter 4  Why Grief Serves a Purpose

1. Dreikurs and Goldman, “Adlerian Child Guidance Principles.”