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Chapter 2: Clarify Expectations

1. Nowval Geldenhuys, B.A., B.D., Th.M., The Intimate Life (Grand Rapids: Eerdmans, 1957), 36.

2. James Dobson, Love for a Lifetime: Building a Marriage That Will Go the Distance (Portland: Multnomah, 1987), 44.

3. John Gray, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus (New York: HarperCollins, 1993).

Chapter 3: Know Your Body

1. Adapted from Masters and Johnson, Human Sexual Response (Boston: Little, Brown & Co., 1966).

2. Alan P. Brauer and Donna J. Brauer, ESO (New York: Warner, 2001), chapter 6.

3. Julia R. Heiman and Joseph LoPiccolo, Becoming Orgasmic (New York: Prentice Hall, 1992).

4. Clifford Penner and Joyce Penner, Restoring the Pleasure (Dallas: Word, 1993).

Chapter 5: Prepare for Your First Time

1. Paul Popenoe, Sc.D., Preparing for Marriage (Los Angeles: American Institute of Family Relations, 1938; reprint 1961).

2. Ibid., 5.

3. Helen Singer Kaplan, PE: How to Overcome Premature Ejaculation (New York: Brunner/Mazel, 1979).

4. Michael E. Metz, Ph.D. and Barry McCarthy, Coping with Premature Ejaculation: How to Overcome PE, Please Your Partner, & Have Great Sex (Oakland: New Harbinger, 2004).

Chapter 6: Family-Planning Options

1. Birth Control Guide: http://www.fda.gov.

2. Birth Control Guide: http://www.fda.gov.

3. Birth Control Guide: http://www.fda.gov.

4. Contraceptive Technology, 17th ed. (New York: Irvington Publishers, 1994), 113, 154.

5. Birth Control Guide: http://www.fda.gov.

6. Fact Sheets: Intrauterine Devices: http://www.cdc.gov, October 24, 2003.

7. Contraceptive Technology, 113.

8. Ibid., 348.

9. Ibid., 113.

10. Richard P. Dickey, M.D., Ph.D., Managing Contraceptive Pill Patients, 11th ed. (Durant, Okla.: Essential Medical Systems, 2002).

11. Ibid., 82–83.

12. Contraceptive Technology, 272–75.

13. Ibid., 274.

14. Ibid., 288.

15. Birth Control Guide: http://www.fda.gov.

16. John J. Billings, The Ovulation Method: Natural Family Planning (Collegeville, MN: Liturgical Press, 1992).

Chapter 8: Keep the Spark Alive

1. Bernie Zilbergeld, The New Male Sexuality (New York: Bantam, 1999), 353.