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COVER
FOREWORD
ACKNOWLEDGMENTS
CHAPTER ONE: INTRODUCTION TO THE SECOND EDITION
WE ALL PRACTICE CONFLICT RESOLUTION DAILY
DIAGNOSIS: FINDING THE ROOT CAUSES OF CONFLICT
THEORIES VS. MODELS IN A PRACTICE PROFESSION
A WIDE RANGE OF CONFLICT ANALYSIS MODELS
BECOMING A REFLECTIVE PRACTITIONER
SUMMARY
HOW TO USE THIS BOOK
NOTES
CHAPTER TWO: OVERVIEW OF THE MODELS
WHY THESE NINE MODELS?
MODEL #1—THE STAIRWAY (INTERESTS/RIGHTS/POWER) MODEL
MODEL #2—THE TRIANGLE OF SATISFACTION
MODEL #3—THE CIRCLE OF CONFLICT
MODEL #4—THE DYNAMICS OF TRUST
MODEL #5—THE LAW OF RECIPROCITY
MODEL #6—THE LOSS AVERSION BIAS
MODEL #7—THE BOUNDARY MODEL
MODEL #8—THE SOCIAL STYLES MODEL
MODEL #9—MOVING BEYOND CONFLICT
NOTES
CHAPTER THREE: THE CONFLICT STORY: A CASE STUDY
A CASE STUDY
CHAPTER FOUR: MODEL #1: THE STAIRWAY(INTERESTS/RIGHTS/POWER)
BACKGROUND OF THE STAIRWAY MODEL
DIAGNOSIS WITH THE STAIRWAY MODEL
CASE STUDY: THE STAIRWAY DIAGNOSIS
STRATEGIC DIRECTION FROM THE STAIRWAY MODEL
CASE STUDY: STAIRWAY STRATEGIC DIRECTION
ASSESSING AND APPLYING THE STAIRWAY MODEL
PRACTITIONER'S WORKSHEET FOR THE STAIRWAY MODEL
ADDITIONAL CASE STUDY—STAIRWAY MODEL
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CHAPTER FIVE: MODEL #2: THE TRIANGLE OF SATISFACTION
BACKGROUND OF THE TRIANGLE MODEL
DIAGNOSIS WITH THE TRIANGLE OF SATISFACTION
CASE STUDY: TRIANGLE OF SATISFACTION DIAGNOSIS
STRATEGIC DIRECTION FROM THE TRIANGLE OF SATISFACTION
CASE STUDY: TRIANGLE OF SATISFACTION STRATEGIC DIRECTION
ASSESSING AND APPLYING THE TRIANGLE OF SATISFACTION MODEL
PRACTITIONER'S WORKSHEET FOR THE TRIANGLE OF SATISFACTION MODEL
ADDITIONAL CASE STUDY: TRIANGLE OF SATISFACTION
NOTES
CHAPTER SIX: MODEL #3: THE CIRCLE OF CONFLICT
BACKGROUND OF THE CIRCLE OF CONFLICT MODEL
DIAGNOSIS WITH THE CIRCLE OF CONFLICT
CASE STUDY: CIRCLE OF CONFLICT DIAGNOSIS
STRATEGIC DIRECTION FROM THE CIRCLE OF CONFLICT
CASE STUDY: CIRCLE OF CONFLICT STRATEGIC DIRECTION
ASSESSING AND APPLYING THE CIRCLE OF CONFLICT MODEL
PRACTITIONER'S WORKSHEET FOR THE CIRCLE OF CONFLICT MODEL
ADDITIONAL CASE STUDY—CIRCLE OF CONFLICT
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CHAPTER SEVEN: MODEL #4: THE DYNAMICS OF TRUST
BACKGROUND OF THE TRUST MODEL
DIAGNOSIS WITH THE TRUST MODEL
CASE STUDY: TRUST MODEL DIAGNOSIS
STRATEGIC DIRECTION FROM THE TRUST MODEL
CASE STUDY: TRUST MODEL STRATEGIC DIRECTION
ASSESSING AND APPLYING THE TRUST MODEL
PRACTITIONER'S WORKSHEET FOR THE TRUST MODEL
ADDITIONAL CASE STUDY: TRUST MODEL
NOTES
CHAPTER EIGHT: MODEL #5: THE LAW OF RECIPROCITY
BACKGROUND OF THE NATURAL LAWS
THE LAW OF RECIPROCITY
DIAGNOSIS WITH THE LAW OF RECIPROCITY
CASE STUDY: RECIPROCITY DIAGNOSIS
STRATEGIC DIRECTION FROM THE LAW OF RECIPROCITY
CASE STUDY: RECIPROCITY STRATEGIC DIRECTION
ASSESSING AND APPLYING THE LAW OF RECIPROCITY
ADDITIONAL CASE STUDY—LAW OF RECIPROCITY
NOTES
CHAPTER NINE: MODEL #6: THE LOSS AVERSION BIAS
BACKGROUND OF THE LOSS AVERSION BIAS
DIAGNOSIS WITH THE LOSS AVERSION BIAS
CASE STUDY: LOSS AVERSION DIAGNOSIS
STRATEGIC DIRECTION FROM THE LOSS AVERSION BIAS
CASE STUDY: LOSS AVERSION STRATEGIC DIRECTION
ASSESSING AND APPLYING THE LOSS AVERSION BIAS
ADDITIONAL CASE STUDY—LOSS AVERSION
NOTES
CHAPTER TEN: MODEL #7: THE BOUNDARY MODEL
BACKGROUND OF THE BOUNDARY MODEL
DIAGNOSIS WITH THE BOUNDARY MODEL
CASE STUDY: BOUNDARY MODEL DIAGNOSIS
STRATEGIC DIRECTION FROM THE BOUNDARY MODEL
CASE STUDY: BOUNDARY MODEL STRATEGIC DIRECTION
ASSESSING AND APPLYING THE BOUNDARY MODEL
PRACTITIONER'S WORKSHEET FOR THE BOUNDARY MODEL
ADDITIONAL CASE STUDY: BOUNDARY MODEL
NOTES
CHAPTER ELEVEN: MODEL #8: THE SOCIAL STYLE MODEL
BACKGROUND OF THE SOCIAL STYLE MODEL
DIAGNOSIS WITH THE SOCIAL STYLE MODEL
CASE STUDY: SOCIAL STYLE DIAGNOSIS
STRATEGIC DIRECTION FROM THE SOCIAL STYLE MODEL
CASE STUDY: SOCIAL STYLE STRATEGIC DIRECTION
ASSESSING AND APPLYING THE SOCIAL STYLE MODEL
PRACTITIONER'S WORKSHEET FOR THE SOCIAL STYLE MODEL
ADDITIONAL CASE STUDY: SOCIAL STYLE MODEL
NOTES
CHAPTER TWELVE: MODEL #9: MOVING BEYOND THE CONFLICT
BACKGROUND OF THE MOVING BEYOND MODEL
DIAGNOSIS WITH THE MOVING BEYOND MODEL
CASE STUDY: MOVING BEYOND DIAGNOSIS
STRATEGIC DIRECTION FROM THE MOVING BEYOND MODEL
CASE STUDY: STRATEGIC DIRECTION WITH THE MOVING BEYOND MODEL
ASSESSING AND APPLYING THE MOVING BEYOND MODEL
PRACTITIONER'S WORKSHEET FOR THE MOVING BEYOND MODEL
ADDITIONAL CASE STUDY—MOVING BEYOND MODEL
NOTES
CHAPTER THIRTEEN: CONCLUSION
NOTES
INDEX
END USER LICENSE AGREEMENT
List of Illustrations
Chapter 2
Figure 2.1 The Stairway model
Figure 2.2 The Triangle model
Figure 2.3 The Circle of Conflict model
Figure 2.4 The Dynamics of Trust model
Figure 2.5 The Law of Reciprocity model
Figure 2.6 The Loss Aversion Bias model
Figure 2.7 The Boundary model
Figure 2.8 The Social Styles model
Figure 2.9 The Moving Beyond model
Chapter 4
Figure 4.1 Stairway model: Diagnosis
Figure 4.2 Stairway model: Strategic direction
Chapter 5
Figure 5.1 The Triangle of Satisfaction
Figure 5.2 Triangle of Satisfaction: Strategic direction
Figure 5.3 Triangle of Satisfaction: Deeper interests
Chapter 6
Figure 6.1 Circle of Conflict: Diagnosis
Figure 6.2 Data points
Figure 6.3 Data points connected differently
Figure 6.4 Data points ignored
Figure 6.5 Circle of Conflict: Strategic direction
Figure 6.6 Circle of Conflict worksheet
Figure 6.7 Spanish Estate worksheet
Chapter 7
Figure 7.1 Three types of attribution
Figure 7.2 Attribution and blame
Figure 7.3 Attribution and procedural trust
Figure 7.4 Data points
Figure 7.5 Different pictures from the same data points
Figure 7.6 Cherry picking data points
Chapter 8
Figure 8.1 The Law of Reciprocity
Figure 8.2 Positive or constructive reciprocation
Figure 8.3 Negative or destructive reciprocation
Figure 8.4 The downward spiral
Figure 8.5 The upward spiral
Chapter 9
Figure 9.1 Gain and loss analysis
Figure 9.2 Loss amplification
Figure 9.3 Status quo reference point
Figure 9.4 Reframed around current reference point
Figure 9.5 Creating gain around current reference point
Figure 9.6 Shifting the reference point
Figure 9.7 New reference point
Chapter 10
Figure 10.1 Boundary model
Figure 10.2 Boundary model: Conflict
Figure 10.3 Boundary model: Crisis
Chapter 11
Figure 11.1 Social Style model: Diagnosis
Figure 11.2 Social Style model: Strategic guidance
Figure 11.3 Styles of people involved
Chapter 12
Figure 12.1 The Moving Beyond model
Figure 12.2 Skills for each stage of the model
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