Contents
COVER
TITLE PAGE
COPYRIGHT
EPIGRAPH
PREFACE
Fantasy, Fear, and Freud
INTRODUCTION
The Largest Survey of Sexual Fantasies in America
CHAPTER 1
Tell Me What You Want, What You Really, Really Want
How I Got More Than Four Thousand People to Open Up About Their Deepest Sexual Desires
CHAPTER 2
The Seven Most Common Sexual Fantasies in America
If You’re Turned On by Any of This, You’re in Good Company
CHAPTER 3
Mars and Venus
How Do Men’s and Women’s Sexual Fantasies Differ?
CHAPTER 4
What Do Your Sexual Fantasies Say About You?
The Fifteen Questions That Reveal Your Secret Sexual Desires
CHAPTER 5
Tell Me
Who
You Want
Who Are We Fantasizing About? How Do We See Ourselves in Our Fantasies? And What Does It All Mean?
CHAPTER 6
Can Science Save Your Sex Life?
The Benefits of Getting in Touch with Your Deepest Sexual Desires
CHAPTER 7
Visiting Fantasy Island
How Do You Turn Your Fantasy into Reality?
CHAPTER 8
The Path to Healthier Sex and Relationships
How to Break the Barriers That Prevent Us from Communicating About Our Desires
ACKNOWLEDGMENTS
ALSO BY JUSTIN J. LEHMILLER
NOTES
INDEX