Contents

Foreword by Jack Drescher, MD

Preface to the Second Edition

Introduction

1     I Am Not Gay, but I Might Be a Little Bit Queer

2     It’s Just Common Sense

3     God Hates Fags: In Bondage to Dogma

4     Out from the Shadows: You’re Not the Man You Thought You Were

5     Are You Shooting at the Wrong Target? Detox and rehab for Addiction to Approval

6     Ain’t Nobody’s Business: Tricks of the Trade

7     How to Have Sex in a Tree

8     Hookups and Not Quite Sex.

9     Midlife Crisis: Is It Too Late for Me?

10     Accidental Sex: Never Pass Up a Hard-On

11     The Urgency of Time: The Unbucket List

12     Outed at Eighty: The Infancy of Old Age

Notes

Index

About the Author