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COVER PAGE
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
TITLE PAGE
COPYRIGHT PAGE
AUTHORS’ NOTE
CONTENTS
INTRODUCTION
THE FIRST NIGHT: DENY TRAUMA
THE UNKNOWN ‘THIRD GIANT’
WHY PEOPLE CAN CHANGE
TRAUMA DOES NOT EXIST
PEOPLE FABRICATE ANGER
HOW TO LIVE WITHOUT BEING CONTROLLED BY THE PAST
SOCRATES AND ADLER
ARE YOU OKAY JUST AS YOU ARE?
UNHAPPINESS IS SOMETHING YOU CHOOSE FOR YOURSELF
PEOPLE ALWAYS CHOOSE NOT TO CHANGE
YOUR LIFE IS DECIDED HERE AND NOW
THE SECOND NIGHT: ALL PROBLEMS ARE INTERPERSONAL RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS
WHY YOU DISLIKE YOURSELF
ALL PROBLEMS ARE INTERPERSONAL RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS
FEELINGS OF INFERIORITY ARE SUBJECTIVE ASSUMPTIONS
AN INFERIORITY COMPLEX IS AN EXCUSE
BRAGGARTS HAVE FEELINGS OF INFERIORITY
LIFE IS NOT A COMPETITION
YOU’RE THE ONLY ONE WORRYING ABOUT YOUR APPEARANCE
FROM POWER STRUGGLE TO REVENGE
ADMITTING FAULT IS NOT DEFEAT
OVERCOMING THE TASKS THAT FACE YOU IN LIFE
RED STRING AND RIGID CHAINS
DON’T FALL FOR THE ‘LIFE-LIE’
FROM THE PSYCHOLOGY OF POSSESSION TO THE PSYCHOLOGY OF PRACTICE
THE THIRD NIGHT: DISCARD OTHER PEOPLE’S TASKS
DENY THE DESIRE FOR RECOGNITION
DO NOT LIVE TO SATISFY THE EXPECTATIONS OF OTHERS
HOW TO SEPARATE TASKS
DISCARD OTHER PEOPLE’S TASKS
HOW TO RID YOURSELF OF INTERPERSONAL RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS
CUT THE GORDIAN KNOT
DESIRE FOR RECOGNITION MAKES YOU UNFREE
WHAT REAL FREEDOM IS
YOU HOLD THE CARDS TO INTERPERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS
THE FOURTH NIGHT: WHERE THE CENTRE OF THE WORLD IS
INDIVIDUAL PSYCHOLOGY AND HOLISM
THE GOAL OF INTERPERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS IS A FEELING OF COMMUNITY
WHY AM I ONLY INTERESTED IN MYSELF ?
YOU ARE NOT THE CENTRE OF THE WORLD
LISTEN TO THE VOICE OF A LARGER COMMUNITY
DO NOT REBUKE OR PRAISE
THE ENCOURAGEMENT APPROACH
HOW TO FEEL YOU HAVE VALUE
EXIST IN THE PRESENT
PEOPLE CANNOT MAKE PROPER USE OF SELF
THE FIFTH NIGHT: TO LIVE IN EARNEST IN THE HERE AND NOW
EXCESSIVE SELF-CONSCIOUSNESS STIFLES THE SELF
NOT SELF-AFFIRMATION—SELF-ACCEPTANCE
THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN TRUST AND CONFIDENCE
THE ESSENCE OF WORK IS A CONTRIBUTION TO THE COMMON GOOD
YOUNG PEOPLE WALK AHEAD OF ADULTS
WORKAHOLISM IS A LIFE-LIE
YOU CAN BE HAPPY NOW
TWO PATHS TRAVELLED BY THOSE WANTING TO BE ‘SPECIAL BEINGS’
THE COURAGE TO BE NORMAL
LIFE IS A SERIES OF MOMENTS
LIVE LIKE YOU’RE DANCING
SHINE A LIGHT ON THE HERE AND NOW
THE GREATEST LIFE-LIE
GIVE MEANING TO SEEMINGLY MEANINGLESS LIFE
AFTERWORD
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