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Part One O N THE R OAD TO B EING A P EOPLE M AGNET 1 Friends, Lovers, and Knights Platonic Friendships And, of Course, Love Men’s Friendships Women’s Friendships Networking Friends 2 What’s Ahead in How to Be a People Magnet How We’re Going to Find the Answer The Fatal FUD Factor (Fear, Uncertainty, and Doubt) 3 Why this Book Is Guaranteed to Work! This Is Not a Book—It’s a Contract Sociological Studies Support the Contract Listen to the Testimonials Part Two M AKING S TRANGERS L IKE Y OU , I NSTANTLY ! 4 Hi! How Do You Like Me So Far? But Is Being Popular Really Being Liked? What’s Your Optimism Quotient (OQ)? 5 How to Spread Sunshine . . . Wherever You Go Clause #1: In Your Shoes 6 Making Everyone Feel Special Clause #2: Eye Messages 7 Win Their Hearts, in Ten Words or Les s Clause #3: The Expanded Thank-You 8 The Magic Wand, Your Body Clause #4: The Trifling Touch 9 Like Hallmark Cards, a Smile for Every Occasion Clause #5: Slow, Spillover Smile 10 Why Do We Prefer One Person Over Another? Deborah Gets the Last Laugh (and Leil Eats Her Hat) Clause #6: Listen to Their Heart 11 Fine Tuning Your Tongue Clause #7: Dis-Guys My Dialogue Clause #8: De-Gurrl My Dialogue 12 Never Hear “You’re Not Listening!” Again Clause #9: Listen Like a Nail Clause #10: Listen Like a Dunking Duck 13 Fragging the Fatal FUD Factor But What About Me? I’m No Olympic Athlete How You Can Go for the Gold Clause #11: Ditch the Bitchers, Talk to the Trashers 14 Beauty Is as Beauty Feels Thunder Thighs Wins Olympic Gold Medal for Love Clause #12: I Am Beautiful Clause #13: I’m a Good Mover 15 How to Work a Room Like Royalty Clause #14: The Emperor’s New Clothes 16 Nice Shake! Clause #15: My Five-Star Handshake 17 The Hugganary Clause #16: The Honest Hug 18 The Secret of Confident Conversing What Separates Social Winners from Social Losers ? Clause #17: React Faster, Answer Vaster 19 Shyness Stinks! Not Only That, It Can Trash Your Life Wait, There Are More Bummers So, If Schmooze-Aphobia Is a Disease, What’s the Cure? Clause #18: Always Talk to Strangers 20 Does This Confidence Make Cents? Clause #19: What Can I Learn from This? 21 Ah, Mystery of Life: And How Optimism Saved One! 22 Pass the Pollyanna Please Clause #20: Give the Gift of “You Can Do” Part Three F RIENDS AND L OVERS : How to Find Them, How to Keep Them 23 Why Have Friends? Or Pollyanna Plummets into Pandora’s Box Suddenly Last Summer Pollyanna Plummets into Pandora’s Box The Bottom of the Pit So What’s This Got to Do with How to Be a People Magnet? Pandora’s Box Suddenly Snaps Shut 24 Friendship’s First Commandment: Thou Must Have Something to Give in Order to Receive You Don’t Make Friends, You Earn Them And Yes, You Earn Lovers Too Clause #21: Growing My Gifts 25 Ways to Say “I Love You” to a Friend 26 Plan Private Pleasures for Precious People Clause #22: Plan a Sweet Surprise 27 I Love Ya Man, and All That Jazz Clause #23: I Love Ya Man 28 Actions Speak Louder than Words: Just Ask Any Guy Clause #24: Do My Buddy’s Bag 29 The Power of Gifts: Or a Great Way to Get Rid of Junk You Don’t Want! Clause #25: Tchotchkes for Chums 30 Standing Up for Your Friends The Green-Eyed Monster in My Closet Clause #26: My Personal Principles Clause 31 Planting Seeds for New Friendships Prissy’s Present You Can Never Go Back (and Would You Really Want To?) You Made My Day! Now, About Your Promotion Clause #27: Thanks, You Made My Day 32 Do You Want to Be Popular, or Do You Want to Be Liked? Clause #28: Befriend a Nerd 33 What If I Only Feel Those Butterflies When I’m Talking to Him or Her? Great, So I Know Why. Now How Can I Get Rid of Those Butterflies? Clause #29: I’ll Talk to the Tens 34 Have You Ever Had a Friend . . . : Who Changed Your Way of Looking at Life Forever? Clause #30: My Physically Challenged Pal 35 If You’ve Got It, Flaunt It! Clause #31: Dare to Be Different 36 Diversity, It’s Not Just for the Workplace Guess Who’s Coming to Dinner? Clause #32: Multicolored Chums Part Four C UPID’S S ECRETS : Sexy Schemes for Luring Lovers and Keeping Them 37 Cupid’s Got Lots of Secrets! Cupid, Please Tell Me, Why Him? Why Her? When Two of Cupid’s Arrows Cross Some Cupids Who Crashed and Burned 38 Finally Science Captures Cupid Cupid Does Drugs Why Do So Many Women Go for the Bad Boys? Cupid Grows Up So How Long Can I Enjoy this Legal High Before I Come Down? 39 A Better, Deeper Kind of Love Sets in, Really! What if You Still Want the “Can’t Wait to Jump Your Bones” Kinda Love? How Cindy Keeps the Sex Cinders Hot 40 What About Turning a Friend into a Lover? 41 Cupid’s Last Words Can You Have the Peaceful Forever Kind of Love Right off the Bat? What’s Cupid’s Secret? What Really Keeps Couples Together? Clause #33: I Won’t Toss the Person with the PEA 42 Mirror, Mirror, Find Me a Mate Clause #34: Look for a Look-Alike 43 Get Off My Duff Clause #35: Weekly Off-My-Duff Promise 44 If You Want to Date, You Must Initiate The Dance of Love Inviting Someone to the Dance of Intimacy Clause #36: If I Want to Date, I Must Initiate 45 Don’t Think Lines, Think Lyrics Clause #37: Think Lyrical, Not Lyrics 46 Men “Pick Her Up,” Gentlemen “Make Her Acquaintance” Clause #38: My Three-Step Strategy Clause 47 The Failure Fallback Plan Clause #39: Foxy Face-Saver 48 Creative Courting Clause #40: Hunt Down Hot Buttons 49 Shhh, He’s Ticked Off! Clause #41: Let Him Sulk in Silence Clause #42: No More Troubled Clam 50 Give Me a Strong Shoulder and a Big Ear Clause #43: What’s Wrong, Lambchop? 51 Go Figure! You Be the Judge Clause #44: Let Him Lecture 52 How Would You Handle This, Dear? It’s Not Just for Schmoozing Her Clause #45: Seek Her Social Assistance 53 I Just Want You to Be Happy! Clause #46: “You Make Me Sooo Happy” Clause #47: She’s “The Ball Game,” Not “The Ball Game” 54 Hyperbole as Aphrodisiac Clause #48: My Lyrical Love 55 Understanding My Clam Clams à la Greque Clause #49: My Silent Partner Clause #50: The Minute an Hour Treatment Part Five N ETWORKING : Recruiting Knights for My Personal Round Table 56 The World’s Best Contact Sport: Once You Learn How to Play It 57 “Networking?” Did I Hear You Say “Networking”? Clause #51: Sharing My Gifts 58 Plan Ahead! 59 The Guide to Sharing Your Gifts Networking, It’s Kid’s Stuff, Too Clause #52: Knight Time-Sharing 60 Do You Carry Enough Friend Insurance? Clause #53: Knight Recruiting Clause 61 One Man’s Knight Is Another Man’s Nobody 62 My Friend Insurance Policy: Or the Knights at My Round Table 63 “Who Ya Gonna Call?” 64 Making Deposits in the Good Neighbor Account Clause #54: Good Neighbor Clause 65 Give Yourself a Priceless Gift Clause #55: Find an Old Friend or Old Love Endnotes About the Author

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