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Index
Title Page
Praise
Dedication
Introduction
CHAPTER 1 - YOU CAN’T GET WHAT YOU WANT TILL YOU KNOW WHAT YOU WANT
CLEARING A PATH
DISCOVER WHERE YOU’RE STARTING FROM
INFLUENCES
RELIGIOUS INSTITUTIONS
CHAPTER 2 - BAD THINGS COME IN THREES: SHAME, BLAME, AND FEAR
SHAME
BLAME
FEAR
CHAPTER 3 - I’M OKAY, YOU’RE OKAY
AGE
RACE
CLASS
GENDER
SEXUAL ORIENTATION
BODY TYPE
SEXUAL TRAUMA
STEREOTYPING OTHERS
CHAPTER 4 - A WOMAN’S INTUITION
YOU’RE NUMBER ONE
GETTING REAL ABOUT RISK
LISTEN TO YOUR INTUITION
HOW TO SAY NO
SELF-DEFENSE
CHAPTER 5 - WHAT’S LOVE GOT TO DO WITH IT?
GOOD LOVE, BAD LOVE
WHAT ABOUT LOVE HORMONES?
MONOGAMY VS. POLYAMORY
HOOKING UP
UNEQUAL DESIRES/EXPECTATIONS
FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS
DEALING WITH HEARTBREAK
CHAPTER 6 - FREAKSAND GEEKS
TRIGGER FINGERS
MAKING FRIENDS WITH YOUR FEELINGS
STRONG IN THE BROKEN PLACES
THE WRONG REASONS
GET INTO THE DRIVER’S SEAT
CHAPTER 7 - LET’S TALK ABOUT SEX, BABY
DO I HAVE TO?
WHAT TO SAY AND WHEN TO SAY IT
ENTHUSIASTIC CONSENT
HOT OR NOT
SAFE IS SEXY
DIRTY TALK
IF IT DOESN’T GO WELL
BE KIND TO YOURSELF
CHAPTER 8 - IT’S COMPLICATED
ARE THERE RULES?
THE BLOWJOB PARADOX
BAD KISSING (AND OTHER MISFORTUNES)
WHEN YOU AND YOUR BODY DISAGREE
KINKS/BDSM
FANTASY VS. REALITY
DISCLOSING
UNWANTED PAIN
IF YOU’VE BEEN VIOLATED
SAFECALLS
CHAPTER 9 - DO UNTO OTHERS
WHEN YOU AND YOUR PARTNER WANT DIFFERENT THINGS
LYING
WOMAN UP
FETISHIZING
SHAME
MAKING AMENDS
CHAPTER 10 - FRIENDS AND FAMILY
FRIENDS IN LOW PLACES
SLUT-SHAMING AND PRUDE-POLICING
SETTING BOUNDARIES
HOW TO TALK TO KIDS
WINGWOMEN AND OTHER GREAT BIRDS
CHAPTER 11 - TO INFINITY AND BEYOND
TO BOLDLY GO
GROW TOGETHER
PAY IT FORWARD
STRENGTH IN NUMBERS
DIFFICULT CONVERSATIONS
NOTES
Acknowledgments
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
SELECTED TITLES FROM SEAL PRESS
Copyright Page
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