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Index
Cover Page
Copyright Page
Table of Contents
List of Exercises
Foreword by Anita Moorjani
Acknowledgements
Introduction
Part I: Where Are You Now?
Chapter 1: The Three Stages of Self-Love
Stage 1: ‘I’m Not Enough’
Stage 2: ‘I’ve Had Enough’
Stage 3: ‘I Am Enough’
The Self-Love Gym
You’re Only Human
Chapter 2: Meet the Parents
Our Chemical Blend
Self-Worth Contagion
How We Learn to Question Our Worth
Parents
It’s Not about Blame
Trying to Do What’s Best
Our Responsibility as Parents
Chapter 3: How to Use Your Body to Change How You Feel
The Four Components of Emotion
Fake It and You’ll Make It: The Harvard Power Pose
How We Function is Affected by How We Hold Our Body. Fact!
Stand as Though You’re Enough and Wire Your Brain Networks
Love Thy Selfie
Chapter 4: Visualization
The Three Rules of Mental Practice
Neuroplasticity
Become a Self-Love Olympian
‘You Can F**k Your Decimals!’
Insight to Wired
Part II: What Does It Matter?
Chapter 5: Does It Matter If People Like You?
Cut Yourself a Little Slack
Why We Want People to Like Us
Why We’re Wired to Connect
Why We Shouldn’t Compromise Our Authenticity
‘Mirror, Mirror’
Chapter 6: Shame
Extract the ‘I Am’
Four Steps to Shame Resilience
Shrink It Down
We Can Be Enough without Needing to be Perfect
Go Out and Connect as Yourself
Chapter 7: Body Image
Love the Skin You’re In
Average Joe or GI Joe?
Should You Diet?
Four Steps to Feeling Better about Your Body Image
Chapter 8: Vulnerability
The Power of Vulnerability
Open Up, Let Your Guard Down and Let the Magic In
Getting Some Leverage
At Your Own Pace
Chapter 9: The Law of Personal Gravity
The Law of Personal Repulsion
Life Goes On…
Part III: You Matter
Chapter 10: Self-Compassion
An Antidote to Self-Criticism
A Buffer When Things Go Wrong
Self-Compassion is Healthy
Self-Compassion Strategy 1: Swap a Thought
Self-Compassion Strategy 2: Do the Loving-Kindness Meditation
Self-Compassion Strategy 3: Listen to Your Inner Buddha
Self-Compassion Strategy 4: Strike a Compassion Pose
Chapter 11: Forgiveness
Forgiving Ourselves
Forgiving Others
Chapter 12: What Are You Doing for Yourself?
What Do You Want? What Do You Need?
Take Your Life by the Scruff of the Neck
Why It’s Not Selfish to Look after Your Own Needs
Part IV: Where Are You Going?
Chapter 13: Step Up and Step Out
Feel the Fear
Mind the Gap
Interact and Be Kind
Leave Your Comfort Zone
Chapter 14: The Fourth Stage of Self-Love
A Fourth Stage?
There’s Nothing Inside
Tuning In
Correlations with Physics
We’re Made of Love
The Dove Miracle
Endnote: Because You’re Worth It
Afterword
Notes and References
About the Author
Join the Hay House Family
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