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Index
Cover
Title Page
Dedicaition
Contents
Foreword
Introduction: Welcome to the Party!
Helping My Self to a Science Smorgasbord
Honing a Holistic Five-Part Model
The Self-Intelligence Model
An Invitation to Fete Your Potential
Part One: Programming Your Subconscious Self
1. Dreams: Wake Up to Their Power
Thinking Through Dreaming
Priming for Supine Problem-Solving
Use Your Self-Intelligence
In a Nutshell
2. Visualization: Use Your Brain to Reach the Top of Your Game
Why Visualization Flies and Fantasy Flops
Using Good Sense to Prep for Bad Events
Use Your Self-Intelligence
In a Nutshell
3. Images: What You See Is What You “Get” Deep in the Brain
The Irresistible Influence of Images
Auto-Filling in the Blanks
Use Your Self-Intelligence
In a Nutshell
4. Hypnosis: It’s Real and It Works, so Don’t Be a Chicken
The Highs and the Lows of Hypnotizability
Science, Suspicion, and the Secret We Don’t Yet Know
Tested Benefits from Drug-Free Surgery to Better Sex
Use Your Self-Intelligence
In a Nutshell
Part Two: Conditioning Your Conscious Self
5. Yarn: Oh, That’s a Good One
Why We Won’t Stop Telling Tales
Delusions of Being Non-Delusional
The Inescapable Pull of Story
Why Stories Evoke and We Emote
Crafting Our Tales to Form Our Selves
Use Your Self-Intelligence
In a Nutshell
6. Quantum Physics: What It Is, What It’s Not, and What About Negative Thoughts?
Messing Around with Quantum Mechanics
The Pitfalls of Trying to Ban Bad Thoughts
The Magic or Science of Lucky Charms
Choosing the Best Beliefs for Yourself
Use Your Self-Intelligence
In a Nutshell
7. Choice: Choose to Use Yours
Why We Live in a Choose-or-Lose World
Too Much of a Good Thing: Choice Overload
Exchanging Self-Pity for Self-Pride
Use Your Self-Intelligence
In a Nutshell
8. Up: A Mental Direction Worth Aiming For
Negating the Negativity Bias
Quitters versus Strivers (and Who Has More Fun)
Arguing Yourself into Better Beliefs
Swapping Critiques for Compliments
Pointing Yourself in the Right Direction
Use Your Self-Intelligence
In a Nutshell
Part Three: Thinking Through Your Embodied Self
9. Judgment: Know When (And When Not) to Trust Your Gut
Taming Those Animal Spirits
Betting on Our Emotions
When to Follow Your Feelings
Use Your Self-Intelligence
In a Nutshell
10. Kinesthesia: The Inner Influence of Your Body-Talk
Moving the Body to Improve the Mind
Ways That Your Body Sways Your Thoughts
Use Your Self-Intelligence
In a Nutshell
11. Exercise: Of the Physical Kind—One Great Way to Build Your Mind
Working Your Body to Sharpen Your Brain
Why Exercise Can Exorcise Depression and Stress
Use Your Self-Intelligence
In a Nutshell
12. Sleep: The Natural Makeover, from a Brain Shampoo to a Slimmer You
The Deceptive Nature of Sleep Deprivation
What Your Brain’s Up To While You Snooze
Why Scientists Say Sleep Is Lookin’ So Good
Use Your Self-Intelligence
In a Nutshell
Part Four: Integrating Your Social Self
13. Reaching Out: How to Roll the Social Snowball
The Ways Our Social Snowballs Roll
Connecting the Scientific Dots of Social Connection
How Stronger Bonds Make Stronger Bodies
Use Your Self-Intelligence
In a Nutshell
14. Laughter: What’s So Darn Funny About It?
The Surprising Stuff That Makes Us Laugh
The Hidden Hierarchies of Laughter
Laughing Her Way to Professional Success
Use Your Self-Intelligence
In a Nutshell
15. Play: You Seriously Must, Scientists Say
Falling In Sync and In Love Through Playing Together
The Three Un-Rules of Free Play
Use Your Self-Intelligence
In a Nutshell
16. XX and XY: Girls and Boys and Stress, Oh My!
A Science-Driven Gender Adventure
Fight, Flee—or Make a Friend?
Perfectly Understandable Misunderstandings
Love Lost (Then Found) In Translation
Use Your Self-Intelligence
In a Nutshell
Part Five: Vitalizing Your Striving Self
17. Why?: The Question You Must Ask to Access Your Superpower
Why to Ask Why and Why Not to Ask Why Not
Exploring the Ways to Your Why’s
How Long We’ve Longed for Meaning
Embrace the Ease of Automatic Habits
Use Your Self-Intelligence
In a Nutshell
18. Talent: Schmalent! Don’t Let the Fallacy Hold You Back
Minding Your Mindset
The Praise That Is Dangerous
Growing Your Growth Mindset
Use Your Self-Intelligence
In a Nutshell
19. Action: Don’t Talk, Just Do
The False Rewards of “Should Do” Thoughts
Getting Out of a Rut and Into an Action Habit
Use Your Self-Intelligence
In a Nutshell
20. The Zen of Self-Forgiveness: When Every Mistake Is and Is Not a Mistake
Good-bye Guilt, Hello “Warm and Fuzzy”
The Fortuitous Fact about Self-Forgiveness
The Compound Effect of Self-Compassion
Use Your Self-Intelligence
In a Nutshell
Conclusion: Party On
Chapter Summaries
References
Acknowledgments
About the Author
Index
Copyright
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