CONTENTS

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Foreword: A Word to Husbands from Stephen Arterburn

1 “How Can I Ever Trust You Again?”

2 Trust Broken … and Restored

PART 1: EXCHANGING MYTHS FOR REALITY

3 Debunking Myths

4 The “He Must Not Love Me” Myth

5 The More and Different Sex Myth

6 Spiritual Myths

PART 2: THE NONNEGOTIABLES OF TRUST BUILDING

7 Spiritual Commitment

9 Transparency in the Big and Little Things

10 True Intimacy

11 Accountability

12 The Computer and the Internet

13 The Workplace

15 No Self-Pity

PART 3: MENDING WOUNDS

16 Making the Past the Past

17 The Amends Matrix

PART 4: TRUST-BUILDING TACTICS

18 Tips, Tools, and Tactics

19 A Word to a Wife: When Your Husband Won’t Do the Work

20 It Won’t Be This Way Forever!

Afterword: A Final Word from Stephen Arterburn

Acknowledgments

The Amends Matrix

The T-30 Journal

About the Authors