Contents

Acknowledgments

Introduction

I ALZHEIMER’S DISEASE AND OTHER DEMENTIA

1 What’s Happening? The Experience of Alzheimer’s Disease and Other Dementia

Learn about common emotions and experiences of persons with dementia and why the Best Friends approach so successfully addresses them.

2 What Is Known? Diagnosis, Treatment, and Research

Find answers to key questions about Alzheimer’s disease and other dementia.

3 What Now? Steps to Take After a Diagnosis of Alzheimer’s Disease or Other Dementia

Begin mapping out your next steps and the best ways to tackle them after a diagnosis of an irreversible dementia has been made.

II THE BEST FRIENDS APPROACH

4 A New Start: The Art of Friendship

Discover how the elements of friendship provide a powerful new way to care for and relate to a person with dementia.

5 Memory Making: Honoring a Person’s Life Story

Collect the critical ingredients for creating a loving and constructive picture of the history and interests of your loved one, and then learn how to use this information in your everyday interactions.

6 The “Knack”: Basic Principles of Dementia Care

Discover the Elements of Knack—the skills that pave the way for successful caregiving—and see how to use them to handle common situations and problems that arise.

III THE BEST FRIENDS APPROACH IN ACTION

7 Connecting: Communicating with “Knack”

Use the Best Friends philosophy of communication to develop effective new tools for interacting with your loved one in everyday situations.

8 Being Together: Managing and Valuing Activities

Improve the quality of shared moments by making sure activities are meeting the needs of the person with dementia.

9 Inner Passage: Spiritual Journeying and Religion

Explore the possibilities for providing experiences that nurture the spirit throughout the course of the disease.

10 Finding Help: Navigating the Journey

Understand that you aren’t expected to do it all, and learn about the range of services you can access to support your caregiving efforts.

IV LIVING WITH DIGNITY

11 Self-Care: Being Your Own Best Friend

Make sure you are taking care of yourself and replenishing your own reserves, even while caring for another.

12 Transformations

See, finally, that it is possible to transform the many challenges of dementia into rewarding experiences and that the person can live a dignified life.

Resources

Organizations, Websites, and Recommended Readings

Biographies

About the Authors