CONTENTS

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Fixing Your Marriage Is Easier Than You Think

PART ONE

7 THINGS TO STOP

1. STOP CLINGING to Unrealistic Expectations

2. STOP OBSESSING on the Past

3. STOP DROWNING in Suspicion and Jealousy

4. STOP TRYING to Change Your Mate

5. STOP SEETHING in Anger and Resentment

6. STOP TOLERATING Compulsions and Addictions

7. STOP FOCUSING Only on Your Interests

PART TWO

7 THINGS TO START

8. START EMBRACING Friendship and Fun

9. START RESPONDING Romantically to Your Mate

10. START EXPRESSING Grace and Forgiveness

11. START AFFIRMING Your Mate’s Strengths

12. START SPENDING Money Responsibly

13. START PRACTICING Your Lifetime Vows

14. START SHOWING Respect No Matter What

PART THREE

7 MINUTES THAT MATTER MOST

15. The Three-Stranded Cord of Marriage

16. The Most Important Thing of All

Study Guide

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