Contents
PART ONE: WELCOME
1:
Who Is an Ethical Slut?
2:
Myths and Realities
3:
Our Beliefs
4:
Slut Styles
5:
Battling Sex Negativity
6:
Building a Culture of Consent
7:
Infinite Possibilities
PART TWO: THE PRACTICE OF SLUTHOOD
8:
Abundance
9:
Slut Skills
10:
Boundaries
11:
The Unethical Slut
12:
Flirting and Cruising
13:
Keeping Sex Safe
14:
Childrearing
PART THREE: NAVIGATING CHALLENGES
15:
Roadmaps through Jealousy
16:
Embracing Conflict
17:
Making Agreements
18:
Opening an Existing Relationship
PART FOUR: SLUTS IN LOVE
19:
Making Connection
20:
Couples and Groups
21:
The Single Slut
22:
The Ebb and Flow of Relationships
23:
Sex and Pleasure
24:
Public Sex, Group Sex, and Orgies
A SLUT’S GLOSSARY
FURTHER READING
ABOUT THE AUTHORS
INDEX
Exercises
Sluts We Know and Love
Some Affirmations to Try
Practice Makes Perfect
How Do You Experience Jealousy?
Reassurance
Fifteen Ways to Be Kind to Yourself
Treasures
Feelings Dyad
Eight Steps to Win-Win Conflict Resolution
What Is Anger Good For?
Hierarchy of Hard
The Twenty-Minute Fight
The Airport Game
A Healthy Breakup
The Process-Free Date
A Hot Date with Yourself
Yes, No, Maybe
More Fun with Your “Yes, No, Maybe” List
Get Loud