Chapter 1: The Relationship That Matters Most
1. “Facts on Father Absence,” National Fatherhood Initiative, accessed August 23, 2013, http://www.fatherhood.org/media/fatherhood-statistics.
2. If you want to know more of the effects—including child abuse, obesity, drug and alcohol abuse, and education—read more of this amazing study at “The Father Factor: Data on the Consequences of Father Absence and the Benefits of Father Involvement,” National Fatherhood Initiative, accessed August 21, 2013, http://www.fatherhood.org/media/consequences-of-father-absence-statistics.
3. Nancy Fowler, “Joblessness, jail, death keep many black fathers out of the picture,” The Art of Fatherhood, accessed August 23, 2013, https://www.stlbeacon.org/#!/content/26059/black_fatherhood_071612.
Chapter 2: Dads Do It Better Different
1. “O Be Careful Little Eyes,” author unknown, http://childbiblesongs.com/song-12-be-careful-little-eyes.shtml, accessed August 15, 2013.
Chapter 3: Know Your Duckling
1. Eckhard H. Hess, “‘Imprinting’ in Animals,” Scientific American 198:3 (March 1958): 81–90, accessed August 19, 2013, http://www.columbia.edu/cu/psychology/terrace/w1001/readings/hess.pdf.
2. Ibid.
3. “Imprinting,” AnimalBehaviour.net, http://animalbehaviour.net/Imprinting.htm, accessed August 21, 2013.
4. Ibid.
Chapter 4: Walking the Balance Beam
1. Lisa Belkin, “Your Lying, Cheating, Stealing Teens,” Motherlode (blog), New York Times, December 3, 2008, http://parenting.blogs.nytimes.com/2008/12/03/dirty-rotten-teenage-scoundrels.
2. Lisa Belkin, “Calling the Cops on Your Child,” Motherlode (blog), New York Times, March 24, 2009, http://parenting.blogs.nytimes.com/2009/03/24/calling-the-cops-on-your-child/?_r=0.
3. Sir Walter Scott, “Marmion: A Tale of Flodden Field,” Canto Sixth: The Battle (New York: Houghton Mifflin, 1884), 287.
Chapter 5: The Birds, the Bees, and “the Talk”
1. Genesis 2.
2. “Abduction Information,” Heidi Search Center, accessed August 17, 2013, http://heidisearchcenter.com/abduction-information.
3. Adoree Durayappah, “5 Scientific Reasons Why Breakups Are Devastating,” The Blog, Huffpost Healthy, August 18, 2013, http://www.huffingtonpost.com/adoree-durayappah-mappmba/breakups_b_825613.html.
Chapter 7: The Critical Eye
1. Robert Mark Kamen, Mark Miller, Harvey Weitzman, A Walk in the Clouds, directed by Alfonso Arau (Los Angeles: 20th Century Fox, 1995).
2. Felix Salten, Perce Pearce, and Larry Morey, Bambi, directed by David Hand (Hollywood, CA: Walt Disney Studios, 1942).
3. Gail Sheehy, Hillary’s Choice (New York: Ballantine, 2000), 22.
4. Ibid., 28, 22.
5. Hillary Rodham Clinton, It Takes A Village, 10th anniversary ed. (New York: Simon & Schuster, 2006), 32.
6. Sheehy, Hillary’s Choice, 23.
Chapter 8: A Cake Without Sugar
1. Sue Kidd, “Don’t Let It End This Way,” reprinted in Focus on the Family, January 1985.
Chapter 9: Are You a Man or a Mouse? Squeak Up!
1. Alan Ebert, “Fathers and Daughters,” Good Housekeeping, June 1992.
2. Ibid.
3. Ibid.
Chapter 10: If You See a Turtle on a Fencepost . . .
1. Taylor Swift, vocal performance of “You Belong with Me,” by Taylor Swift and Liz Rose, http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VuNIsY6JdUw, accessed September 6, 2013.
2. Taylor Swift, “I Knew You Were Trouble,” by Taylor Swift, Max Martin, and Shellback, http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vNoKguSdy4Y, accessed September 6, 2013.
3. Robert Goldman and Stephen Papson, Nike Culture: The Sign of the Swoosh (Thousand Oaks, CA: Sage Publications, 1998), 49.
Chapter 11: Time Is Tickin’
1. DC Talk, “Time Is . . . ,” http://www.lyricstime.com/dc-talk-time-is-lyrics.html, accessed August 16, 2013.