Contents

Acknowledgments

Introduction:

Daughters Are a Little Weird (And Even When They’re Not Weird, They’re a Little Strange)

The quote “Men are from Mars, and women are from Venus” is right on the mark, but that doesn’t mean you can’t find common ground as dad and daughter.

ONE: The Relationship That Matters Most

Why you matter, especially to your daughter, and what’s missing when you’re AWOL.

TWO: Dads Do It Better Different

It might not be what Mom would do, but you, Dad, can still get the job done . . . and done well.

THREE: Know Your Duckling

Why it’s important for Papa Duck to know each young’un in the flock individually.

FOUR: Walking the Balance Beam

There’s nothing more important in life than living a disciplined, balanced lifestyle—for you or your daughter.

FIVE: The Birds, the Bees, and “the Talk”

Talking turkey to your developing daughter about sex, the male perspective, and responsibility.

SIX: Help! Civil War Just Broke Out in the Family Room

What to do when the females in your house are at war and you’re waving the truce flag.

SEVEN: The Critical Eye

What makes you good in the workplace can work against you at home. Here’s how to turn things around.

EIGHT: A Cake Without Sugar

Why buying your daughter stuff and popping in and out of her life will never satisfy what she wants most—you.

NINE: Are You a Man or a Mouse? Squeak Up!

There’s no higher compliment than, “I want to marry someone just like you, Dad.” How to help your daughter get the kind of man you want her to have.

TEN: If You See a Turtle on a Fencepost . . .

. . . you’ll know that critter didn’t get there by itself. Why your daughter needs your encouragement to succeed in life.

ELEVEN: Time Is Tickin’

Your girl will grow faster than a speeding bullet. How to handle the transitions and fine-tune your priorities.

Conclusion: A Dad’s Lasting Legacy

You leave an indelible imprint on your daughter’s heart. What will yours be?

A Good Dad’s Quick Reference Guide

The ABCs of a Good Dad

Notes

About Dr. Kevin Leman

Resources by Dr. Kevin Leman