Contents

Preface

Acknowledgments

Introduction

1 First Lessons

Adolescent Brain Development 101

Learning and Communication Styles

2 Mindfulness

Educator Notes

Lessons

Energy Follows Intention

Anger Comes from Fear

Owning Our Stories

Mindfulness and Conflict

The Trap of Superlatives

Living Your Values

3 Compassion

Educator Notes

Lessons

Seeing Others in Pain

Differing Perspectives

Name-Calling v. Owning Your Emotions

Myths and Misperceptions about Bullying

What Don’t You Know?

Self-Compassion

Alternative Forms of Wealth

4 Positive Mindset

Educator Notes

Lessons

Altruism

Deserving Joy

Finding Joy

Connection

The Three Crowns

Finding Meaning

5 Self-Worth

Educator Notes

Lessons

Comparison as a Form of Self-Judgment

Shame

Fitting In

Platonic Ideals

Pressure to Perform

6 Stress, Anxiety, and Fear

Educator Notes

Lessons

Going It Alone

Fear, Wisdom, and Equanimity

How We Freak Ourselves Out

The Power of Story

Rewiring the Brain to Chill

Appendix A: Activities

Mindfulness worksheet

Compassion

Positive Mindset

Self-Worth

Stress, Anxiety, and Fear

Additional Activities

Appendix B: Skill Reference Guide to Lessons

About the Author