Index

adrenalin here, here, here

advice, dealing with unwanted here

contradictory advice here

grandparents here

judgement of other parents here

trusting your own style here

advice on mental wellbeing

see anxiety; exercises – Anna’s activity alerts; psychological advice, Dr Reetta’s; support, post-natal

afterbirth here

antenatal classes/meetings here

antenatal depression here, here

antenatal support here, here, here, here, here

anti-anxiety/anti-depression medication here, here, here, here

anxiety here, here

Anna’s experiences here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here

appetite here, here

going out with your new baby here

physical side effects of here, here, here

post-natal anxiety (dads’) here, here

post-natal anxiety (mums’) here, here, here, here, here

during pregnancy here, here, here

see also anti-anxiety/depression medication; support, getting post-natal

Anxiety UK here

apps, useful here, here, here

artificially breaking waters here

assisted births here

avoidance behaviour here

baby blues here

see also anxiety

baby books/blogs here, here, here, here, here, here

baby classes here, here, here, here

see also friends, making new mum

back-to-back labour here

beta-endorphins here, here, here

bipolar disorder here

birth experience

Anna’s experience here, here, here, here

assisted here

get in the zone here

mum and baby bond here, here, here, here, here

owning your experience here

pain and pain relief here, here, here, here, here

pride in achievement here, here, here

traumatic here, here, here, here, here

vaginal vs. planned C-section here

birth plans here, here

birth reflection service, NHS here, here, here

Birth Trauma Association (BTA) here, here, here

bleeding, post-birth here, here

bloating, post-birth here

bottle feeding see feeding your baby

breastfeeding here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here

breathing, controlled here, here, here, here, here

breech births here

Breen, Dana here

Caesarians (C-sections) here, here, here, here

childcare here, here, here

childhood influences, own here

Citizens Advice Bureau (CAB) here

colleagues, work here, here

communicating with your baby here, here, here, here, here, here, here

comparing yourself to others here, here, here, here

competitive parenting here

confidence and self-esteem here, here, here, here, here

constipation here, here

contractions here, here, here, here, here, here

counselling/talking therapy here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here

dad, becoming a here, here, here, here, here, here

doubts about here

getting support here, here

insecurities and FOMO here

keeping in contact here, here

post-natal depression and anxiety here

post-natal groups and classes here

relationship with your partner here, here, here, here

returning to work here

work-life balance here, here, here

depression

antenatal here, here

post-natal here, here, here, here, here, here

see also anxiety; emotions

disabilities, babies with here, here

Disclosure and Barring Service (DBS) registration here

doulas here

emergency C-sections here

emotions here, here

letting go of negative feelings here

mood tracking here

employment see work, returning to

epidurals here, here, here

episiotomy here, here

exercise, physical here, here, here, here

exercises – Anna’s activity alerts

be a detective here

bye bye ‘blah’ birth here

celebrate your inner supermum here

conquering a panic attack here

fake it til you make it here

getting to know you here

how’s your mood? here

let it go here

let’s get it on here

let’s get physical here

memory moments here

notice the nice stuff here

own it! here

right back atcha here

who do you think you are here

expanding your family here, here

expressing breast milk here, here

fatherhood see dad, becoming a

Fear of Missing Out (FOMO) here

feeding your baby here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here

fight, freeze or flight mode here, here

finances here, here, here, here, here, here, here

food, drink and your wellbeing here, here, here, here

forceps delivery here, here

formula vs. breastfeeding see feeding your baby

friends

babies and changing relationships here

making new mum friends here

see also advice, dealing with unwanted; support, post-natal

generalised anxiety disorder (GAD) here, here, here

GPs here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here

hallucinations here

health anxiety here

health visitors here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here

home with baby, first day here

hormones here, here, here, here, here

housework here, here

hynobirthing here, here, here, here

hypochondria see health anxiety

identity, losing your old here

illnesses, baby here

induced births here

iron supplements here, here, here, here

Keeping in Touch (KIT) days here

Local Sure Start Children’s Centres here

lochia (post-birth bleed) here, here

love/connection, mum and baby here, here, here, here, here, here

maternal mental health midwives here

Maternity Allowance (MA) here

maternity leave here, here, here

see also work, returning to

maternity nurses, professional here

medication here, here, here

memories, traumatic here, here

Mencap here

mental health see antenatal depression; anxiety; emotions; exercises – Anna’s activity alerts; hormones; post-natal depression; psychological advice, Dr Reetta’s

midwives here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here

milk production here, here, here, here

Mind here, here

mindfulness here, here

mood tracking here, here, here

multiple baby births here, here, here, here

mum groups see baby classes; friends, making new mum

nannies here

nappy changing here

National Childbirth Trust (NCT) here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here

National Health Service (NHS) here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here

National Institute for Health and Care Excellence (NICE) here, here

negative self-talk, combatting here

night feeds here

night out, first here

nightmares here

nipples and boobs, changes to here

nurseries see childcare

nutrition here, here, here, here

obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD) here, here, here, here

oestrogen here

oxytocin here, here, here

pain and pain relief, birth here, here, here, here

pain, post-birth here

PANDAS Foundation here, here

panic attacks here, here, here, here

parenting guides here, here, here, here, here, here

parenting, the reality of here

parenting your own way here, here, here

partner, relationship with your here, here, here, here, here, here, here

see also dad, becoming a

paternity leave here

pelvic floor muscles here, here

perineum tears here

see also vaginal pain and tears

placenta delivery here, here

placenta praevia here

planned C-sections here, here

post-natal anxiety see anxiety

post-natal depression here, here, here, here, here, here

see also anxiety

post-natal distress here

post-natal doulas here

post-natal support see support, post-natal

post-natal team see health visitors

post-partum haemorrhage here

post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) here, here

postpartum psychosis (PP) here

premenstrual syndrome (PMS) here

pride in birth achievement here, here, here

private and specialist midwives here

progesterone here

prolactin here

prostaglandin pessaries here

protection instinct here, here, here, here, here

psychological advice, Dr Reetta’s

after birth mental well-being here

after birth physical well-being here

challenges of fatherhood here

the day after birth here

getting to know your baby here

getting used to the new you here

keeping an open mind here

thorny question of work here

trusting yourself and listening to advice here

psychotherapy here

see also counselling/talking therapy

Relate here

relationships

changing friendships here

unhelpful patterns of behaviour here

with your baby here, here, here, here, here, here, here

with your partner here, here, here, here, here, here, here

see also advice, dealing with unwanted; separation anxiety; support, post-natal

relaxation skills here, here

see also breathing, controlled

routines and anxiety here, here

self-care moments/me time here, here, here, here

see also work, going back to

self-esteem and confidence here, here, here, here, here

separation anxiety here, here, here

sex, post-birth here, here, here

single parenting here, here

skin to skin contact here

sleep cycles, baby here, here

sleep deprivation here, here, here, here, here, here

sleep nannies here

slings/baby carriers here

socialising

first night out here

first trips out with your baby here

making new mum friends here

when you’ve had your baby here

see also friends

state benefits here

Statutory Adoption Pay or Leave (SAP) here

Statutory Maternity Pay (SMP) here

stay-at-home parents here, here

stitches, vaginal here, here, here

support, post-natal here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here, here

see also friends, making new mum

syntocinon drips here

talking therapy see counselling/talking therapy

toilet, going to the here

tokophobia here

trauma, birth here, here, here, here, here

see also anxiety

trusting yourself here, here, here

twins and triplets etc. here, here, here, here

uterine contractions here

vaginal birth vs. planned C-sections here

vaginal pain and tears here, here, here, here

ventouse here

visitors, dealing with post-birth here

water retention here

waters, artificially breaking here

work, partner returning to (going solo) here

work, returning to here, here, here, here, here

see also childcare; separation anxiety